ITT: Ask the opposite gender anything

I'm a girl myself, works for me.

>I never go for people I am sexually attracted to for that specific reason.
That's just dumb. Half of the fun of being in a relationship is getting to fuck someone you're strongly sexually attracted to, every day, for years.
Why would you make yourself date someone you don't want to fuck?

>redpill me on the new twilight zone show. is it sjw bluepill shit

I don't know about the politics of the show, but I could only make it through 10 minutes of the 1st episode because it was so thuddingly obvious.

There's a girl I'm not entirely interested in but I'm not sure how much of that is me feeling unsure or insecure about some critical things like nofriends. She's expressing at least some interest. What could I do for a date with her? Is roaming around a mall and getting some food ok? Window shopping?

I'm a guy and life has taught me I need to go into things with a plan. So what do I do here

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How do I become okay with being alone forever?

>Why would you make yourself date someone you don't want to fuck?
That comes automatically once I start to like someone. I can also go multiple times a day with a guy I'm in love with, but I dont trust my choice if I am already considering sex before I even know him.

I have a pretty insane sex drive, so I guess that might be my reason.

That honeymoon thing for me wears off pretty fast and then I'm stuck dating a guy I don't really like physically.
I don't know, I'd much rather date a guy I like physically.

I matched with a great girl on tinder and after having a short discussion i asked her out. She gave me a yellow saying she was a little shy. After that we've had a discussion or two but she hasn't initiated one, always responds though.

I would really like to meet this girl and I know there's a million other guys trying to woo her which sucks.
Is there some way I could ask her if she's still interested without sounding needy? Maybe make a joke is she's still shy? pls halp

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I find mindfulness meditation helps me separate my base feelings from my actual thoughts.
Try even ten minutes every night for a week

Just found out my crush has a nipple piercing. It has sort of thrown me through a loop because she tries to play innocent.

girls, how long do you usually knos a guy before yu start getting relationship/sex related thoughts?

You don't. You just bear it.

Generally speaking, the sooner the better.

It'll take time and practice to be able to think through those urges; most people had all of their teenage years to adjust. I would suggest structure--schedule, restricting it to a place--and patience with yourself. Give yourself time to explore your sexual thoughts and feelings--nothing is off limits so long as you don't act on it outside of your structure; this will give you a crutch to lean on as you figure this stuff out without the potential to fuck up your life--and learn what your body likes and does not (I wouldn't recommend jumping right to vibrators, just because they can desensitize you if you're not careful; figure out how to get off without them before trying them).

Masturbating might not have the clarifying effect for you that it usually has for men in similar situations. Approach these situations with caution and set aside some time to think, at least until you've gotten a handle on your hormones. What kind of thoughts are you having about him? If it's thoughts about his smell, his shoulders, arms, hands, back, butt, dick, etc. it's probably your hormones. Always ask yourself whether or not this is someone you respect.

And there's no harm in hanging out with someone and trying to figure out if you like them. If you're worried about leading them on just try to avoid lots of flirting and sexual teasing.

>never go for people I am sexually attracted to for that reason

That doesn't make a whole lot of sense unless you're chronically attracted to abusers.

>current year
>watching TV

It's probably worse than the original and you know how Hollywood is always shoehorning their politics into things. . would probably be a better place to ask

>Gathering friends for an event
>Invite 3 girls
>Just noticed they're all the same race
None of them know each other, it wasn't even on purpose, am I gonna look like some kinda fetishist ?

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Nigga that's called a preference not a fetish.

The mall is only okay if the mall in question is the Mall of America--or is somehow special and unique in some other way--or you're sixteen. Window shopping, in general, is probably fine depending on where you do it, but might come with "I'll buy you something nice" connotations.

Take a look at what's going on in your area for when you're thinking of taking her out. If there's something you're interested in and in your price range, ask her to that. If that's too much, pick your favorite park with a decent walking trail, put together a picnic, and take a meandering walk through the park. Explore a part of town you've never been to before, etc. There's tons of ideas; if you're a neurotic planner pick a couple of your favorites so you have a back up plan if things go wrong.

You're not necessarily alone forever, but human beings can adapt to anything. Accept it; it is what it is. Bear it. Find something worth living for that you can dedicate yourself to.

How long has it been since you asked her out? If it's been a couple weeks, go ahead and ask her again (though I find it suspicious that a "shy" girl is on Tinder at all). If you've got a feel for her interests invite her to something going on you think she'll like.

Learn to like/appreciate that hidden naughty side?

It takes awhile for me if it happens at all. I have a pretty low libido, though. Chances are better if he's physically attractive.

Sure, but they're gonna think somethin else. Oh man.

Autism.

>How long has it been since you asked her out? If it's been a couple weeks, go ahead and ask her again (though I find it suspicious that a "shy" girl is on Tinder at all). If you've got a feel for her interests invite her to something going on you think she'll like.
Thank you for replying! I asked her out last week (we started talking last Wednesday) and I was thinking of asking her out again this weekend but I'm just wondering am I beating a dead horse or just over-analyzing the whole thing?
We both went on an autistic rant about a common interest of ours so there some connection sure, but I'm just a bit worried if she's really interested.

For the moment you're probably on the side of over-analyzing things. Give her another week and ask again unless there's something for your rant-inducing interest (or another you know works) that's coming up this week.

I'd give it at least one more try before teasing/asking her about it.

she doesn't know i know so now i might pick up on more subtle signs that she is naughty.

Hey man, come on.

thank you!

user, you're probably the only person within your group who is even going to notice. It's not like everyone else is going to confer to one side an talk about how you have a fetish for x-type of women (though you bet your ass your guy friends are going to give you so much shit if they cotton on). If you are, by some insane twist of fate, confronted about it: shrug, casual as you please, and say "what? I thought you you'd like [event]."

That you're worrying about it, at all, just reeks of autism.

How do I deal with a severe pay disparity in my relationship? He earns twice what I do. I'm trying my best to keep it even, I pay my half of the dates and buy him little gifts (mostly chocolate). He recently dropped money on an event that I've no chance of matching or even really contributing too so now I'm anxious and feel like a freeloader. Any advice would be appreciated.

Depends how quick the guy lets me in his heart desu. Some guys take a while to open up to new people beyond superficial 'friends' level. I need mutual deep interest before I consider the possibility of a relationship.

Any hope in staying in a relationship with someone who refuses to define it/label it? We act coupley but not quite full fledged bf/gf. However, he doesnt want to label it, and I dont understand what his big aversion is. He gets frustrated whenever I bring the topic up. For context we’ve known each other for about 5 months now, and consistenly dating for 4 of those months.

I really like him but I’m worried I’m going to get hurt in the end. On the other hand, I still don’t mind being with him even if it doesn’t mean he’s the one, just cause I know once this ends I’m not going to feel like putting mysef out there for a while just cause I’m a lazy dater.

but what happens if they are too quick? it's off putting right?

I have a severe case of overthinking dude that's all.

Are you two fucking?

>The mall is only okay if the mall in question is the Mall of America--or is somehow special and unique in some other way--or you're sixteen. Window shopping, in general, is probably fine depending on where you do it, but might come with "I'll buy you something nice" connotations.

ah thanks, yeah I had that suspicion. Ok, there's a food court and a fairly new one at the mall, I think that's better.

>picnics, parks

Is this really what people do these days

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Boys and girls, women and men... and trannies:

What was best compliment you heard lately?
Alternatively, if you didn't get any in years ... what would be the best compliment for you?

Extra points if you state age.

Every time we meet up yeah, since we cant see each other too often

Girls

Why do you enjoy having penis in your butt?

i see. that's insightful, thanks. so one night could be enough as well?

Girls

Why do girls feel it’s ok for them to jump right into other people’s personal space? Yesterday in class, a girl and I were studying for the final. We were sitting a healthy distance away from each other and asking questions. Then, another girl from my class came over to join us which was fine. But she came over and sat right next to me. I mean, RIGHT next to me. Her legs were almost touching mine. It felt uncomfortable

some girls are social and when she saw you sitting with the other girl it means you are approachable and you arent a creep. Relax they dont bite, unless they ask if you want them too.

There isn't a single one that stands out. Different compliments hit different spots. In terms of real personal pride, elaborate compliments on my work cannot really be topped. But that's different from having a close friend tell you how much better they feel after being able to tell something troubling them to you and how you can make them feel heard. That's something that is both flattering and indicative of a relationship I cherish.

Even when trying to distinguish between preferring x compliments over y compliments, it also matters who it's coming from (someone I love? someone I admire and look up to? someone I know to be critical?), how much emotion they put into it and so on.

I'm twenty six.

well it was a very small class. Literally only 5 people (including me) the entire semester. I was the only guy in the class. So, we all already kind of knew each other on a basic level since there would be class discussion often. It was just really uncomfortable she sat that close to me. There was no reason to. She was really in my personal space. It felt as if she was so close if if were have turned by body toward her then our faces would have been close (so I didn’t do this)

jeez, just move away a bit next time and stop producing drama

They are used to it being welcome (either with men or women), while not being used to wondering if they might seem intimidating.

that means she has an intrest in you. She may even like you, so if you dont want her keep away but if you want a possible new girl then take it in strides.

Couldn’t move away
That seems a bit rude and inconsiderate desu

>How do I become ok with something that's not ok?
I think the word is cognitive dissonance.

Or lots of drugs.

Learn to be a woman. Realize the only reason you're wanting to split all the bills is because you're dreadfully insecure. You're scared if you don't do that, then you have nothing else to offer, and he won't like you as much because you'll be a burden.

Like no. Just be a good woman and a virtuous human being and he'll love you. Men are hardwired to love and serve women. You've lost touch with your femininity and don't see this.

Ask him and tell him all of this. There's no reason you should keep these thoughts secret from him.

Guy here, and yeah I don't like this double standard too, but it pays off if they're beautiful. But if an ugly girl does this to you, you have the right to get instantly MAD at her. All the pretty girls in the room will understand and won't blame you at all, it'll even make you more attractive to them.

See that I find hard to believe though. Our personalities are vastly different. Not only that, but I think she’s bi, lesbian or something

There weren’t really any pretty girls on my class desu. They are mostly all very average. The prettiest girl is the room is undateable anyways.

If I like the guy, the sooner the better desu (even if it sounds selfish) . Why play games when we could be together cuddling already?

>Just be a good woman and a virtuous human being and he'll love you.
I can do this and still not have him spend his leisure cash on me. That's not a super complicated concept.

>That seems a bit rude and inconsiderate desu
Rude is related to societal standards. If she is used to scooting up close to people and them wrapping an arm around her or lighting up or in the worst case scenario not responding, then obviously she doesn't stop to think it's rude. These are automatic things, people don't consciously deliberate how close they sit to someone, she just went with her normal.

Even disregarding the gender thing people all have a different distance they regard as normal. E.g. I'm European and Americans breathe in my face for my standards. You get the awkward shuffle where you back away because it feels weird and they come in closer because they feel like you're shouting at each other from afar. This is a cultural thing but also a personal thing, she might just have an exceptionally low personal space bubble and as such feels like she accommodates other people's personal bubbles when she's already in them.

and being bi doesnt mean she doesnt like the dick too. In any case she seems like that social person who is chill as fuck, Let it go and let her do her thing, this will help you deal with your own comfort issues and tolerate people like her. Being nice like that is what girls appreciate.

because sometimes finding the guy put too quickly can turn you off if it's all at once. I dunno though if it works it works.

I did tell him this thats exactly my point. He doesnt want to have labels, and doesnt want to talk about it.

But it is rude to just enter someone’s personal space, especially when you don’t really know them all that well
I don’t know, I think that’s unlikely. Maybe she likes dick, but I don’t think she wants mine. Either way tho, it was uncomfortable

i just had that feelong girls might wish to, say, put a pretendend on probation to test his feelings. not consciously too.
dude, hold your horse

Never had anal sex myself but I do like being fingered there. It's just sensitive, a lot of nerves. There's quite some (subtle) difference in how individual women are laid out and it is also possible that the clitoris is stimulated through anal sex. What we usually refer to as the clit is just the tip of the iceberg, pic related, in reality it swells inwardly like a boner when the woman gets aroused and wraps around the vaginal canal and at least potentially around the colon.

This is still disregarding psychological factors like taboo/dirtiness, the vulnerability of letting someone use a bodypart related to shame for sexual pleasure, associations of domination or whatever else.

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>But it is rude to just enter someone’s personal space
Dude as I said in my comment, you are assuming that she knows what you consider your personal space and consciously chooses to get up in there. Chances are she has a much smaller idea of personal space and did not realize she crossed into yours. There's individual difference in which distance feels natural and normal.

A "thank you" would've done just as well, instead of a passive-aggressive response. Especially since you said you welcome all advice.

Your original question was
>How do I deal with a severe pay disparity in my relationship?
What exactly upsets you about this, and what solution are you striving for?

From what little I know about you so far, the problem looks overwhelmingly inclined to your fears/insecurity. Somehow, you've developed the idea that him spending cash on you is a threat.

The reality of it, of course, is that he loves you and wants to serve you. Doing this makes him happy. Seeing you appreciate it makes him even happier, it fulfills our inner need to be useful.

But your natural fear of abandonment is kicking in, into overdrive, pestering "who pays what" and building basically an accountant in your head keeping track of it all. You basically employed a mental accountant onto a table of fear. It makes you feel more secure to do this. By keeping track, and overthinking the money, it helps you feel secure because it means your in control. That's how we handle fears.

Unfortunately, these set-ups need to be protected. Hence why you snapped at me, after giving you honest advice; the best that I could.

Basically you're asking how to setup more employees on this table of fear+insecurity, rather than dealing with the fear itself. The irony of it all is, that you're alienating his emotions and making him like you less. Men want women, real women. There's a certain level of healthy vulnerability that both sides should feel in a relationship. Work on your fears and try to become comfortable being a woman. He'll love you more for it. He won't leave you.

>shame for sexual pleasure
Ok that now makes me want to ask another question. Why do women say they want to be respected but they also want to be sexually abused?

If guys thought the same way they’d get in a lot of trouble. It would instantly be sexual harassment

I only thank for useful advice bud.

Girls,

When I was still in a relationship, my gf introduced me to a girl. I didn't think much about her at the time. Now we see each other a lot, we talked a few times, she's really nice and cute and I'm pretty sure she's giving me the looks.
I'd wanna make a move, but I think this is against the sis code or something. We broke up 3 years ago if that matters.
She's going to say no, right?

>He gets frustrated whenever I bring the topic up.

You right, I see this sentence now...
Could you elaborate on this? I mean this is the most interesting part of your post. What exactly does he do and say when you bring it up?

If he's getting frustrated and just shutting down the conversation ,then you guys need to work on your communication skills. This really isn't just a serious topic after all, and if you can't even discuss this, then you'll never survive the big stuff in life. So yeah work on the communication (if he's shutting you down, i mean)

Good point, when I said "pretty", what I specifically meant was "datable". If you shoo off an ugly girl, it shows you have standards.

it's been 3 years why not

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Respect is about knowing a partner takes you seriously, listens to what you want, looks out for you, trusts you, lets you be you. That's something that needs to show when it really matters. It's not something that needs to be upheld in every single interaction you have.

Also what you do during sex is pretty silly, period. It is emotionally intense and important but the details surrounding sex acts are just adult fantasy. You don't honestly want to taste their pussy/dick forever. You don't honestly think your partner is the hottest person ever to grace the surface of the Earth. And you don't honestly think your partner is better or worse than you for playing a power game because it excites both of you.

Other girl friends said they'd never date the ex of some friend of theirs.

>It would instantly be sexual harassment
LOL, not really no. Sure this is the political correctness 101 official ruling but in real life, a guy sitting too close to a woman? At the very worst people would think it was a little creepy.

You realize by far most actual rape cases don't get solved right? Let alone groping at a party? Let alone being a little too close to someone? That's the whole origin of the metoo movement and all the sudden attention for this behavior.

I agree that women are definitely more used to feeling that their (physical) attention is more welcome. That's definitely a double standard. Basically, next time politely but briskly ask her to give you a little more space.

>What exactly upsets you about this, and what solution are you striving for?
Its not upsetting, it's more frustrating because I don't want it to become routine. A partnership is equal level and I'd like to keep it as close as possible. The solution I'm striving for is finding a way to suitably compromise with him, so that if he wants to throw money away that's fine but it's at a level I'm actually comfortable with. Speaking with him in these terms he doesn't seem to understand, however.
I'm not threatened by him spending money on me, I'm frustrated because I cannot reciprocate in kind.
>Fear of abandonment
Dude stop chatting nonsense. This is why I gave you such a short initial response, you just project onto other people and it's literal cringe to deal with. I'm not scared he's going to leave me if he spends money on me, Christ he's more likely to drop me for being annoying over this issue then anything else.

So spitting on your partner, slapping, hitting and pain and all that shit is respectful?

>I only thank for useful advice bud.
If this is how you talk to your boyfriend, then I understand your fears. You must be a gentler person.

If you're a better person, then stuff like who pays what doesn't matter anymore. Because you know he'll like you for who you are, rather than what you offer him.

Some things you ignored about me
>calm in the face of anger
>compassionate, taking a lot of time to help
>focused, altruistic, thinking about you
>May not always be right, but heart in the right place and scooping the best of my life experience to help you

I'm sure I did more nice things. But you get the picture. When you're talking to a gentle guy (like me), you can have discussions with me. Disagreeing is OK, sharing your heart and opinions is safe, asking for clarity or offering criticism is accepted. But you, again, snapped in the face of goodness.

This aversion to being good is what's indicating to me that you're living a fear-based friendship/relationship. That's why you attack people who don't tell you what you want to hear. That's why you dismiss me so easily. That's why you struggle, not with your boyfriend, but how much he has to OFFER YOU, against how much you have to OFFER HIM.

The message I'm trying to say is, virtue has worth. You can offer him all the money in the world, but being a virtuous girlfriend transcends any salary you could ever provide. You are worth more than money. The value is already in side of you. Tap into THAT, tap into your virtue, and things like money will fall to the wayside.

I'm not your enemy. Your best life is my interest.

It's not my thing either to perform or to undergo. But if this is a legitimate desire from someone then I don't think placing their personal needs above what society says is normal is disrespectful. I can imagine if I wanted to be slapped around, knew 100% from my life history that I enjoyed that, and my partner went "oh no that's bad for you" I would not feel respected much.

Sexuality is strange. Some men pay for women to spend their money or to step on their balls. You cannot really uphold it to everyday standards, it is fundamentally different.

But anyone who wants to be abused is fucked up. I mean, it’s a clear sign they have serious personal issues.

That wasn't me, you do need to chill out man.

Lately? When people compliment my Japanese.
The one that hit me the most is when some guy in high school said I was the nicest guy they ever met. He had absolutely no reason to say that and he didn't even say it to me so it really stuck with me.

how do i filter trip fags

I don't really believe that. I mean surely it can feed into negative experiences in the past, but you don't leave your personality or your past life at the door when you have sex. This applies even to vanilla sex. I know it hits a certain spot for me to have a bodypart I used to negatively obsess over lovingly caressed - the past sadness and feelings of shame/inferiority deepen the love and acceptance. Similarly, I am usually very self-conscious about my bodily functions and doing something or having something done to me that I would usually find horribly shameful and suddenly enjoying it and feeling alright with myself is exhilarating, freeing.

Now I know these are much more relatable than wanting to be slapped but the point I'm trying to make is that negative emotions are always in some form present during sex and can actually enhance things. There's no fucking like sex between two people who are or were scared to lose each other, for example. It is not just lust and tenderness and romance, there's some darkness too, or even just the threat of darkness.

I am sure that there's people who want to be slapped who would be better off getting therapy and abstaining for some time. But a slap in the face also simply causes a physical reaction of adrenaline, feeling alive. If your dad used to slap you and those memories trouble you, "overwriting" them with scenarios in which you are slapped under YOUR terms, with someone who loves you and does it for you not to you, can be a step in the healing process. Like watching a horror movie that scarred you again, but now in full daylight with someone else present. You are inching towards the terrible thing, now armed.

Basically the distinction between healthy and unhealthy is not that clear. Even in the field of psychology there is no real, solid, uncontroversial definition of what constitutes an emotionally healthy person.

I'm not mad; but the advice mostly stands because your response after was also quite angry.

>A partnership is equal level and I'd like to keep it as close as possible.
What does this mean? Why do you want to keep the salaries as close as possible?

>I'm not threatened by him spending money on me, I'm frustrated because I cannot reciprocate in kind.
Why? What frustrates you?

I believe I already know the answers to these questions, but I'd rather not assume because you don't like that. But I do know some girls like you.

pic related

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Any woman who wants to be spat on, and slapped.. and any dude who wants some woman to crush his balls with high heels seriously have issues.

28, f

I can think of 3.
>when someone I respected became immediately and strongly defensive of me when I called myself lazy as throwaway comment
>my partner saying how impressed/proud she was at how I'd improved at x thing she sort of taught me to do
>physically I like it being noticed when I've worked on getting fitter. My partner has also made some very cheesy comments about my smile that makes my kokoro go doki

You're coming across pretty mad, man.
>What does this mean? Why do you want to keep the salaries as close as possible?
It means that I believe partnerships should be an equal footing and not one person is expecting to slave away for the other's leisure. At no point did I mention salaries there, although keeping them close would be nice, it's not the be all end all. There are other ways to keep relationships equal but when the disparity widens, it gets harder and harder.
>Why? What frustrates you?
Not being able to reciprocate in kind. I want to spoil him like he spoils me and not having that capability is frustrating. If we were living together or something, it would still potentially be manageable, but we're not so it isn't. Again, since this bizarrely needs specifying, I'm not worried he's going to leave me even if I were to suddenly start taking all of his money with glee. Its my own morals, wants and standards here that is causing the issue. All I want is to be happy with my actions and role within the role I'm currently forced to take.

I don't like people in my personal space either, but sitting next to someone in a chair seems a bit of a stretch for a personal invasion. I doubt it even occurred to her that she might be bothering you.

That's your opinion and that's fine, but I don't see the point in asking questions about it if you're not open to reconsidering anything.

PB, you are about as close to the opposite to a "gentle guy" as can be. You're five pounds of shit in a three pound bag.

I mean, it’s pretty clear that anyone who enjoy having their own body be physically harmed.. they have problems

To those that don't understand me:

When I was younger, sometimes I would resist good people, good advice. No matter how calm or digestible it was, it would make me angry and I would snap at the good person.

Nevertheless, I did read their words (or hear them). And even though I resisted them, something about their words always stuck with me. Often, years later, I would reflect on the same problem in a calmer state of mind. I'd recall the old conversation I had, and remember the advice. And finally, I would apply it.

It was like the advisor planted a seed in my head. Just sitting there idly. Waiting for the day the soil of my brain was ready to grow it.

These people helped me tremendously and I'm grateful for it; so that's why I often speak from the heart despite adversity. As long as my intentions are pure and I'm speaking with goodness, there is no limit in how far I can go, or how much I can push. Resistance be damned.

>Resistance be damned.
you sound like a rapist or something bruv

>These people helped me tremendously
Based on you being a tripfag and your posts here ... it's scary to think how low you started if the current position is an improvement for you.

But hey, gratz and keep going.

You're not a girl though are you? You're playing by the rules girls follow because? Are you gonna sit and wait for girls to ask you out now?

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No, but she is, so I'm thinking she'll probably say no, to avoid being an asshole

Haven't had sex in 4 years, but was a pussy slayer a few years ago.
Turned from chad-lite to incel after a relationship gone sour.
I'm handsome facially, but people think I'm weird because I don't socialize much. I don't go out at all and very few people seem pleasant enough to hang with in the first place.

Just the other day a guy on my job site introduced himself as soon as I exited my car, bombarded me with 10 non work related questions, then proceeded to bother me during my break, mind you this is the first time I've met him, we aren't peers, nor do we work for the same dept.
After I've bluntly told him I'm not interested in being his friend, he called me a 'fucking weirdo' and left. We don't speak now, probably a fag or some shit, but it made me think -- am I really weird? Why do people take sincerity so personally?

For some reason retards flock to me like flies to shit, and always seem to get offended after their imagined interaction didn't go as planned, must be because I look 'cool' or whatever.

tl;dr: how do I become more open and 'normal'? I'm a tense prick internally, and people are picking it up despite my best efforts to hide it. I've lost friends and partners, so I'm emotionally pretty blank.
I don't emote much, and it depresses me seeing much uglier people in cohabitation. If they can, why can't I anymore?

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Is it possible for a woman to love something like me?

>25
>4/10 face
>6'0
>Starting to bald
>Skinnyfat
>Low income
>No car
>Beta personality
>Not many friends

>poster said why am I asking for drama if I'm not really interested in a girl and still asking them out despite them being possibly flaky or having drama in their life
>did it anyway

ok, waiting for a reply now

it's true I don't like her as much as I used to, I was completely fucking besotted before but now it's just meh but I just don't know

trying new things, in all my autistic mind simulations this isn't a bridge burner if I fail, the loss is minimal, why not eh

if she replies, I'm just gonna ask her out for a meal somewhere casual, it would be nice if it works out, I don't think it will, but I have no reason to care if it doesn't and it feels great anons

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