Is pity sex a real thing? I am extremely pathetic, how do I get it?

Is pity sex a real thing? I am extremely pathetic, how do I get it?

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Nope. You get sex from working hard and improving yourself.

Either that, or just finding a girl who's desperate enough, but I can tell you from experience that you want to stay as far away from them as possible.

really? it never happens at all?
I mean I definitely know that working hard or really not being bottom of the barrel and totally uneeded to have sex, so I should take anything you say with a grain of salt

I have never heard of anyone getting fucked out of pity

I mean, it probably happens occasionally. People win the lottery all the time. Doesn't mean it'll happen to you, no matter how hard you try.

Better to put that effort into actually improving yourself rather than just trying to find a loophole for getting laid and meanwhile getting nowhere with your life.

It happens enough that it's a phrase
I don't think that is worth it really. i already try hard for other reasons, but knowing a woman would only be with me because I'm excellent in some way really makes it soulless to me.

> knowing a woman would only be with me because I'm excellent in some way really makes it soulless to me

But knowing that she likes you out of pity is somehow better? Everything is soulless if you dig deep enough. Read a book on Stoicism if you want proof.

>she likes you out of pity is somehow better?
a woman with strong empathy sounds infinitely better than one who values success

Think for just one second OP. Would YOU have sex with someone just because you pitied them? Imagine a girl that you find unattractive to such an extent that you pity them. Would you have sex with them? If you say "yes" you're being dishonest.

Go the gym and improve yourself. Stop wallowing in self-pity, it achieves nothing.

Pity sex is when a female gets the florence nightingale feeling. It doesnt last and she did it out of pitty. So its rare and some times its between close friends.

>knowing a woman would only be with me because I'm excellent in some way really makes it soulless to me
Anyone, both male and female, only hook up with others because they think they're attractive. That's how it is. If you can't offer anything, no one is going to give a shit about you. How can you not know this? You're being almost delusional.

Everybody values success. Men want to get with women who are successful socially - that's why everyone wants to fuck the popular girls.

You're literally delusional.

>that's why everyone wants to fuck the popular girls.
you don't know what you're talking about.

Yes I do OP. Everything you've said in this thread has been delusional and you've carried that trend on quite successfully with this post. Please, for the sake of all us, try and come to terms with reality.

I'm not OP.

You can be in shape, have a job and still be pathetic. I know I am.

>Imagine a girl that you find unattractive to such an extent that you pity them.
I find embarrassing girls to be cute, honestly.
I'm not unattractive, really, it's just that my personality is totally opposite of the charmer who is the first pick.

Could have fooled me, you're just as dumb as him.

Make changes so that you're not pathetic then. Get a job that you want to do. Take ownership of your life. Nobody else is going to do it for you.

>I find embarrassing girls to be cute
Those are clearly not girls that you actually pity.

>my personality is totally opposite of the charmer
Nobody is perfect mate. You make do with what you have. You do the best that you can. That's what everybody else does. I have friends who are not "charmers" but they have got girlfriends because they're pretty normal people and they made an effort.

Pity sex only works on girls that don't see sex as a big deal. So if you want to try that route, find someone slutty and/or with daddy issues.

Pity sex happens often in relationships. In the sense that, the man is horny but his girlfriend/wife isn't (or never is). But she 'allows' him to have sex with her for the sole purpose of satisfying him and giving him what he wants.

Outside of relationships i've never seen it happen. I've never seen or heard a woman fucking some ugly incel just to cure him of his inceldom. And i suppose that's what you're hoping for.

Didn't some chick wanted to pityfuck Brandon? If it's indeed the case, we learn that getting pity sex takes more effort than becoming a fuckable human being, so why bother with it?

so true, they fuck because they are bored often too

It's rare irl, way more common in movies and tv series.
Also the ones giving out pity sex are usually sluts like said.

>Those are clearly not girls that you actually pity.
that's not true actually, it has to be a combination of those traits and being really unattractive for me to not find them cute.

It might be, but you will never get it unless you have movie star-tier looks. Just improve yourself, bro.

This. It also seems like a fetish thing, try kink websites?

I think I got pity sex, at least I think so.

>be me, 24 year old socially awkward virgin chubby manlet
>wake up after a sex dream
>so desperately frustrated that I just decide to randomly text a girl I used to be friends with if she wants to be fuck buddies
>I figure that since we don't hang out or anything, getting rejected won't matter
>she says yes
>we have sex
It didn't change my life or made me any more successful with other women, if that's what you're aiming at. And the awkwardness of it kinda ruined the pleasure.

>Men want to get with women who are successful socially - that's why everyone wants to fuck the popular girls
lmao, bullshit

Men want to fuck hot girls, no one gives a shit about popularity. Right now, I want to bang a girl that everyone hates because she's an insane bitch. But she has a killer body, so I'm into her anyway. Popular girls get more sex because being attractive is what made them confident and popular in the first place.

Lmao the chance of this happening is like 1 in a million. But good for you though.