How do I get my friend/coworker to give me my money back? I lent her money to buy concert tickets because she's "broke" and I trusted her to pay me back next pay period. She went to the concert, got an airbnb, and comes home with a new tattoo. This bitch isn't broke and I want my money back so I'm not the broke one. FUCK being nice. I've asked her about it three times now and gotten different excuses. I don't want this to ruin our friendship.
This same chick has also called me up asking to get juul pods for her because she couldn't wait until the next paycheck. I never say yes to that, but she still does it.
Start asking for your money back via public social networking. The moment her social identity starts getting fucked with, she’ll cough it up pretty quickly.
Nolan Rogers
Tell here there is interest in your loan to her. Payable in sexual flavors.
James Kelly
If only. I feel like that would make me look bad as well. It's not very professional? I'd feel bad getting others involved, too. I'm not gay, but she is. So I'm sure she'd like that idea
Lincoln Evans
Okay first, as you seem to have started to realize, nice people get shit on in this world. There is ALWAYS gonna be some kikey asswipe who uses you. I cannot stand these people and am filled with rage and hate when I see and hear of this shit (I’ve gone through it enough times). These people are absolute shit and often always get away with this shit. I don’t want to tell you to always be on guard because that will make you paranoid around most people like it did to me, but you need to be more conservative with who you do favors like that for. Be more selfish (it’s not a bad thing so long as you don’t go overboard like a shitty child). Don’t be a cunt, be KIND to others, but understand you owe not a single person anything.
Now as to what to do about the bitch. Well it depends on a few things. Are you a guy or girl? How much do you value this job, is it just a part time job while in classes?
What I would do is confront her in a kind way “hey I really need my money, we already got our last pay check do you mind paying me back?” (she absolutely has the money and isn’t gonna pu you unless you mention it) she’ll probbaly say no and if she does then I would show up at her home with a baseball bat and do the stereotypical mafia intimidation shit where you break something like all her car windows and demand your money as cringey as it sounds that’s the route I would take.
But what you may wanna do instead is discuss it with your boss and explain she agreed to pay you back by now and that you’re worried this is gonna cause workplace complications.
Isaac Rivera
>If only. Enjoy never getting repaid and walked all over. Sorry not sorry you lack the genitals for confrontation sweetie
Levi Morris
Never give out money if you expect it get it back.
Jonathan Clark
He says, passive aggressive as fuck
Nicholas Ramirez
Stay mad, fuccboi
Logan Baker
>I would show up at her home with a baseball bat and do the stereotypical mafia intimidation shit where you break something like all her car windows and demand your money as cringey as it sounds that’s the route I would take.
This is retarded, you sounds like that one dipshit who kept posting about how threw a brick through his friend's window and shat on his porch because his buddy kept sending him videos of his dick getting sucked by some slut they both met at the bar.
Elijah Edwards
Not even the user you were being passive aggressive to buddy, just calling it like I see it
Ayden Young
It’s because you’re a beta pushover unable to take risks that this shit happens to you
Ethan Smith
I did say it sounds a bit cringe, but it works.
Also I’m not that user but I’ve come close to taking a dump on the hood of someone’s car and planting a little flag of my country into it and packing my own shit into his car door handle so he also touches my poop
Jack Stewart
Just ask her for the money back literally any time she tries to talk to you.
Also
Jayden Kelly
That’ll make her avoid OP and try to sue someone else man.
Robert Cooper
Yeah, I had my doubts about her and I turned out to be right. Which upsets me a lot because she's generally a good person. I think she's just hoping i'll forget or something. It's not like I'm in a dire need for my money back, I'm only 18 and have no bills except for my car and phone. It's just the fact that it's money I earned being used for someone else's enjoyment. I could see if she was my girlfriend, but it isn't like that and I never give out shit for free. I'm a girl. I could probably beat the shit out of her but that's not the route I'd like to take here. As fun as it may sound.
As for talking to my boss, they would most definitely be on my side. It's only a part time job and I've been there much longer and have a way better work ethic. But since it's a matter outside of work, they can't really do anything. Or can they? I don't want to get others involved unless I have to.
We've had 3 pay periods since giving her the money. ($250) And she just came back from the concert yesterday.
Aaron Robinson
Take it as an expensive lesson not to loan to deadbeats who renege on their word. I’m guessing the logic behind loaning her money was maybe she’d find you favorable as a sexual partner? If that’s your game you got suckered like a simp.
Isaac Ward
If someone spends money on a concert when they are broke ... you know the person sucks with money and shouldn't expect shit from them.
Carson Clark
$250 is 5 sad blowjobs
Maybe 2 good ones.
Daniel Edwards
You’re not getting the cash back. Kick her ass and cause her $250 worth of damage or let it go.
Jacob White
What friendship? She hosed you for free cash you dumbass.
Don't ever give money you expect back. Since there's no notary proof you're fucked, she can walk with your cash. I'd tell her she's a horrible bitch and you have no intentions of being around her any longer than absolutely necessary.
Carter Robinson
Nah, I'm not gay though. Just thought it'd be nice to help a friend out. Plus I save most of the money I make so why not?
People fucking suck. I knew that before but now it means more.
Cooper Morris
OP here.
I'm perfectly fine and capable with confronting her. I just want to know if there's an easier way to go about it without it making things awkward at work and ruining the sort of friendship we have/had going on. Though, I don't really feel like being friends anymore, as irresponsible people have no place in my life. I'm concerned about my work life.
Jacob Gutierrez
Well I would confront her 3 times then. The first, if she doesn’t cough it up, get a firm answer on WHEN she’s gonna give it to you. You need to be a bit of a bitch about it: >you: “hey coworker, how was the concert blah blah small talk.... hey so I actually need my money to help my parent with something, can you pay me back?” >her: “excuse on why she can’t” >you: “well when am I gonna get it, I need it and I have given you 3 pay periods to do it.” And go from there
You’re right about it being an outside work matter but in my experience that would be enough for the boss to get you two in the same room and get her to agree on paying you back just to make sure there’s no workplace complications
In the end there’s always ruining her reputation at work since you’ve been there longer and are in better with everyone, just casually mention to. Afew of your favorite associates what she’s doing but really chalk it up as being way worse than it is and that she’s manipulative. If she’s gonna jew you like this then there’s no reason she should enjoy working at the same place as you, make it hell for her
Zachary Price
Also I’m and mafiaanon and the longer you wait, the harder it’s gonna be to get your money back. I’d wait till you see her, don’t text her. In person confrontation works way better because she’ll be put on the spot and not want to cause a scene.
Eli White
I literally told her the last time I asked that I needed to pay my car insurance and acted like I didn't have enough to do so. She responded with "Yeah me too, I actually just paid for mine and have like $5 left in my account, sorry!" That was the last time I saw her, 4 days ago. Now she comes back with a new tattoo, posting it all over her accounts. So I have to wonder what money she used to buy that for herself?
Ridiculous.
I'm going to ask her tomorrow when we work together. But I'm expecting another excuse and trying to be prepared for it.
Gavin Gonzalez
>But I'm expecting another excuse and trying to be prepared for it. Wreck the bitch and go for her face.
Blake Davis
You need to actually be a cunt. Like be aggressive. Call her out on the tattoo when she gives you another excuse. Make a scene and show her you don’t give a fuck. Like actually get aggressive and have aggressive body language. Y’all hard and firm. I woudl even tell her if she doesn’t pay you that you’re gonna beat her ass
Mason Martinez
I'll loan you money if you find me more favorable as a sexual partner, please
save all your evidence such as text, recorded words, etc..
get a lawyer and file at small claims court.
if u have an argument that you won in court, u can claim the rewards, and damage from your friend. but if she's poor u can make agreement to pay u in multiple set until all figures met. if she didn't pay, u can legally bring her back and put a credit record on her name.
Tyler Nelson
And that's why I don't lend money to anyone... People are selfish they always say "oh I'll pay you back when I have the money" but let's talk real here, who wants to let go of money? No one
Wyatt Brooks
How much was it? Probably the same price as your friendship.
