The love of my life doesn't see me as any more than a friend and says she likely never will.
I dated her for a over a year a couple years back but she eventually backed out and we went no contact for a year.
She is my best and only friend and she has known how in love with her I've been for the last 8 months but she doesn't want anymore than a "best friends" deal...
This is making me seriously depressed and borderline suicidal, I can't seem to being myself to put distance between us (tried more than once, always go back) but this situation in which she doesnt love me and cant commit makes me so unhappy.
that's a very serious question so you better answer it so I can understand your problem better
Angel King
>the love of my life >she is my best and only friend
Well I suppose that's your problem. If you only have one friend then they are both your best friend and also your worst friend. i bet she's also the only woman who ever gave you the time. Get more friends.
Robert Jackson
If you haven't banged, move on.
If you have banged, move on.
You're clearly not interested in being just 'friends' with her, so there's no point in you keeping contact. You're just hurting yourself. Grow a fucking pair and move on instead of torturing yourself over 'could haves'.
Kidnap her or be forever a faggot wondering what if.
Jackson Adams
No, she is is borderline asexual (I somewhat tried to pressure her when we were together years back but eventually took the hint) we are both virgins & still are.. I am not desperate enough to pressure her into something she didnt want
Gavin Miller
>No, she is is borderline asexual yeah. for you. You were never for her anything more than a friend. you must get redpilled dude. start with Jow Forums I am typing this unironically
Justin Bailey
>asexual
Move on.
Jackson Clark
How tf do I make good friends as a major introvert working a 9 to 5 every work day
Alexander Ortiz
Redpilled?
Austin Morris
You’re a virgin, she isn’t you naive nigger. Kill her, kidnap her or move the fuck on.
Matthew Hughes
the fact that you have to ask about this means that your father failed you. start with Jow Forums then move on to youtube videos, read about evolutionary psychology. very interesting stuff.
>working a 9 to 5 every work day There. Work is where most people make friends. It's that easy.
Justin Robinson
Are you sure you were "together"? Did she ever refer to you two as bf/gf?
Jayden Robinson
Honestly I think she is a bit emotionally autistic, but when we were together she was really in love and showed it
Owen Cox
>but when we were together she was really in love and showed it how? and what do you mean by being together? if you don't have sex you are not a couple
Xavier Thomas
>I think she is a bit emotionally autistic for you
Henry Campbell
>I think she is a bit emotionally autistic, but when we were together she was really in love and showed it This retard got friendzoned slowly lmao
Grayson Cooper
How did she show it? Are you sure she did not see you as only a friend and never thought you were a couple?
Elijah Bell
Well first of all it was her idea to make things official initially (after a few weeks of flirting)
Adrian Phillips
She officially said you are a couple?
Hunter Phillips
This really hits hard
Juan Ortiz
Not OP but it's seriously creepy how similar to my situation this is. It's really hard for me to keep our friendship, we've known each other for so long and I care about her more than anyone else. She probably just sees me as her best friend and nothing more, and if I cut contact I'd also lose our circle of friends and have no one. I've tried getting away from her in the past but I never manage to do it and she knows that. I've thought about killing myself many times because of this whole situation. I just want us to hug tightly one last time and then finally I could die.
Hunter Ward
Ditch her.
Lucas Sanchez
>best friends Males and females are incapable of that level of intimacy outside of a romantic relationship, which is why it's destroying you now. You care enough about her though, so rather than cutting her off immediately, give her an ultimatum and don't look back.
Jace Robinson
So hug her one last time and move away, bucko.
Gabriel Wilson
>The love of my life What a fucking retard. That shit doesn't exist.
Charles Bennett
Why?
Andrew Carter
How big are her boobs?
Juan Cruz
>asexual She keep telling you this bullshit either because she just doesn't want you at all or she's just a delusive insane cunt, in both case you should just grow some balls and move on.
Gavin Ross
>probably Have you not confessed to her or talked about your feelings?
Jaxson Thompson
Tell her,get your shit straighten and move on if it doesn't work. Worst case scenario ropes are not expensives
Cooper Hughes
Dont listen to that crab bucket incel faggot trying to drag you down in his depression hole. Just move on and work on improving yourself. Go to Jow Forums and look up the self improvement generals, go and talk to anons who share your pain. Never, under any circumstance, use r9k as a coping mechanism. You will become a depressed suicidal fat loser with nothing live for just like the idiot telling you to go there. And fuck all the "redpilling" and blackpilling about women. Those things are written by bitter virgins who would rather wallow in their own despair than to actually face life and become better people. I've been in your shoes user, go lift and be healthy and good luck to you, if an ex-fat loser like me can make it so can you.
