>meet girl, she has a long distance boyfriend >become close friends >she cheats on her boyfriend with me >they break up, it was coming anyway but I was the tipping point >we continue hooking up, sleep together 5 or 6 times a week at this point, hang out other times with no sex involved >she claims she really wants to be single
It's been over a month of this. I never had a girlfriend before and I am scared of commitment so I was fine with the arrangement of just being friends with benefits. The only problem is I would be extremely jealous if/when she fucks someone else but I can't really say anything. She is by far my closest friend in life right now, she has a bigger social circle than me but its clear she is also close to me and it is more than just sex.
Would you mind describing this girl? I might actually be the ex bf. I’m over it, no hard feelings, but I’d even give you advice if it’s her
Angel Gonzalez
Cute short brunette. Nice ass.
Jaxon Fisher
Any tattoos by chance?
Best advice I can give you is that (if this is the same bitch) it started as FWB for me too. Never had a gf either so I said fuck it and got serious with her. I knew it was a bad move and would fall apart, partially because she ended up moving to Massachusetts, and you seem to have a similar feeling yourself. It slowly turned to constant fights (even before she moved). It ended up being a huge regret for me for a while. Sure I had some great sex, but in the end I was really fucked up with women after I finally left her. I would suggest you stay FWB a bit longer just to get some more sex in but start searching for a girl you can actually date. I think you’d be much happier.
Granted you can also try to get her to date you by just seeing if she wants to go do something small and progression into more relationship type things until you both confirm it’s exclusive, but if she cheated on someone else she’ll cheat on you too man
Blake Ward
Who dat hoe
Evan Ross
If she cheated on someone to be with you she'll cheat on you as well. Learn from this and avoid getting into this type of situation again. Source: Went through the same situation a few years back.
Carson Martin
As a chaser to this guy, FWB and relationship material should ABSOLUTELY be considered mutually exclusive. You don't want relationship material for a FWB and you don't want FWB material for a relationship.
It's fine to fuck chicks while the legs are open, just keep your relationship goggles off.
Ethan Gutierrez
Wait, what the fuck I know a girl like that... we’ve been talking for like a month or so by now, she was describing this sort of scenario I didn’t understand and thought that was a hypothetical scenario, she has a beautiful ass and a infinite tattoo on her left wrist FYI
Hudson Nelson
If you're fucking her she already belongs to you. The only way she'd fuck someone else is not getting enough masculine energy from you. And the more you tentatively hang back, or needily cling on, the less masculine energy you give off.
So if you want her to be your gf, just continue to enjoy fucking her without being needy and she will come to emotionally rely on you and desire your affection and time more and more.
Cameron Howard
What color/race is this chick?
Adam Williams
Damn you all know each other in massachusetts huh.
William Nelson
wanna know how I know ur not 18?
Christian Garcia
Yes.
Gabriel Phillips
Gay
Eli Rogers
Well she’s not 100% white, we’ve never talked about races tho, she’s not totally Caucasian, there must be some Latino or even black in there mixed up as well, straight hair but it tends to curl on the end side, maybe we’re talking about the same girl, we might not, I don’t know, you’ll be the judge
Chase Ward
No mine was a darkie. I do love the similarities here though
I think we can and should all learn that these types of girls make for great fuck buddies, but bad girlfriends.
Jack Gutierrez
Indeed, she’s great in bed, I don’t really want her as a girlfriend, but damn I have thought on that a couple of times
Aiden Lee
I know the feel all too well man. These FWB can sometimes be great and fun friends, the sex aside they’re just really cool girls sometimes. But fuck man dating them becomes hell after a short while
Christopher Cox
OP here my girl is half white half Latina as well.
Might be some pattern here ...
Michael Gutierrez
Run.
Been in this exact scenario 3 times and it did not work all 3 times.
Listen closely to this saying: > If they will cheat with you, they will cheat on you
Girls that leave a guy for you, are gonna do the same shit to you user. That's how it goes every time user.
Camden Price
Based.
Michael Taylor
It depends. I had a FWB for a few months and then we started dating and were together for 2years. We actually were very compatible, but I know it doesn’t always work out like that
Hudson Brooks
How did the conversation go to where you went from friends with benefits to dating
Colton Cook
>in love with a girl who cheats Hahahahahaha hahaha Hahaha hahaha hhhhaaaahhahahahahaha Oh, user...
what the fuck is going on here? so you all fucked the same girl?
Cooper Mitchell
No, it just seems many girls are all super alike. We all went through the same thing. The Massachusetts thing was just an odd coincidence.
Alexander Kelly
Lad think about this.
She cheated on her boyfriend with you. Therefor she is not a loyal person. So, even if you and her had a relationship, what’s stopping her from cheating on you?
Once a cheater always a cheater
Eli Harris
She's playing a game. She wants to be taken. But fuck you for cheating fucker.
Cameron Baker
To be fair it seemed like it was a bit hard on her to cheat on her boyfriend with me. We met through a mutual friend and became pretty close friends before anything sexual even happened, but it was obvious we both wanted to fuck, he obviously was not satisfying her.
She broke up with her boyfriend the next day after the first time we had sex.
Brayden Harris
She should've left him when she had started developing intimate feelings with you and felt what was coming on.
Luis Edwards
>sleep together 5 or 6 times per week >hang out other times Dude, that is a relationship. This is not a FWB even is that's what you're calling it. If you're sleeping with a woman multiple times per week AND you're also doing other stuff together, you're in a relationship. The only thing that differs your relationship with this woman from a 'normal' relationship is that you haven't agreed on exclusivity yet.
Jonathan Ramirez
>does a terrible thing by taking another man's woman >gets surprised when she doesn't want commitment
are you expecting a promiscuous person to be any less promiscuous?
OP here, the thing is that I never really had a girlfriend, and the feeling of affection from a girl a sexy girl who I like (we genuinely do have comparable personalities, interests ect) is on another fucking level. I dont want to go back to not having it. Maybe I will get bored of it eventually but my bros... if you are incel you really dont even know what you are missing. Like I had casual 1 night stands and even tinder friends with benefits before shit dont compare. It's not even just the sex, but the affection is fucking addicting. Tonight is the first night in like 5 days we haven't spent together I already miss it.
Austin Taylor
This is fucked man
Cooper Watson
She's going to hurt you. Like, listen to me, because I'm a woman. Some women are fucked up and can't give you commitment. And she's one of them. Bang her a few times and then let that ass go. There will always be other asses, I promise.
Ethan Butler
This my children is why you should never do FWB. I've been in this exact same situation and fuck me did it ruin me mentally. We were perfect soulmates but she just didn't want anything more with me.
She even went as far as to tell me to forget her because she's found someone she actually found new love. With whom she broke up again and found some other guy overseas lol.
And oh, after a year she came back. Not for love but just couldn't live without having me in her life. So yeah so much for soulmates shit.
Adam Smith
I've been there. This exact same feel. The girl gave me insane amount of affection right off the bat. It was something I needed my entire life, and it was like from a fucking movie (think the scenes in BR2049). It will hurt like hell.
Like says - she'll hurt you and the best thing you can do it let go. We both know you won't, but it needs to be said anyway.
It is. In my case the girl straight up admitted later that she was just transferring her feelings for her bf onto me. It was a relationship, right down to her telling her friends about me and acting all fascinated. Until she realized her feelings towards me are wrong. I grew onto her eventually anyway but nothing right came out of it.
And I'm fine with that. She's too fucked up to be my wife, even if she has so many good things about her. A massive cognitive dissonance about her.
Gabriel Jackson
She’s waiting to get back with her ex you fool.
Easton Butler
She is. Likely has feelings toward him. Women work in funny ways.
