I am a young (27) white male that has a fiancee (we're going to marry in 2021), car and a steady job...

I am a young (27) white male that has a fiancee (we're going to marry in 2021), car and a steady job, but I am addicted to the most addictive poison of all, porn. How the fuck do I quit this. We barely have sex anymore because I jerk off every time she's not home

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Try watching porn together.

she's not into porn at all, besides how fucking degenerate would THAT be

Just stop fapping man have some god damned restraint

Quit using the internet when your gf is not home. It is hard, but not impossible

Whenever you're watching porn, visualise your child.
Now when you're cumming to porn, your child is having his arm torn off.
Every time you cum to porn another limb is torn off, eviscerated, and every time your child will say "no daddy, please stop".

its not that fucking easy lol
jesus you are a sick man

You need to learn how to say no to yourself.

Just
Stop
Watching.

Just force yourself to jerk off without it. Even if you think about porn you’ve watched you’ll retrain yourself to jerk it without real visual stimulation. Then focus on no fap if you want to.

I'd recommend being forward, and telling your wife you're going to seek help for a porn addiction and then do so. It might be a little awkward and she will probably be mad or grossed out at first, but at least you're taking initiative to fix the problem. Stop being a nigger and just do something about it, mate.

You wanna stop porn?
That's how you do it.
Disgust yourself.

I just deleted 220 GB of porn.

God, I am going to regret it tomorrow.

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Watch porn with your girlfriend, its a lot of fun

Tell her your problem or seduce her to do the kinky stuff you watch in your porn.

I watch sexy teenage traps. Yeah.

>The most addictive poison of all
faggot

literally just stop.

Grow some fucking balls and stop draining them instantly.

You are disgusting.

Not degenerate at all. Hold hands and watch maybe 5-10 minutes. It refocuses your minds off your other daily distractions and sort of hypnotizes you into a sex state of mind. Then you turn off the porn and fuck.

Don't use it as a crutch or as a replacement for sex, just use it as a spark or as lubrication. You barely have sex anymore. You need to program your minds back into that frame.

Basically this OP

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Just stop watching porn. It takes strong will power. Every time you even think of opening up porn, get off the computer and go for a walk. Even if you run into a picture here and have a momentary thought of "i'm going to open up a new incognito tab. Just stop, and go do something else unrelated to any media.

Its going to be tough. You're going to actually have to want to quite. You're going to tell yourself that this is the last time before you actually start quitting. You're going to try to tell yourself to start tomorrow instead of now. Don't do this. Right now, starting today April 2, 2019 you are no longer going to fap to porn. Note that this does not mean you can't fap, just don't do it to porn. Remember this as its important for the mindset.

Once you get going its going to get easier to stop yourself but the urges will get even harder. Whenever that happens just distract yourself with a work out. Tire yourself out so much that you don't even want to masturbate. When you do relapse, do not allow yourself to go more than once. You will realize that it even though you have been saving up for a week, it really doesn't feel that good. You'll wonder why you relapsed for something that didn't even feel as good as you expected. You can use this to either become a full relapse degenerate and fap 10 times or use it to move beyond masturbation.

Don't marry and go find a a boyfriend creep

Won't help, he's programmed himself to fuck his hand. He needs to reprogram himself to fuck his wife. His wife almost certainly needs reprogramming, too, at this point.

Thats just going to get him turned on at the thought of mutilating his child

The first three days are the hardest

it's not THAT bad, we have sex 2 times a week
yeah thats what I thought

>worst meme flag asking for advice
go away

Begin to taper yourself off. How many times do you watch it each day? If it's 3x/day, then for the next two weeks, only do it 2x/day. Then, for the next two weeks only do it 1x/day. Etc. Until you can begin to wean yourself off of it. Then, before you realize it, you'll be doing it every other day, then can move from videos to pictures, then pictures to imagination, then imagination to being chaste. A lot of us have made the transition.

> Why do this in two week stints?
It roughly takes two weeks to start a habbit. After that, it's only psychological. Thus, making it move effective to wean yourself off in two week stints.

> I can't even get hard unless I watch "x."

That's a good thing. Just give yourself some time to take care of business. After a week or so, you'll begin to notice yourself being aroused by less "hardcore" stuff. It's your mind making the transition. Just be patient with yourself and don't overdo it. Too many people want to rush into too much stuff too fast. Doing this will cause you to relapse. Just take it slow and easy and you'll be fine. Trust me, I made the transition a while back and have noticed a HUGE difference in what stimulates me psychologically. Not to mention, I just feel different. I can't really explain that. Perhaps it's just some mental thing. Who knows.

Either way, good luck user.

The mind is the gateway to your heart. Guard it at all costs.

Porn is a fucking menace. I would say 95+% of men are addicted, medically speaking, to pornography. And an addict is never "cured". The Jew has really fucking sunk its teeth into the western man. You will never be cured but you can limit the behaviour. I've recently curbed the behaviour immensely during and following a period of time when I had a lot of engineering projects in a short time span. I don't really have the desire to watch porn much lately even after I haven't been so busy. Consider dedicating a great deal of your time to some projects and developing some tangible results (designs or products).

Do you seek women online as well? Porn is one of my vices and another is obtaining the trust of women online to get them to send nudes to me. I have curbed both bad habits lately. As a result of these behaviors though, I could never become a public figure or work for a company like Google.

Sounds good.

lmao pathetic eurofag
stop drinking the basedmilk

no, but I fantasize about fucking young (17-20) girls

fucking jews ruined my mind

He isnt telling you the full truth.
Op has a nigger dick fetish.

guys how about working out? will that help? I used to work out a lot when I was a teenager and I kinda liked it

Shit user your problem isn’t just porn. You’re fuckin gay dude.

Surrender to a Higher Power

Do it for her user, that is what made me stop, i always thought, "do it for her".

Have your girlfriend put your dick in a cage and make you worship her feet.

You need to restrain yourself. Perhaps consider meditation and when your fiancee comes home grab her and whisper NOW in her ear.

>take pics and vids of fiance
>jerk off to those instead
>fuck her brains out every chance you get
Honestly dude, if you're not constantly thinking of every trick in the book to get in your gf's pussy, it's done or a hair's width from being done. Should have picked a hotter girl.

I guess you don't get it, do you
even those who have supermodels tend to get bored of her just because thats how your brain works

Nah, that's not how a straight man's brain works at all. I'm thinking is on to something.

>STOP
>WATCHING
>PORN

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Try jerking off without porn you retard.

I did two things to stop watching porn. The first was to think about all the shit porn does to your brain while you watch it. Nothing made me softer than the thought of being subtlely mind controlled into being a cuck and a faggot. The second was to not go cold turkey, but to transition into something less damaging. Only use /s/ if you have urges to fap. I don't fully subscribe to nofap so I think this is fine. You'll naturally find yourself fapping less now that the mind control aspect of it has all but dissipated. It's worth it.

I quit porn completely by trying chastity with my girlfriend. She had a almost complete power over my dick for 10 months.
After that haven't been too interested to porn. I watch porn some times and some perverted anime series. But mostly i just want her. Even more then that i want be dominated by her beauty, hypnosis and power.
I worship her as my goddess. She is a actual goddess. Because she is a amazing and intelligent perfectionist. I would die or murder for her.

>swede's solution is to become a cuck
Pottery

Just how sick is the stuff you watch?

Very.
It's totally hot.

That is normal.

Kinda off topic but ok.

get another job. work your ass off all day so when you get home all you can think of is sleep.
You wont fap if you're clinically tired

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go to nofap.com join us brother

Get Hypnotized

Just stop watching forn with a bit of stop fapping, you can still fap as long as you don't watch porn, just contain the urge, really not so hard after the first two weeks or so.

>has a gf
>still watches porn
Imagine being this kiked

ask your fiancee to lock away every computer, laptop or phone so that you cant consume more porn.
go outside and read some books. If she really loves you she will help you. Porn addiction is hard but you can make it.

and to add something: When you cant talk with your partner about serious issues you should question the whole relationship

First post, worst post. Don't do this OP. Solution for stopping heroine isn't just do it with your partner..

You may not have the mental strength not to fap but I know you physical strength to move your hand. So put a mouse trap by your computer, whenever you open up porn stick your hand in the mouse trap. Your mind will begin to associate porn with pain and possibly fear if you do this every time. Also you should password lock all the porn sites you go on with long hard to remember passwords to make it harder for you to do it on impulse.

Im going no fab atleast no porn today brother....i have had enough...i want to become more mentally healthy and gain wizard powers...next i will quit smoking....you can cut back at first you can quit too man

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I'm a heterosexual male and I'm addicted to hardcore gay porn.

Here's how I quit porn dude.
Start by limiting yourself to pictures only.
It will force you to be more mentally present and it will reduce the sensory overload you're used to having with video and audio.
No matter your temptation, do not give into the video porn jew.

Over time it gets easier to hold an erection and please your lady. Then try to cut back even further, limiting the pictures you use to PG13 stuff, like women in lingerie and bikinis. At the same time, try going lingerie shopping with your fiance. Look for stuff you've liked the most in the pictures. Slowly try to replace the pg13 porn her body and the lingerie she wears

Finally, cut out the pictures all together.
It took me a full year to go from video porn to almost completely never using anything to fap but my imagination.
Best part is that when I'm flapping, my imagination goes to some of the better sex experiences I've had with my gf (and other girls too). It also causes me to think on what it seemed like she enjoyed the most which causes me to try that stuff with her again. All of this make sex with her that much more fun and engaging for both of us.
I've even brought a few experiences we've had together and asked her if she wanted to try something like that again.
>you know I was mastubating the oths right and thought of when we did "x" thing, and I remembered how much you seemed to like it, am I right? Want to try it again?
Stuff like that.

Find a man to confide in as a brother in arms. It's always been this way, we just atomized our family structure and fucked it all up.

cut the internet/telephone cable, and burn the phone and PC, laptop everything, i guarantee it will work

the fuck dude
you're a fag, definitely can see why you would keep this on the down low from your future "wife"

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> 220 gb
pleb