I'm in love with my GF's best friend

Before you say I'm a dumb cunt, hear me out: I know.

The whole situation is fucked up really, let me open it up a bit:

> 5 years ago, be me, a complete autist
> Meet my current gf and her best friend for the first time
> Love at first sight with her best friend
> My gf gets a crush on me and asks me if we could begin a relationship
> My first chance to have a gf so I jump right on it
> We've been together for five years now and despite never really having a crush on my current gf I've developed really deep feelings and love towards her
> Still madly in love with her best friend who I get to hang out a lot with
> My GF has been telling me the friend in question is getting a bit too intimate with me as we have become really great friends with eachother as well

What do I do? Staying with my GF is the logical choice because her best friend is in a relationship and she's going to move to a different city in a few months. I just feel that if I try to get her I'll ruin my current relationship and I probably would fail to get with her in the first place if she has any morals. But on the other hand I feel that if I don't try I may regret it forever.

Please help me out bros

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You need to leave her user.

It's so damn hard man, I want them both

Threesome

That's the dream man. I just want to have a loving relationship with both of them

Leave them both.
Your girlfriend deserves a man who actually loves her. And you need to distance yourself from the best friend.

Polyamorous relationships user. There is a chance it might work or come crashing down. You can try it i guess

How would one initiate a polyamorous relationship?

invite her for alcoholic drinking session, get her high. then mate with her and make her go wild.

once that done, tell her it's the alcohol that make her do that, make sure u say it's her fault and started it. then make an agreement to keep it a secret between u.

since u have make her so happy sexually, next time u meet her, u just remind her the wonderful time that she hav when u pump her, use your words to make her wet. this she will still come to u no matter if she hv bf or not.

Fuck if i know mate, i can't even initiate a normal one. Lol

But i presume getting a threesome first might be a first step?

Where is that damn tripfag when you need her. She is in a polyamorous relationship..

Get them drunk, dare them to kiss, ramp it up, suggest you all stay together.
Hey, it might work.

My gf doesn't drink so she'd know right away something is off if I tried to get her drunk

Funny how all these dubs suggest fucking both of them

This

Just asking here;

I think that after all, everybody should be selfish enough to live for themselves. If my GF is happy with me at the moment she is living for herself by being with me. She's free to leave anytime. And even though I love her best friend I still try to be the best boyfriend I can for her, because I love her as well. By leaving her I'd just make her - and myself - sad for no apparent reason. Both of us are happy at the moment so why would I intentionally break it with no way to gain anything from it?

Because you wish to be with someone else, and you always will since you'll be exposed to her best friend.
You're not giving yourself a chance to be with someone you actually are crazy about, and not giving her the chance to be with someone who is crazy about her. Which is one of the few redeeming experiences life has to offer, really.

Would she still be happy if you were honest? Is someone really happy if they are just forced into ignorance? You're a fucking idiot

Ignorance is bliss man

>You're a fucking idiot
I stated that in the original post

And 2 of them are mine. I dont know it just sounds like a unicorn if you have to ask me.

OP has to go through with it if this is trips

Fucking win, i got you now OP.

What the fuck is happening

Guess I got to respect the trips
Now, mates, we need a plan of action

Once she moves out to a different city, then your true feelings will come out. Just hang tight for a while, you've got it good

That's a good point as well.
I'm just kind of scared of all this, what if I really miss her once she moves and I can't see her on a nearly daily basis anymore?

What if I don't see her ever again?

Ok your gf doesnt drink, how about weed?

Or lets reel this back in. You can just be open about to your gf. And literally say
>babe i love you, i love your friend as well. I have enough love for both of you and blah blahblah

Yeah, no

This is probably the better option

the only way that
Is an option is if the current GF has any interest in her friend as a lover and is NOT the jealous type. Does your gf think you two are going to get married? You said it has been 5 years. If there is a chance your gf swings both ways then you have a great opportunity. Make it seem like it's her idea though. If you just blurt it out your GF will think you just want extra pussy or to cheat.
But the friend is leaving soon, so as you said.
This is your last chance.

first things first. how old is OP? if this is a hurr durr im 18 just stfu. just be honest with your current GF tell you love her, if you really did love her you wouldnt have any thoughts of being with any one else. you are just horny for the other better looking girl. true love means you dont have eyes for someone else. and that you dont want to hurt the person u love. growup

She is kinda jealous but she has told me she likes to see me hit on other girls. I do not understand that

She wants us to get married, yes

22 years old
Being horny for someone for five years straight is quite the achievement

How would I get her to think she wants her best friend into our relationship? Seems impossible