It's normal if I love my girlfriend, but because she's my first sexual partner I want to fuck other girls? How do you cope with this feel Jow Forums?
It's normal if I love my girlfriend, but because she's my first sexual partner I want to fuck other girls...
Yes, it's normal. The solution is to fuck other girls.
>The solution is to fuck other girls.
I know I will feel guilty for the rest of my days, but man ... I'm depressed by the idea of sleeping with just one (1) woman during my life.
There is no guilt. Biologically meant are supposed to have sex with many women, even after settling down. Why do you think every culture has so many terms for referring to your other women. Every day I'm learning a new term for that.
Look to my picture on the left. That man is Bill Clinton. He is the husband of Hillary Clinton, the woman with the driest vagina in the known universe. But Bill is a happy man. How come? He got his dick sucked in the white house by some random young thot. And every day Bill basically gets his dick sucked by some new young thot. It's the cycle of life. But what is the key? IT IS SEX.
Your woman is your woman. You have to love her and care for her. The other women are nothing but useless meatholes. That's all they are. Forget that and you'll perish.
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My first bf left me for this reason and then immediately was fucking a bunch of other women. I fucking hated him for it because he wasn't honest with me. He just waited until he had the chance to fuck someone else, dumped me then fucked her on the same night, then a string of ugly girls in the course of a month.
So be prepared for your gf to hate you and tell everyone she knows what a gross shitbag you are. But breaking it off early is at least better than cheating. If you can control yourself, maybe you two can have a discussion about what this means, but unless she's feeling the same, she probably won't be into it.
Would you forgive her if he was genuinely remorseful and you were sure he wouldn't ever look at other women again?
haha dumb roastie
He was your first too? My girlfriend has like 6 dicks before mine, so I understand if she want to settle down with me.
Once you talk about having kids, this desire should lessen. You're hardwired to engage in whatever actions result in your DNA surviving. If your subconscious doesn't feel like your gf alone can give you that security, then you'll be pushed to seek other women. If your girlfriend is instead hugely committed and subliminally desires to offer her eggs to you, free and unconditionally, then you'll have little push to other women, aside from cheap egoist lust. Which is easy to control.
At risk of sounding like a hypocrite, sex with other women is mostly the same thing. Just a different body, but the feeling is the same. Sensationally speaking, you're not missing out. Socially speaking, you could make an argument.
I don't judge you , no matter what you do, just trying to share my thoughts.
Dont do it. At the end youre going to feel like you betrayed the girl who really loved you. Its tempting to chase other girls but not worth it in the end. Chase virtue, not tail.
That reeks of despair. I can smell the hopelessness through your words like a moldy can of tuna.
dude nice pic and metaphor. 5-star advice right there
Simply wait until you will be on some job travel and buy a whore or seduce random bar thot. As long as you use condom and give her fake number, your wife will never know.
I have a honest question. Would you have preferred that your boyfriend had just cheated on you on the side and never told you so that you were still together?
I have a 5 year gf and I've cheated on her plenty of times. But I actually do lover her a lot, it is just that one woman cannot satisfy my lust. However, I do still fuck my girlfriend very hard almost all the time so don't think that I am neglecting her. I also support her emotionally and psychologically. She relies on me for advice.
Am I good man?
Man! Thats just putting your dick in a hole. A hole os a hole. Stay true to your bitch as long as she is yours. You can think of whoever you want while you do her.
Nah cause you can't be un-horny for other women lol
Yes he was my first too
No. I would honestly go fucking nuclear if someone cheated on me. My first ex was years ago now and all I did was calmly tell him how fucked up it was to spring on me. I gave him another chance to talk to me a few months later, but he was still shitty and seeing other women so I cut him out. But I would not have been too nice if I knew he had done anything before dumping me, and he knew that I'm sure lol.
To me cheating is fucking disgusting and a huge health risk. It's lying, manipulating and endangering someone's health and possibly lifespan. So no, I don't think you're a good man. Idc if b8, just damn I pray that I'm never in your gfs position lol.
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>I don't think you're a good man. Idc if b8, just damn I pray that I'm never in your gfs position lol.
Well, I appreciate your honesty. Because of that I will, in good faith, warn you that you'll never get a husband that won't cheat. Let me tell you something personal. I'm a fucking degenerate atheist, but my family is and always was super religious. Like autistically religious. You probably know the type. And guess what? My dad cheated on my mom a shit ton of times.
If that man can cheat then all men will cheat. Because my dad is a fucking idiot. He is a pussy, and he is a religious nut. You would not expect him to cheat, but he did. Every man cheats. Also, even priests rape kids. Men can't control their dicks and they'll put it inside ANYTHING they get their hands on.
>anecdotal evidence of my shitty dysfunctional family is proof all men are bad! and also proof I'm normal and totally not a shitstain manipulator
>use same argument to justify child rape
maybe try arguing you inherited shitty, sociopathic, cheating genes from your father. At least that might have some factual basis, sweaty :)
First of all, I'm not justifying child rape. I'm telling you that the highest moral authority of the world (priests) literally rape kids. What does that tell you about men?
Anyways, I told you I'm informing you in good faith. I'm not really trying to manipulate and if what you want to take from this is that there is a hereditary cheating gene then go ahead. That may be true because we all descend from the same guys like Attila the Hun who basically raped thousands of women. It's in our genes I guess.
I wouldn't call priests "the highest moral authority of the world", especially not if they fuck children.
I would argue that such a phrase is meaningless, or at least subjective.
I would also like to argue that not all men are as shit as you. Some of us have real moral values that we actually fucking stick to.
Pro tip. It's not because she's your first. That's just how you're rationalising it. It never goes away. If you have a second relationship, even after fucking scores of whores, you'll still feel the same.
What you do is put her on a scale. How important is she to you? Are things good? Do you love her? Is your relationship healthy? Yes?
Then focus in on her. The want to fuck other girls comes and goes. It goes faster if you just fap then take your gf on a date.
>I wouldn't call priests "the highest moral authority of the world", especially not if they fuck children.
Well, they actually go celibate. To me if you manage to not have sex for a week then you are a fucking saint, don't know how you even do it. But these guys will do it for years. They must have morals of steel. But then they still fuck kids in the ass which is the weird part but to each their own I guess.
>Some of us have real moral values that we actually fucking stick to.
Do I need to post a picture of Bill Clinton and Bill Cosby again or is my point not made? Well, maybe you are a saint. And if you are a saint, may the ass of the first kid you rape be tight and soft.
You're acting like every single one of them fuck kids, and not like it's an extremely small.percentage, which it is...
The big issue that's got the Catholic Church in trouble isn't that a few among them diddled kids, it's the massive cover ups and protection of the priests that do that's got them fucked.
They were trying to protect their image ane picked the wrong way.
Still. It's very rare a priest actually touches kids...
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A saint doesn't rape anyone. Anyone who commits rape is bereft of morals. You seem to have a confusing definition of "good".
Not having sex does not make you good.
It demonstrates willpower, or perhaps that no-one wants to have sex with you, but it doesn't demonstrate being a good person.
>You seem to have a confusing definition of "good"
Yeah because his dad was a religious brainlet who was sneaking around fucking whores throughout user's impressionable childhood lmao
Yeah, I suppose that makes sense actually. It does prove that Atheists are neither inherently moral or immoral.
this is probably the only level headed post ive ever seen you make so keep it up ay
I just went through the same shit for the past 4 years (broke up a month ago) feel like I've wasted most of my teen years on her.
Tell her you're curious for comparison, but don't EVER do anything of the sort behind her back. Telling your SO about things like this often helps in establishing a stronger bond of trust.
yeah it's normal. thing is your first girl shouldnt last, infact it can make you both miserable. So keep going with your gf until you two ran your course.
>thing is your first girl shouldnt last
>shouldn't
Why not?
>My girlfriend has like 6 dicks before mine, so I understand if she want to settle down with me.
Well then OP surely it's only fair that she lets you fuck some other woman too?
Take it from an old man. You will ALWAYS find other women momentarily tempting.
Growing up involves learning to be happy with what you have