Going to girl's house tonight

Insert two fingers into vagina, palm up. Touch the inner wall on that would be on the other side of the clitoris.
Make a beckoning motion with your fingers (like 'come here' motion).
Make sure your fingers are landing as flat as possible on as much of the wall as possible. Make out, chew her check, kiss her thighs, eat her clitoris, whatever the fuck you wanna do while doing this.

Make her come like this.

Trust me on this one, if you succeed at this part, you've already done her better than most men can on average, and she won't even care if you come prematurely.

Now to not come prematurely: use a Trojan condom. Theyre thicker, less sensation, good training wheels. Do not use orgasm delay condoms, they just burn your dick. Just regular trojans.

Think of other things, or even gross thoughts while inside her.
My go to when I'm about to cum and I don't want to is a green slime toothless blowjob from a geriatric patient.

If you focus on your dick (or more accurately fail to not focus on it) you'll cum much much faster.
It also helps if you fap earlier in the day. That'll decrease sensation as well. But you also run the risk of not being able to get hard especially if you're nervous if you do that.

This, plus use your middle and ring finger, it's better than index and pointer. At least that's what I think

Guy you replying to.
I use index and middle and it works fine but that's just because it's easier and I'm lazy. Agreed.

I'm a bit younger than her, so I'm hoping that lowers her expectations a little.

She sent me nudes and said I could spend the night, I assumed that meant she wanted to have sex.

Ok yeah, she is just a slut lol

Wew you're in for a treat boy

The fuck do you care about her expectation ? You are fucking a slut that snaps you nude on tinder. Do you believe you ll ever see her again lol ?
I hope you do not want to marry that. She is a slut
Just do your thing without stress. Even if you suck you owe.her nothing

How old are you two? Is she a MILF?

I don't care at this point desu

I'm 19 and she's 24.

I'm leaving in a few min so whatever happens happens.

As weird as it seems...its very instinctive. At the moment you just kinda know what and how to do it..

Have fun, don’t get the clap

Careful with STD's. Be safe and use a condom.

Just think how bad it will be if you can't get hard and how embarrassed you'll be if you cum too soon.

How soon is too soon?

If he’s a virgin at 19 he probably doesn’t get flaccid anymore.

Wish I could say the same for myself. I've suffered with sexual anxiety since the first time I had sex. Makes me awkward, anxious and makes it tough to get hard. I want it so bad and it should be the most natural thing in the world, but its 11 years later and I still suffer from it.

Are you having casual sex?

I'm in a long-term relationship, actually. Even after being with the same person for years, it still gets me. And no, I'm not gay, yes, I'm very attracted to her, and yes, I've tried nofap for literally months on end.

I wonder how this works exactly, I'm the kind of person that should have this kind of problem since my self esteem has hit the floor a few times in the last few years but I see a woman I like even if it's an image and I get hard fast.

It seems like your problem or trauma has been pretty internalized, it's definitely an anxiety issue. It has been so ingrained in your mind it's a reaction to a specific situation.

Yeah, I often wonder myself. Self-esteem isn't even necessarily an issue for me otherwise; I'm happy with how I look and generally cover up my autism well enough to where people like me. I've gotten very fit these past few years, too. But I'm slightly nervous around girls my age I find attractive, and absolutely anxious to the point of avoidance over sex. And the thing is, I want sex, too. I'd definitely say you're spot-on in that I've deeply internalized some trauma or set of problems to the point of it becoming an automatic reaction in my mind to the suggestion of sex to feel anxious or worried. I can feel myself trying to suppress the anxiety and getting this sinking feeling when sex is suggested, directly in conflict with also really wanting it at the same time. I was a kissless virgin till my early 20's and in that time I really just taught myself to avoid any suggestion of attraction to girls I was attracted to, and I know that's stuck with me to this day too, and I really can't flirt and try my best not to even glance at women that are attractive for fear of them thinking I'm checking them out. Maybe that all has something to do with it too, I dunno. I know I never even thought about having such an issue an til the first time I got laid, and that it hit me then and has haunted me ever since. Its rough, man, wouldn't wish it on anyone.

When you are plowing her doggystyle, shove a thumb up her bum

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>Foreplay
>Pay attention to what she likes
>Keep doing that
>Lots of foreplay until she literally pulls your dick in.
>While fucking her, pay attention to how she responds
>Find something she likes
>Keep doing that

Congrats user, you're the best she's ever had.

This.
It's not hard at all to please a woman, not even bragworthy. And her very very few men do it.

Okay, aight, true. Porn stars are actors.