How to deal with Boomers lecturing you with outdated dating / relationship advice when you don't ask for it?
I'm /doomer/ and youngest at my job. Every so often dating / relationships come up while we talk (everyone basically already knows I'm KHV), and inevitably I get "LADIES YOU ARE LOOKING GOOD TONIGHT"-tier lectures from guys who refuse to get that their understanding of social rules is completely outdated and overwritten practically every other month. Yet these guys also go on tangents about #MeToo and how shitty it's getting for guys in my generation to do more than fuck around if they're lucky, so they understand on some level why I don't try with the opposite sex, and yet they lecture me regardless.
How do I deal with this shit? It really ruins my day and I've got a feeling its going to come up more often in the future.
You just gotta ignore it and do your job. Remember that you’re there to make money.
Blake Clark
I guess so.
Chase Lewis
they lecture you because not trying is the most beta shit you can do a little boldness goes a long way, and anyway, you gotto go for what you want
you seriously sign up for guys sitting like women waiting for women to pick them? no wonder women complain where all the good men went
Evan Martinez
learn the fact you are a spoiled child and the amount of suffering you endured is laughable.
Kayden Peterson
how does being a doomer have any thing to with your age? If anything you are zoomer doomer who has yet to experience life as much as a boomer. You can say you dont need experience but book knowledge can never prepares you for the experiences.
Samuel Perez
No, that is simply what it is. Nothing to "guess so" about it. You make the money over there, you party and fuck over here (not on Jow Forums, but in your area/social circle)
Nathan Morales
Based and can apply to everything on Jow Forums
Why arent more people thinking like this? Do people not feel self-indulgent with all of this "inceld" complaining?
Gabriel Walker
Ladies you are looking good tonight" she said and grabbed her shirt and went topless.
The next part is of course much better as we have that guy's cock and ass bouncing in the air then all of a sudden he just pulls out and says "You look really good tonight" and then she's totally naked because he's fucking her on the bed. I have never gotten into a guy who would leave a girl naked on the bed. Not once. I even had my friends ask me to leave the room when they saw me naked so I made them promise I would leave and would not be on the bed afterwards even if I did get married. She is amazing.
This has become such a tradition now here in NYC that girls, men, and couples come to meet at all of these parties like their jobs have an event every year. It's nice to see how much people care about what I do. You can usually find me at a dance party at a club like Rascal Flatts or a ballroom at the club called the Blackbird.
Aaron Rogers
because they are bored and disappointed their life isnt liek a fantasy, they had the idea of a fantasy reality where things work out if you go to school but when the put into application reality comes crashing down on top of you.
Blake Wilson
I think it's time to ask ourselves what will happen if we don't get our act together and stop putting this on someone else to make us feel good, and instead look out for one another as we go about our jobs and lives. What do you think? Do you think the men should pay themselves enough to buy themselves some time before firing them and starting the whole thing over?
Xavier Hughes
thing is people in our generation were coddled in the warm blanket of education system. When the real world its survival out there and being expected to do work at a fast pace is simply a base requirement.
Parker Watson
"thanks for your advice , I know you're looking out for me, but I really think that the playing field has changed significantly since you were using these types of strategies. dating apps and social media have really changed the way people interact with each other.. "
Carter Jackson
they made people expectations much higher.
Leo Edwards
Lol glad I'm not the only one, we are literally in the same position. Thanks for making this thread.
>men >make move >women >uncomfortable >make noise online >feminists shits I would say they brought it all on themselves. you made your bed, now lay in it.
Gavin Walker
I think your issue comes down to a problem of not understanding where the boomers come from, not just the times they lived but where as well. Many of them go through fucked up lives and them saying shit like that is one of the few bright points of their miserable existence, and it's really is a compliment not some command or expectation. Basically you went through life getting compliments randomly right? Well that's not the case from a guys perspective or even a boomer, we never are told we look good. For good reason though, but Boomer Men grew up being told they are screw ups and need to work harder. Thats what I remember anyways.
Caleb Morales
They're happy about it. Women would rather share Chad than have a beta bitchboy all to themselves.
Anthony Stewart
>I'm /doomer/ Sucks to be stupid, sorry to hear it, friend.
>everyone basically already knows I'm KHV Yeah, I wonder how...
> social rules is completely outdated and overwritten practically every other month. Outside of basics adjustments that assume that wimin are people there isn't really too much that's different.
> yet they lecture me regardless Because you're an obvious loser AND a beta lord who lets others lecture him and they pity you?
Ayden Murphy
>all these retarded zoomers not knowing how to take advice from older people You don't have to apply everything they say but you're still in the retarded phase of life if you think you know more about the world than the people older than you.
Isaac Morgan
YER A KOI HERPES VIRUS?!
Ryan Murphy
Fuck that noise. Too much risk, too lottle profit.
James Evans
Ignore them. Boomers say dumb things all the time, but you're obviously just as niave and self-centered in your beliefs/approach being what's real, so any advice is probably not going to reach your ears.
Jacob Fisher
Lie. Alternatively, learn to redirect conversations about your personal life. Normies just want to know you're like them and not some weirdo who's going to shoot up the place or something.
Oliver Williams
If it’s coworkers then just be honest with them. You’re a young person so you know the young dating pool better. Come at it from an angle of empathy though, don’t say stuff about their advice being shit or that could put them on the defensive. Find nuggets of truth to agree with.
Liam Gutierrez
I'm 36 and work almost exclusively with younger guys. The oldest is 23, youngest is 17. Seriously I'm the least judgemental/sexist one out of all of them. They've all got multiple shit going on, usually involving social media that I've no experience of and no idea about. I try not to get involved to be honest except to point out basic shit like, consent, being ok with what you are doing, staying true to yourself rather than what you think others think you should be doing, shit like that. Some of them are quite romantic and I feel a little for them because they are playing some weird ass games when really they just want to lock a girl down and get boring with her.
Generic advice doesn't really go out of style? Generally the problem is you and you are the one who can change it. The problem is advise from older guys always sounds like hella gay shit to younger guys.
Maybe that is just me though. I also work with guys my own age and the majority of them are tragic individuals with really weird and creepy attitudes towards women. Most of them are in unhappy or failing relationships which externally look like the normative typical family setup, but internally is just ... unmet expectation, dying dreams, insecurity about age/fatherhood/masculinity/status, drink/drug/gambling problems and so on.
That is the worst, when some old dude tries to cop it all let me lay down some truths here when they clearly hate themselves and their life and are dealing really badly and have nothing to offer except a read between the lines cautionary tale on what not to do.
Brayden Anderson
So I should stalk, rape and then murder the women I fancy? After all women want real men and real men give zero fucks about what women want and take what they desire.
Blake Clark
You stupid FUCKS keep blowing us off and wonder why now more of us beginning to do the same to you. Put your head under a mower.
Leo Long
And that's a good thing! Happy to be a part of our collective gangrene!