How do you deal with a massive difference in sex drive in a relationship?

I’m sure he’d change his mind if he ended up in jail and was introduced to a kind of sex he doesn’t like.

Get grindr, any dude can get dicked down if your standards are low enough.

Fuck you beta bitch
Grow a pair lmao

Different genitalia. If i was woman i would enjoy it as a man i dont. What is up with your logic.

I'm not usually a violent or malicious person but every time I see someone spouting incel beliefs, there is a small part of me that wishes they'd get non-violently raped.

There are also men who won't cheat on you, beat you and aren't so deeply incompatible with you.

I kept dating a guy just because he loved me and he wasn't terrible, but we weren't really compatible.
I'm dating a guy I actually like now and there's such a huge difference in the way I feel that I am thankful I had the courage to break up.

Sorry but i dont want to fuck fat ugly girls.

No

There doesnt exist non-violent rape. That's why it's called rape. Low IQ confirmed?

There are other guys that could love you without fucking you as much
Break up with him but keep in mind that most guys want at least a bit of sex, asexual people are rare

>non-violent rape
So if a guy got you drunk until you were black out and then fucked you in the ass when you weren't aware and couldn't right back, you wanted it? I guess that makes you a faggot cus that would definitely be rape to me.

You choose to be celibate. In this day and age getting sex is easier than ever, if you actually want it you get it.

I really dont think you understand what you just said. Please re read it again and think this time okay sweetie?

I didnt choose to be in celibacy and in this day and age is indeed getting sex easy i just dont want to have sex with roasty who had 980 dicks in her. I value my health.

So you've got standards.

LMAOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO

If not wanting fat ugly smelly roasty is standard then yes i do. What i want from woman? Just not to be fat. Is that hard?

What about a normal girl that had 5-6 dicks inside her?

Yep, just another entitled special snowflake who thinks a 10/10 virgin needs to magically appear in his basement without lifting a finger. You have chosen celibacy.

Fat and riding the cock carousel is two different things

Two is too much. I guess non sluts are pretty rare these days.

>10/10 virgin needs to magically appear in his basement without lifting a finger.

Virgin? Yes. 10/10? Nope. I can settle for 4/10 easily.

Yea my standard just updated. Not fat and had only one dick in her which must be mine.

I do genuinely love the guy I’m with.

And finding a guy just willing to date me was next to an impossible mission, not to speak of someone who’s also that sweet, beautiful and lovely.

Gay men with no sex drive are not exactly a dime in a dozen.

If I hadn’t had my doubts already, this post would have convinced me you aren’t worth wasting an intelligent thought on.

When we started dating he was on antidepressants that made him unable, and he was happy that I’m fine with that. We still don’t exactly have sex often, he’s got deathgrip and he has unintentionally conditioned himself to only ejaculate in very specific conditions while doing it to himself.

There are no gay asexual men. Someone with as little sex drive as he has is as good as it gets.

So you are involuntarily celibate because you choose to be pickier than you can afford?

Poor baby.

If you think lubing up a cock and sliding it into someone is automatically violent, you're a feminazi. If you think having sex with a limp body without doing any actual harm to it is violent, you're a retard. And if you don't think it's fair, you're a faggot. So which is it?

>Having taken two dicks makes you a slut

You'll be a very lonely man and good. They say everyone deserves love. You don't deserve shit. You have to work for it you betanigger. You would be better off chemically castrating yourself before you produce any offspring by some miracle of a chance. I highly doubt your nutsacks are going to produce the next Einstein.

>it's fair
Supposed to be "it's rape", kek.

>If I hadn’t had my doubts already, this post would have convinced me you aren’t worth wasting an intelligent thought on

There was never intelligent thought in the first place

>So you are involuntarily celibate because you choose to be pickier than you can afford?

Im able to afford girlfriend but my standards which are NOT FAT and not slut girl are apparently too much and impossible.

Not all holes are lubed from start so i think shoving down object down butt is violent act. So is doing it to unconcious body.

Two plus is slut.

Good. Never enjoyed living in this world anyway.

>Two plus is slut
No.
Your "slut threshold" is too low and unrealistic, that's what make your "not fat and not slut" standard impossible

>Your "slut threshold" is too low and unrealistic
Yea. Its absolutely impossible to find girl who is not slut. Im completly delusional.

Your sick virgin fetish is why you haven't got girls. You need to get rid of it.

>I do genuinely love him

You want your cake and to eat it too you disgusting catch-22

So wanting girl who doesnt sleep around is fetish now? Am i really in the wrong here?

No, idiot.
The fact that you think that anyone who had more than 2 partners is a slut makes it impossible, and makes you delusional.
And I say this as a girl who had just one partner.

It's easy if your definition of a "slut" is realistic

>So wanting girl who doesnt sleep around is fetish now?
No.
>Am i really in the wrong here?
You're in the wrong because sleeping around is not the same as having only two previous partner

Why would any girl have saves her virginity for you? Especially when you make it clear you'd be a horrible bf.

As i said my definition of slut is two plus dicks. I can handle two dicks if they were genuine dicks full of love. No homo. But anything up is slut. Simply a deranged animal of woman who craves cummies all day long. I aint settling for that.

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Yes, and we're saying that your definition is stupid.

>Not all holes are lubed from start
That's why I said lubing up a cock mate, are you illiterate too?
>Violence: behaviour involving physical force intended to hurt, damage, or kill someone or something.
Please explain to me how having sex with someone asleep is violent, thanks. Or, y'know, accept that you were a retard and it is entirely possible to be raped non-violently.

No girl is ever gonna want to lose her virginity to a creep narcissist with a superiority complex.

If she isnt virgin she aint getting this dick and my love. Simple as that. If i will die virgin so be it.

What is your definition of slut?

This isn't a mere lack of sex drive, but an outright sex aversion.
this relationship cannot work and I recommend you get therapy.

>Simply a deranged animal of woman who craves cummies all day long. I aint settling for that.
So a 25 years old who had three 8-months-plus relationships with sex since she was 19 is a slut?

>What is your definition of slut?
A woman who has several casual sex encounters, or cheated on a partner.

Depends on who are you doing raping. Is that male or female? Child? Too much circumstances making rape violent act.

Good.

Definitely slut to me

Which is same as my definition.

>A woman who has several casual sex encounters
How many dicks are we talking about?

You are deranged. You sound like you belong in an asylum.

Just because im right doesnt mean im mentaly ill. Commies locked anyone with who they disagreed with into asylums.

Your virgin fixation borders on mental illness. Why are you so obsessed with a girl being a virgin? And how will you know she is one?

>There's no difference between casual sex and long term relationship

So a woman, without consent, lubes up a small three inch strap on whilst her boyfriend is asleep. She pegs him with it pretty much all night long. When he wakes up, the only thing he notices is that his asshole is lubricated and sticky - there's no pain, no discomfort and he has no real idea what happened that night. That's a violent rape to you, with no force involved and no physical harm done? Feel free to replace girlfriend with male best friend and reduce their ages to 15 to give you a variety of scenarios to think about.

>Just because im right
You're not though

>Which is same as my definition.
No, it isn't.

>How many dicks are we talking about?
Depends too much on the circumstances.
In general, I don't think sleeping with someone you were seriously involved with makes you a slut. I don't think that having one or two casual sexual encounters makes you a slut either, in most cases.
I'd think less of a girl who got fucked by two random strangers in a club bathroom than a girl who slept with 3 boyfriends.

Virgins dont sleep around and want stable relationship and are also free of sexual diseases.

>And how will you know she is one?
Will look throught her partner history. Will get her drunk so she will spill beans. Simple

> there's no pain, no discomfort and he has no real idea what happened that night.

Doubt this. He probably liked it because he was faggot. Yes this is act of violent rape.

I am

You are mentally unhynged. Do you think it's okay if woman sleep around? Are you delusional? Am i really really the one who is wrong in here? Am i the only one who have such beliefs that woman should not sleep around with men? Am i oldfashioned?

Is this concept so strange to you that you deem me as mentally ill?

>Having several serious relationships is sleeping around
You are mentally ill

>Do you think it's okay if woman sleep around?
Yes? If two adults want to sleep with each other, I don't think it's immoral or horrible for them to.
I understand not wanting to date a woman who doesn't align with your personal values, but I don't think it is a huge deal if men or women sleep around.

>Is this concept so strange to you that you deem me as mentally ill?
I haven't called you mentally ill. I don't think it's healthy to impose your personal values on others since there's nothing inherently immoral with people having sex.

>Doubt this. He probably liked it because he was faggot. Yes this is act of violent rape.
You're a retard who uses words he doesn't understand, you're not even worth considering seriously. No wonder you're still a virgin.

>Virgins dont sleep around
Lol.
The only people who cheated on me were virgins.

You can have STDs while being virgin too. It's less likely, but not impossible.

Virgins are the most likely to cheat on you and leave you.

>You are mentally ill
Maybe but i wont change my mind.

>Yes? If two adults want to sleep with each other, I don't think it's immoral or horrible for them to.

Woman should not sleep around. She should get one life partner and have kids. It's that simple.

>but I don't think it is a huge deal if men or women sleep around

Actually if women sleep around they are more likely to be mentally unstable and wont make good mothers and family will suffer. So here is that.

>I don't think it's healthy to impose your personal values on others since there's nothing inherently immoral with people having sex

Living as moraly possible is key to lifelong happiness. If they want to have sex im not taking it from them but if woman will want to have sex with me and she will be slut off to trash she goes.

>You're a retard who uses words he doesn't understand, you're not even worth considering seriously. No wonder you're still a virgin.

Ad hominem

False. Good divide and conquer propaganda sweeties.

>mentally unstable incel calls others mentally unstable

Im just calling sluts mentally unstable.

>if woman will want to have sex with me
Don't worry, that won't happen

Good.

>Woman should not sleep around. She should get one life partner and have kids.
Why?

>Actually if women sleep around they are more likely to be mentally unstable and wont make good mothers and family will suffer.
Correlation doesn't mean causation.
There's a correlation between mental issues and promiscuity, but it's not like you get turned crazier and crazier every time you suck a different dick.

It's fine if you don't want to date them, don't be rude and just mind your business.

>False.
Actually true. All people were virgins to begin with and very few of them marry the person they lost their virginity to.
And everyone can have STDs, virgin or not.

>It's fine if you don't want to date them, don't be rude and just mind your business
Sluts defenders like you need to perish.

>dont be rude
I will be rude. They ride cock carousel all their life and when they are confronted with this reality they get agressive and defensive calling whole board who disagrees with their degenerate lifestyle INCELs. Im not mad but it's pathetic at this point. I dont care if they are promiscious i really dont but if they want to spout their bullshit here and even call me mentally ill is bit too much and rage worthy. We live in times where women have access to internet and no one is doing anything to fucking stop them and their retarded opinions. OUT STANDING

>And everyone can have STDs, virgin or not.
Rare.

>very few of them marry the person they lost their virginity to

Absolutely false.

95% of people marry someone else than who they lost their virginity to.

They they are not original virgins at that point. Do you even use logic

>Still making no differences between riding the cock carousel and having a few serious relationships

>I will be rude.
Why tho? I don't sleep around but I don't give a shit about what other people do in their bedroom. It's their business.
No one will go around and call you an incel if you don't screech and call them sluts. Just mind your own business.

>Absolutely false.
Very true. You can't say most women are whores, and at the same time say that most women marry the man they lose their virginity to in the same post, user. Makes you sound pretty retarded.

What the fuck, user?
There aren't original and non original virgins. There are virgins. The fact is that no matter what, most people will break up with the person they lose their virginity to. Virgins aren't "less likely to break up with you and sleep around".

>Still making no differences between riding the cock carousel and having a few serious relationships

More than one relationship is riding cock carousel

>I don't sleep around but I don't give a shit about what other people do in their bedroom. It's their business.

It is indeed their business but if they tell me about it it's over. Literally into the trash she goes.

>No one will go around and call you an incel if you don't screech and call them sluts. Just mind your own business.

No one will call sluts sluts if they wont be sluts. Just mind your own business

>You can't say most women are whores, and at the same time say that most women marry the man they lose their virginity to in the same post, user.

Most women are whores and there are rare women who care about their body and the one who they love. Virgin girls who lose their virginity to the man they love and marry them. Such women are the most rare women in the entire world and this is why im INCEL. Because women literally cant CANT stop sucking dicks.

Original virgins which marry their loved one. If they dont marry they are worthless sluts. Simple.

>It is indeed their business but if they tell me about it it's over.
That's fine. Just don't be rude and I'm quite sure they won't be rude to you.

>Just mind your own business
I really do. You're the one who judges other people and insults them.

>Virgin girls who lose their virginity to the man they love and marry them.
I don't know if you're very young or just very naive, but life is a mess and you don't often marry the first person you fall in love with.
You might want to wait till marriage, but then you tend to marry very young and marriages that start very young fail 90% of the time (literally, not figuratively).

>Original virgins which marry their loved one.
That's not a thing. Virgin just means you haven't had sexual intercourse yet. You can't be an unoriginal virgin or an original one.
If you fuck your husband you aren't a virgin, if you don't fuck anyone you are one.

>More than one relationship is riding cock carousel
No.

>You might want to wait till marriage, but then you tend to marry very young and marriages that start very young fail 90% of the time

False

>If you fuck your husband you aren't a virgin, if you don't fuck anyone you are one.

Original virgin has intercourse with the loved one. As long as it is with the original virgin taker then it's fine. When woman goes to another man and fuck him she is automatically trash slut. I dont care about them but if they will do this to me i will have autistic rage.

Yes i have standards and sluts keep saying they are impossible. YEA? they indeed are but for you sluts. Keep riding cock carousel and insult me with worthless insults that mean nothing i will go on with my life and find my dream girl with which i will have family and live as moraly as possible for the rest of my life. While i will watch you crash and crumbe in the depression because you were too stupid to comprenhend my ideas. Life and relationship isnt hard it's indeed quite simple. YOU SLUT? FRICK OFF! Simple!

>No.
I think yea.

And what will you do if you get married to someone and then she divorces you. Does that make you belong in the trash?

>I think yea
That's objectively wrong

>Does that make you belong in the trash

Sweetie men cant be sluts. If they are they are chads. Only women are sluts. If she divorces me she is slut and i will just be unhappy man seeking another virgin.

>That's objectively wrong

I dont think so.

Everyone is born a virgin you retard.

I didn't know someone could be worse than Literally Hitler

Where is he now? Better check the news for recent arrests of people planning a school shooting.

>False
Factually true. The younger you marry, the more likely you are to divorce.
For example, if you marry under 20 you have a 32% chance of divorcing in the first 5 years, compared to a 15% chance if you do it at any age between 25 and 35.
Source: ifstudies.org/blog/want-to-avoid-divorce-wait-to-get-married-but-not-too-long

>Original virgin has intercourse with the loved one.
There isn't such a thing as an "original virgin". There are virgins and non virgins. Most people don't marry the man they lost their virginity to.
Most people who lose their virginity, lose them to a person they love. Things don't always work out.

Also - having sex before marriage with just one person doesn't increase your chances of staying married to that person much. A woman who only had sex with one partner before marriage has a 21% chance of divorcing in the first 5 years, a woman who had sex with 5 partners has a 25% chance of divorcing.
Source: christopherjohnlindsay.com/2017/08/23/premarital-sex-divorce/

I'm married to the man I lost my virginity to, very happy with him.
I never insulted you, you keep insulting everyone just because they don't share your personal values. It's rude.
I hope you find your dream girl, I also hope you learn to respect others who don't share your personal values. You're the only one who is going to end up depressed and sad, because you're filled with rage and hatred.

Those are American studies. So trash. America is country in moral and cultural decline.

>Most people don't marry the man they lost their virginity to

That is right but they automatically become sluts. If original dick is not enought then she is slut.

>I'm married to the man I lost my virginity to, very happy with him.

Then why are you defending sluts.

>I never insulted you, you keep insulting everyone just because they don't share your personal values. It's rude.

Im insulting only sluts. If you are not one then you shouldnt be insulted.

>You're the only one who is going to end up depressed and sad, because you're filled with rage and hatred.

I dont hate anyone. I just rage when there are people who unironically defend degeneracy. I mean i dont care but if you stand as my oponent be prepared for verbal offensive.

>Those are American studies. So trash.
The trend is true anywhere in the first world, really.

>If original dick is not enought then she is slut.
Life is much more complicated than that.
If a girl loses her virginity to a guy, and then he dumps her, then what? She's supposed to be alone forever?
It's a little silly.

>Then why are you defending sluts.
Because I am an adult, I guess. I understand that even if I got really lucky and met an amazing man when I was 17 and had things work out for myself to the point I've been with him for 12 years, not everyone is as lucky as me. Many people love someone a lot and then get fucked over.

>I mean i dont care but if you stand as my oponent be prepared for verbal offensive.
Just have actual arguments and don't resort to offending your opponent.

>If a girl loses her virginity to a guy, and then he dumps her, then what? She's supposed to be alone forever?

She is supposed to get him back at any cost. If she will be unable then im able to accept that and she isnt slut but left alone.

>Because I am an adult,

Then think like adult too. Dont you think it's childish for woman to fuck new guy every month? Isn't that irresponsible?

>Many people love someone a lot and then get fucked over.

Nope. Only women do this. Men are pure honor and pride driven beings. They wont leave girl only if she doesnt initate it.

>Just have actual arguments and don't resort to offending your opponent.

Mine do.

user! If you're looking for a virgin then that's fine but you need to be a good person. You're not good.

>This country is in decline because I'm not having sex
Idiots that say their society is collapsing have existed for thousands of years.

>Then think like adult too.
I do. Part of being an adult is accepting that not all people share your values and that doesn't make them subhumans or horrible human beings.

>Dont you think it's childish for woman to fuck new guy every month?
No. I wouldn't do it, personally, but if a person chooses to consciously and willingly, and is as responsible as possible about it, good for them. It's not my place to judge their choices.
It's childish to marry a man you don't love anymore just because you happened to lose your viginity to them, as much as it is to sleep around with random people because you can't handle being alone. It's mature to marry a man you love and feel deeply compatible with, or to sleep with random people because you enjoy it and it makes you feel good if you do it responsibly.

>Men are pure honor and pride driven beings. They wont leave girl only if she doesnt initate it.
Lol. You're insane.
A lot of men are horrible. They cheat much more than women, abuse their partners, kill their partners, and leave their partners.

Millennials have less sexual partners and lose their virginity later than previous generations. Your theory goes into the trash.

>user! If you're looking for a virgin then that's fine but you need to be a good person. You're not good.

Girls want bad boys so yea im not good.

>This country is in decline because I'm not having sex

Fuck yea it is. If im not having sex then who will make kids?

>Part of being an adult is accepting that not all people share your values and that doesn't make them subhumans or horrible human beings

Part of being adult is that most of humans are subhuman horrible human beings and it's better to avoid most of them.

>It's childish to marry a man you don't love anymore just because you happened to lose your viginity to them, as much as it is to sleep around with random people because you can't handle being alone. It's mature to marry a man you love and feel deeply compatible with, or to sleep with random people because you enjoy it and it makes you feel good if you do it responsibly.

This is just pointless slut think without logic. I dont think you was virgin when you married your husband.

>They cheat much more than women, abuse their partners, kill their partners, and leave their partners.

Women pick those horrible men. I dont pick sluts. They should not pick criminals.

This mean that millenials will be the one who overthrow degeneracy.

>Girls want bad boys so yea im not good.
No user, a girl that's saving herself for a special man won't be wanting a bad boy. Plus a bad boy =/= bad person. You're just a shit person all around, you sound rotten.
Also curious but.. which part of the world do you live in? I've only ever met people from Albania or Kosovo that come from families with your line of thinking.

>No user, a girl that's saving herself for a special man won't be wanting a bad boy.

She will want bad boy with muscles and nazi tattoo. That's what im working at.

>which part of the world do you live in?

Eastern Europe. Also Albania and Kosovo need nuclear holocaust.

>Part of being adult is that most of humans are subhuman horrible human beings and it's better to avoid most of them.
That's a very childish way of seeing the world, really.

>This is just pointless slut think without logic.
It isn't. It is absolutely immature and stupid to marry a man you don't love because you're scared of being alone, same way it is to sleep around because you're scared of being alone. It doesn't make any difference, really.
A child who is born in a loveless marriage between two parents who resent each other is going to hate his life as much of a child of a single mom.

>I dont think you was virgin when you married your husband.
Oh, no, I definitely wasn't. I started having sex with him when I was 18, married him when I was about to turn 22.
I still just had sex with him.

>Women pick those horrible men.
So men aren't all virtuous and honor and pride driven. You were wrong.

>and nazi tattoo
What. Are you aiming for a certain person? Because 99% of people would find that cringy or disgusting. Don't tell me you're an enlightened 16 year old Ustasa, because I have met plenty of those kids as well and let me tell you, they can't find decent women.

>That's a very childish way of seeing the world, really.
Your thinking is very childish. You are literal fucking child what the fuck do you even think? Do you really think most of humans are good beings? You actually made me mad this time.

>A child who is born in a loveless marriage between two parents who resent each other is going to hate his life as much of a child of a single mom.

Nope. Kid will have education from both parents. Single mom is 1000x worse.

>So men aren't all virtuous and honor and pride driven. You were wrong.

Yea they are not. You are right. I was wrong. I agree with this.

It was joke of course. Nazi tattoo is bit much since it's illegal here. But tattoo neverthless is still big magnet for women.