Anyone know where to find dating advice that isn't PUA or redpill shit?

Anyone know where to find dating advice that isn't PUA or redpill shit?

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Look into RooshV's Game.

the alternative to PUA is mainstream bullshit like "buy her flowers" and "find her a nice bull"

Have you tried beeing yourself? That's all the dating advice that exists.

*be confident about yourself
That's it. It's not enough to bee yourself. No woman is going to be attracted to you if you're insecure about who you are.
You need to be comfortable about who you are and confident enough to not give a duck about what others might think about you.

Hey as a qt florist girl/professional matador, I resent that

This looks like pickup shit.

Is every outlet for dating advice on the entire internet only pickup shit?

My goal is to find a serious relationship and settle down. I'm not looking to bang a bunch of sluts.

It is THE pickup artist shit. And it's of very little help to you because it's basically a guide for getting your dick wet by any means necessary, and I despise it.

There's a lot about dating that you can't pick up from a book, unfortunately. But what I would recommend is to look at relationships out there that you know are working well, and to then take notes. Truth be told, dating is not all that much different to making friends, you just kiss them at some point.

kek nice

Lol PUA faggot go suck roosh dick

he didnt mean that kind of bull user also please leave its obvious you dont belong here.
girlschase its a pretty good one you need to be wary of the bullshitters on that site but on terms of the psychology aspect of woman is on point.

How about asking a trusted friend who is good at it?

I'm gonna have to say reddit's dating related subs on this one gaylord.

>Anyone know where to fine dating advice that doesn't work.

You can either love women, or you can understand them. Your question is fundamentally impossible. My advice to you is to explore what traits in your personality make you so scared to explore the truth.

Socialize first. Date later.
You guys have a nasty habit of sizing up every girl you meet as a potential life partner and I promise they don't like it

you're on Jow Forums so ask here retard.
t. loser that lost his virginity at 21 and is now 30 banging 19 year olds

How to socialize?

Find people on your level and interact with them.

If this is unclear or you're not able to make it happen, I'd suggest very highly that you seek therapy, sadly. I am just a guy, we all are here, nobody will have the tools to socially readjust you as you may need.

Stop looking for dating advice and focus on advice how to be a better person, sorting out your life and so on. Alternatively just fucking live and pay attention. You can learn 99% of the shit there is by being observant and self-reflective.

Beeing Urself implies some comfort with who you are.

I was being facetious, kind of, at least. I actually socialize semi-regularly, but we're all nerd sperglord dudes, so there's that. I assume it's the wrong kind of socializing for the specific purpose in question.

No, just go out and meet people. It's a numbers game. Get out, find more, meet more. Talk to more people.

That's how I ended up with mine. Had I not made a friend of whom I did we may never have met.
It's a numbers game. You can't sit there and get discouraged and you can't take every loss straight to your heart.

youtube.com/watch?v=DH9nqX9sYUs#t=80

What if you've been playing the numbers game for decades and got nothing?

And seemingly there is nothing wrong with you, everyone tells you its a matter of time and you've got nothing to worry about in terms of personality/behaviour/whatever.

What do then? Clock is ticking after all.