My younger brother, who goes to the same school as me, is constantly getting bullied, he isn't actually the fittest one and is being bullied for being owerweight, but I can no longer watch him becoming more and more desperate with each passing day. Yesterday, we had a home visit by the police because they were alerted by an online friend of my brother because he apperently tought about suicide. My mother and Me, we didn't actually know about it but we had suspicions, but now we know what is going on, but we dont know what to do, so all advise is welcome!
Can anyone give me advise ?
Just beat the crap out of his bullies faggot
ok its serious. You need to take him to a therapist. If I were you as a brother I would find the people who are pushing him around and fuck them up. Or at least scare them.
To be more constructive, you need to lend your brother a sympathetic ear. Becareful he isnt talking just to get attention which I doubt, but you need to help him more. Make sure you defend him when he needs it because nothing makes a person want to off themselves when everyone is against you.
Problem is his bullies are about 3 years younger as I am, so speaking around 14-15 and I am 18, you see ?
But thanks fag
Dont listen to the anons telling you to go to jail for assaulting minors.
He needs a therapist, he also needs to start taking better care of his body. He's fat because of his diet/activity not because of some bullshit genetics or inheritance.
you can still scare the little fucks dude. as a brother you need to stand up for your little bro. You dont have to attack them, but you can demean them by calling them out.
Report it to the principal. Schools are required by law to deal with bullies, and can be sued if they don't. (Google "school sued for bullying" for examples)
He will be going to the school therapist soon, and I am definitly sure he isn't talking shit. I am currently doing my best to protct him, the problem is, all his classmates are his bullies, so protecting him is difficult.
He knows that hee need to loose some weight and he is working on that goal, but I need to help him now, because he is in a realy bad situation right now
hmm does he speak out a lot in class? Maybe even try too hard to make friends?
So basicly I should find out who exactly bullies him and scare the shit out of this little shit heads ?
I am currently working on reporting it I just want to wait until my brother comes back to school, because he is staying at home for a few days, as he can't stand the bullying anymore
No, not at all, he barely even answers to questions asked by the teachers as he fears the reaction of his classmates, and in general he is more of a introvert person, so no I don't think thats the problem
This but without beating up children
Also OP, maybe you can start working out and lead your brother by example. Show him he has control over his health and body in a positive way.
Alright
I don't think that will help, as I am working out since 3 years, and that never motivated him
Tell the fat fuck to buck up or shut up. He needs to stand up for himself. Take him to the gym or some boxing wrestling. If he wants it to stop he needs to make it stop. Otherwise he wouldn't make it in the real world
>So basicly I should find out who exactly bullies him and scare the shit out of this little shit heads ?
so basically go and find your brother and watch from afar. See if any one is pushing him around, walk up to the kid and say in an angry tone " the fuck you doing to my bro?" If you are taller and have muscles you should intimidate them, be sure to snap back at any comment like you are gonna blow but not really. Simple intimidation tactic. Let them go to the school councilor respond to that councilor to do a better job protecting your bro. You bro doesnt have a homie to back home up so you have to.
Trying to get him into making sport
That sounds to easy to work, and still the problem is, the main bullying takes place in their classroom, where I can't enter, because I also have courses
It's not an either or thing. He doesn't even need to beat the kids up but not setting them straight is just lame.
how is the teacher letting this happen?
Either he learns how to fight, or he might as well get a gun and surprise the bullies in school. Also hi FBI.
Were you never inside a school? If it's not overly physical, most teachers don't give a flying fuck about bullying.
yeah, even teachers would tell students to leave a kid alone. I had only one teacher who didnt give a fuck.
Excactly, most teachers in our school just don't give a fuck, and unless you are lucky you will allways manage to get one of those who doesn't care
I will try to motivate him and to show him the possibilities as soon as i am home again
ok hold on so tell me how are these kids bullying him? plus I live in United states so I dont know where you live.
Depends a lot on intensity. If it's lots of small niggling, bullies usually get away with it. I wouldn't even necessary blame it on overworked teachers who have to deal with way too many students but I never encountered any doing anything useful in the 5+ schools I went to.
Not OP, I'm EUfag. Though also went to school in East Europe. If anything, I bet the situation is worse in Murica due social attitudes and the whole "pull yourself up by your bootstraps" meme.
Exactly how much is it a requirement for a man to have his own place be it apartment or a house in order to increase their chances of having a active sex life?
Is it really that much of a necessity to pay for your own personal space beyond just to have a place to raise a family?
How come it's not more common to just go to a girls place for casual sex and why is it EXPECTED for men to have a place for the girls to go home to?
well actually bullying here got tovah point where kids were committing suicide. Now they over do it to a point where everyone is now a giant pussy who gets "triggered" when some disagrees with them. Not lying here. Kids still bully but it's gotten to a point kids are call boys like your little brother things like rapists. Its fucking bad and the bullies are girls now too.
Its fucking bad here and stupid. But look bro go into that teacher's room and talk to them, they maybe busy but tell them your concerns.
As he is fat they constantly(I mean between 30 and 50 times a day) tell him that he isn't "normal" further they destroy his homeworks, and they throw his meals on the floor and so on
And I live in Luxembourg
>destroy his homeworks, and they throw his meals on the floor
Holy fucking kek. That's some movie bully material. And the teachers just look to the other side?
go into the room and stop that shit. at that point I would give a fuck if I was suspended. That's fucked up.
Yep they just prentend as if nothing happened, but I think that is because the bullies parents of the bullies got quite a good reputation
ok look at his class and watch, then fuck with them on their way out of school.