My shitty date

>Cute girl, 2yrs older than me
>probably a 7
>likes me
>go on date, have a good time, she talks a lot, we laugh a lot
>accompany her home, too anxious to even go for a kiss
>another date, she chooses a better location by a lake, pretty romantic
>"i want to kiss you"
>"no"
>cool, go for a drink, have some laughs, she suddenly changes her mind, "gives me another chance", go by the lake again
>no kiss
>talk a lot about ex relationships
>"i want to kiss you"
>"no"
>cool, talk some more
>lean in for a kiss
>she stops me
>go home

Why am i like this?

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Dump go next. Bitches like this are rageworthy. It's just kiss not a dick in ass. fucking hell

Wait are you actually saying “I want to kiss you?”

Yes

I have kissed lots of women and never once asked for permission. Learn to read unspoken signals.

Learn from this Op.

Tell me about these signals please

That route works with nerdy girls but most girls will think that's awkward

She'll give you the eyes, you know like Nala gave Simba when he pinned her in Disney's The Lion King as Elton sung "Can You Feel the Love Tonight"

You know what I'm talking about, don't pretend you don't

3 dates and no kiss?

Fuck that shit.

You ever have that moment towards the end of a date where the date activity is wrapping up and you know it’s time to part soon but she keeps lingering around like she’s waiting for something to happen? That’s your cue to make a move.

I mean that happened twice, we were about to go home and then stayed some more, i know i fucked up by spelling out loud "i want to kiss you". But one time i actually felt i wanted to do it and went for the kiss but got stopped. Fuck

Do you ever hold hands or does she put her hand on your leg/let you put your hand on hers?

>But one time i actually felt i wanted to do it and went for the kiss but got stopped
Yeah but your op stated that you awkwardly told her to kiss you a couple times before on the same date and she turned you down. It sounds like you’re not very romantic and you’re killing the mood around her.

No
I know, im a funny guy but overall very anxious and cold. How do i change that

Learn body language. Try to make physical contact throughout the date like
said.
Putting your hand on her, being physically close to her etc... The further you can go with this the closer you get to kissing her.

It's 2019 and you haven't been fingered as a rapist yet? Don't admit that anywhere you're not anonymous, buddy. {:(

People accused of rape either did commit rape or got involved with a crazy chick

Not all relationships with women have to be sexual or romantic. What's wrong with having a good friend-who-is-a-girl?

You don't take female friends out on dates

dont fucking go for kisses too soon.
next NEVER EVER talk about exes. Also you seem to be starving for affection, dont let that get you and be patient.

Whisper in her ears that you want her to finger your bum

>dont fucking go for kisses too soon.
I'd say you should.

Going in for the kiss is the no.1 way to determine whether she actually likes you or not. If you're dating a girl, you should definitely always try to kiss after a maximum of 2 dates.

If by date 2 she rejects your kiss, it means she doesn't like you and you should move on. And also for you OP, never ask a girl for permission to kiss her. It completely kills the sexual tension and it makes you look like a chump.

>lol

are you sure these being "dates" are mutually considered dates?

if yes then just drop her, if no then make sure to establish what you want before the 1st date