Yesterday I went out with a girl I hadn't seen for a couple of years. We had sex and smoked some weed and during this she said that she wanted to see me tomorrow after work. I told her that I was seeing family that day but I can be free by 6pm. She says she'll come to mine after she finishes work because its easy for her to get from hers to mine. In the taxi back she sends me snapchat messages saying how amazing I am etc. That night I let my family know I'll have to leave early and confirm with her that I'll be free, she texts back saying she'll come to mine. Then today I sent her a text, she responded back then when I responded she stopped responding and left me on unread. I could clearly see that she was online on her whatsapp.
So any advice and thoughts? I really want to fuck this girl more. I'm guessing that either someone else invited her to do something she wanted to do more and she felt too akward and cowardly to let me know or her agreeing to see me the next day was just the weed talking (even though she did still say she wanted to like 4 hours after we smoked) . Is there any point in texting her in a week/2 weeks/month and chatting her up or trying to get her to hang out? We don't have mutual friends so I don't care about reputation as long as I get to bang her again. She's so fucking sexy. I'm pissed off that I changed my plans for her and she flaked out on me. idk if I just shouldn't have messaged her when it got to 6 but I thought that pretending not to be annoyed would just look beta anyway and I wanted to blurt it out.
yeah I know these are moist. It's hard to keep your composure around this girl brehs. and she was snapchatting me cutesy things anyway. I didn't think it would be that bad to say hi to her during work. fuck.
She could just be figuring out her schedule. It's unlikely she's going to just completely change her mind even if it was the weed that got her to speak up.
Levi Stewart
Oh fuck dude, you shouldn't have sent that last one. Now she knows you're way too focused on her every movement. 4 hours of waiting isn't that long man.
Colton Bell
>4 hours > that text message You've already lost OP
James Garcia
At least you put benis n bagina
Jason Collins
she was already avoiding reading my texts by that point. I could see her whatsapp saying she was online.
Elijah Butler
I know but you ignore that shit man. Girls are all fucking assholes about texting, that doesn't mean anything
James Ward
She knows you care more than she does. Ball’s in her court and she knows.
Oliver Clark
ok I know empirically and pragmatically speaking this is the right answer.
but just thinking theoretically I mean if she cancels without telling me am I meant to pretend I don't mind by not saying anything? Doesn't that just make me look like a meek cuck who doesn't stand up for himself? the message I sent was probably too half hearted. If I had sent her "let me know if you're going to cancel you rude bitch" there'd be a chance she would have been shocked/negged into wanting to win back my respect or something.fark
Colton Ramirez
You seem extraordinarily overbearing my dude.
Colton Baker
No, not saying anything shows that her canceling is not the end of your world. She 100% would've apologized for blowing you off or delaying (which is probably closer to what was happening) then you could've played the "yeah, it's whatever I chilled with a friend, no biggie" card and looked really cool. Now if she texts back she's going to be defensive and it'll be something like "I had shit I had to take care of. Are you that obsessed that you can't wait for me to get back to you?"
Jaxson Rogers
She was at work, man. Her FIRST day of work, no less. She can have Whatsapp open and not have her nose to her phone the whole time. There is more going on in her life than you, someone she barely knows.
You really fucked up with those last messages, because you are not entitled to an immediate response from anyone.
If you hadn't gotten a message in that long, you should have taken the hint that she's otherwise busy ESPECIALLY since it's her first day at a job -- you didn't even bring up that it was her first day in your post, you didn't even think about it because you're being self-centered.
Brody Lewis
Eh you kind of blew it with the triple posting
Josiah Rivera
>She was at work, man. Her FIRST day of work, no less. She can have Whatsapp open and not have her nose to her phone the whole time. There is more going on in her life than you, someone she barely knows. > >You really fucked up with those last messages, because you are not entitled to an immediate response from anyone. > >If you hadn't gotten a message in that long, you should have taken the hint that she's otherwise busy ESPECIALLY since it's her first day at a job -- you didn't even bring up that it was her first day in your post, you didn't even think about it because you're being self-centere
You literally said everything!!!! Thank God someone has some fucking notion around here
Nolan Fisher
Why are you being so outwardly obsessive and cringey? Girls find desperation to be very unnatractive. You are supposed to be better/having more fun with your time than any girl is, and not showing this is your downfall with women
Christian Moore
she was texting during the day you whiteknight spastic
Nathaniel Turner
She already said you're amazing. If you don't take your foot off the gas right NOW she will never fuck you again
Jaxon Moore
Jow Forums seems to specialise in these neurotic, pessimistic posts and I can't imagine the people who have made them have gotten laid or seduced someone at all. They probably tell themselves that they've ruined everything and to give up at any blip whatsoever.
Adrian Clark
Cringe, you embarrassed your self and came asking for help, not me
Gabriel Gutierrez
Dude you're just a total cringelord, just because you disagree won't make it untrue
Elijah Smith
Whether or not you're OP, platitudes won't get him un-ignored. The chick is donion rings with that shit, because OP displayed pretty clear focus and she wanted a guy she had to chase.
Protip for the gents, most any woman who ever ends any text in "xx" or variants there of is a thot. Thot, thot, thot. Suffer not the thot a thought
James Parker
>wall text ruined
Dominic Parker
Wtf is this xx shit? Is this some trendy thing people send each other like xoxoxoxox?
