>Married to wife for 4 years
>Met in college, we both became very successful
>She has recently started pole dancing as a hobby
>Goes to dance class 3 times a week
>ff 2 years, she has gotten several plastic surgeries, i have never said anything because liberal NY cuck elite mindset brainwashed me into "her body her rules".
>She has now started saying she has "reclaimed her sexuality" and is "plastic positive" and a "bimbo queen".
>Wears pic related depraved clothing all the time.
>I try to speak to her that i don't feel comfortable with it, i am being a "sexist who is objectifying her"
All this bullshit is stemming from this giant whore on Instagram called Alicia Amira, and there is a whole "movement" about it, hashtags, meetups the whole BS.
I have no idea how to get out of this.
Despite all this recent bullshit our marriage is great. I have no idea how to react anymore.
Does anyone have more content into this "plastic positive" bullshit, has dealt with it, has seen this before? How recent is this thing? I feel like i was on auto-pilot for like 4 years and woke up to her just 100% deep in this thing.
Married to wife for 4 years
She's turning into Weimar mode, prepare yourself for the worse has yet to come, even if this sounds like doomsday material, have a lawyer on standby in case things turn sour, trust me, you'll remember these words, she's now in scouting mode.
Why don't you ask your fucking wife about it who seems to be the expert.
that's wild and instance. she sounds a little crazy desu.
> I feel like i was on auto-pilot for like 4 years and woke up to her just 100% deep in this thing.
sounds like you neglected her and she's crying out for attention. try taking her out on dates again, being very accepting and slowly, over several years convert her back.
What a cuck you are lmao.
>woke up to her
Nibba she went pole-dancing as your WIFE.
The mere thought that she hasn't been cucking you seems foreign in this case. Like, this is a breadcrumb trail.
I'm thinking you'll be told an awful lot to leave.
You both sound like real winners
Also I just looked up Alicia Amira,
I'm all for the bimbo thing, but that bitch has a gross face.
Is your wife still pretty (or was she ever)? Maybe this could be good for you? If she gets the idea that being a bimbo means also being your personal fuck toy
Just saying OP, I know nothing of some weird plastic movement but bimbofication is a real kink/fetish and it could be a veil for that. Look it up.
Yes she is very pretty, and even some slight stuff she did on her face was subtle and made her legit prettier.
>Personal fuck toy
Yeah so i read up a bit on the bimbofication thing and saw this was an used term. This could be an interesting path. It`s still weird to me, but at least it's about us and our relationship as opposed to her "self-improvement"
You should be more involved in the discussion and development of this for a few reasons
1. It could be good for both of you and lead to amazing sexy times
2. If left unchecked it could get out of control and become an obsession resulting in pic related
>Alicia Amira
She fucking looks 50. She's barely 30. Gross.
I'm 2 years younger than her and she looks like my mom.
This.
Be supportive and reach out to her, but at the same time start researching excellent divorce attorneys, since her path inevitably will lead to infidelity
I don't it's about looking like her, but that she spearheads what they call this "plastic positive" thing.
Yeah i think this could be steered towards #1, but #2 is really frightening. It's about like confronting her fears of becoming old, will she overdo this thing? Def something that scares me.
Really hard being supportive rn, not going to lie. Every time we bring it up it results in an argument. I just can't swallow all these terms she's using they sound stupid and brainwashy. Honestly if it wasn't this whole "this is a movement, you need to get on board" thing i think i would deal much better with it.
WTF is it with people getting into these hashtag movements, for real people don't have a fu*king brain anymore to think for themselves?
>Go to her IG
>Out of the last 2 months of posts count how many pictures of her include you
>Out of her last 10 selfies pick the least sexualized one. Post it here.
>If not going to post just look at it.
If her least sexualized pic is still pretty sexualized, and she has like fewer then 5 pictures of you in her IG in 2 months, she is full-blown insta-thot, and there's no going back to that.
Normalfags never did psychedelics in high school.
Curious to how this works out for you.
I definetely have a bimbo fetish (to be with one). But not gf, and it's hsrd to find interested girls.
It could definetely be a positive for your relationship.
Like others said bimbos tend to be submissive.
Post her pics cuck
Sounds like she wants to swing.
Which means her fucking other guys. But that also means you get to fuck other girls.
good luck.
>she has like fewer then 5 pictures of you in her IG in 2 months
Lol. I have literally never posted a photo of my boyfriend on instagram. You're crazy if you think it means anything in particular.
haven't you posted about this before
didn't anons tell you it was your fault you either married a whore or neglected your wife and she became a whore, and that all you could do was leave her?
Idiot. Pole dancing classes. It's all women at these things, in a little gymnasium. It's risky but not like she's getting money between her tits.
OP I think you neglected your wife and this is her way of feeling sexy/confident/wanted again. Yes it's kinda insane but you need to do some work, take her out, take up a lot of her time and give her the attention she needs for a little while. See if that works, and see if you can change things for the better moving forward.
run, dude
yeah this; I honestly think it sounds kind of awesome in terms of both self-expression for her and fun for you, as long as the surgery stuff doesn’t get to out of control / self harm levels
it does sound pretty fetish-y but also empowering
i’ve met women into the bimbo thing just in the bedroom a bit bc they’re super career boss mode and don’t get to express “girly fuck doll” type stuff like, ever
it’s a way of playing with being hyper-feminine when in some places (esp east coast) that’s considered frivolous
I've dated a marketing exec in the last company i worked at, and this was definitely the case.
She constantly complained about not being able to be feminine and vulnerable at work because all her colleagues were older men who wouldn't take her seriously.
So after work, weekends and in the bed she was an entirely different person. And took dancing classes, yoga whatever. Wore sillier frivolous clothing.
And i can get down with that i get it, i'm a robot at work, and definitely like to wind down in some anarco-punkery after work so i can respect that.
Wait until she starts getting massive attention again. She'll drop you with no remorse
>Pole dancing classes. It's all women at these things
Yeah, a bunch of liberal empowered and sexually liberated thots at that.
Women are extremely weak to peer pressure and her brains are literally wired to fit in their respective environment. Eventually after spending enough time around that sort of people it'll rub onto her, she'll start thinking about getting tattoos, hanging out and partying with the fellow whores, she may even get tempted to make some quick buck by dancing in an actual strip club and eventually she'll wonder why Stacy likes to go suck 5 guys off in the backstage.
Women are worse than children in that aspect.
I could make the same argument about men much more easily. But yes, this is a risk for all people.
I disagree with parts of this. Yeah humans are social animals and influenced by each other's perspectives all the time, that i agree with.
But it's not like all women are being strippers somewhere and thus they have this shared mentality.
I agree that there is a shared point of view to being a female that propels them to all female classes and what-not, but i think what puts them in this perspective in the first place is escaping male objectification. Clearly not OPs problem.
Bimbofication is 100% about male objectification and sexualization. He needs to identify whether his wife wants this from him or others. If for him, this sounds pretty dope desu.
If from others, nibba run.
>He needs to identify whether his wife wants this from him or others
From OP's little summary of the situation he sounds quite detached from his wife and his relationship in general, my guess is that the guy has been neglectful and clueless, so now the resentful woman got into all of this stuff out of spite towards him. If we give her the benefit of the doubt, perhaps the whole charade is a cry for help, hoping that OP will give a shit and get off his ass. If we are a bit more pessimistic, then she's already given up on him and her mind has been corroded so now she may just be looking for someone new to make her feel like a "desired woman" again (ie use her as a bimbo cumsleeve)
This is a lie. Why did you just post some made up bullshit?
Considering OP has not followed up a single time I think it was bait gents
I did follow up several times, just not today.
I did say that i think there is a path of turning this thing to be about us and our relationship, and maybe i can sneak in my weird shit and fetishes as well, and we can both have our cake and eat it too.
I wasn't neglectful, we've had a pretty marriage and our sex life is good. I think i expressed myself incorrectly. We always talked about each and everyone of the modifications she's made, and they all seemed fine.
Then came the dancing classes (which i don't inherently think are horrible btw), which i was also cool with.
Then some cosmetic changes (with the fake nails, and eyelashes etc.) which i was also cool with.
What i said was that even though on an individual thing-by-thing level this all seemed fine, when aligned it became apparent she was really changing a lot.
Then she dropped this whole bimbofication bomb on me, and the whole thing, the movement, the hashtags (srsly look them up if you don't know what i'm talking about), and it become too much.
Again i don't think i'd be this alerted if not for the "movement" aspect of this.
OP, I think the problem now is that you're throwing any excuse you can to deny the fact that you might have been the only dude in this thread who would not immediately have their hackles raised by any of this and by now, it's too late. Opposing this now is a gunpowder trail because it's all linked. The stripper classes were part of this, and before anyone shits on that I'm fucking sorry but it's not like chicks pole dance for a myriad of reasons.
I don't know what you expect to hear OP, but, if you keep making excuses for how everything is or was totally fine, you'll never get anywhere.
I think you said it yourself. You shut down for four years and this was your wife's response. She just wanted something more than a lukewarm thread on Jow Forums that took you four entire years to get around to making.
She wanted a reaction the first time.