What's the fastest a guy here has gone from talking on tinder to sex with a girl? Does it generally take a week of talking plus a date?
What's the fastest a guy here has gone from talking on tinder to sex with a girl...
Camden Walker
Cooper Hill
No I've met girls the night we matched a fucked that night multiple times.
Dylan Robinson
>be me
>match with chick
>distance is so far away it's not even my country
>I ask about it
>she says that she's just visiting my country and is leaving tomorrow
>I get the hint and bang her that night
If you see a foreigner, it's quick sex. If they have "no hookups" written on their profile, it's almost certainly a hookup. If they're "looking for people to meet and friends to make", it's a hardcore slut.
Josiah Long
Couple days. Generally it’s quicker to fuck a girl if you meet her in person. The shortest time it too me to fuck a girl was a few hours and I meet her at a party. If you aren’t into parties I met this girl at the mall and walked around with her for a bit and fucked her in the dressing room.
Nathaniel Peterson
few hours, she was a hambeast though and i only got head
Brandon Cruz
Never done shit on tinder, but back in the day used to use okcupid. Used to talk to girls with the express purpose of traveling over and fucking them. Talk a bit, set up a date to make it happen. Fastest has ALWAYS been in person.
Talking to a girl at a bar. Kissing her and sticking my hand down her pants inside of 30 minutes. Getting head in a doorway while waiting for a taxi. Fucking at her place as soon as the door is open. Tearing her clothes off in the hallway.
Another particularly smooth one that would probably get me arrested these days was being asked for a light smoking outside a bar. As I passed it to her she said I've big hands so I hold my hand up. She puts her hand against mine to compare sizes and I grip her hand and pull her in and kiss her. I ask her to come meet my friends, I introduce her and about 10 minutes later I ask her if she wants to leave. She says sure, we'll meet her sister and some friends elsewhere in the city. We get a taxi and during the ride she says we should go straight back to hers.
Gavin Hughes
>What's the fastest a guy here has gone from talking on tinder to sex with a girl? Does it generally take a week of talking plus a date?
Not tinder, but uhhh... I think probably like 2-3 hours from first message?
I think we chatted for like 20 or 30 minutes, agreed to meet at a cafe like an hour later, and then she was asking me to come back to hers after like half an hour to an hour or so.
In my experience, if someone is down to hook up, then they're down to hookup, and the rest of it is just making sure things are on the level.
Carter Nelson
Damn, i wiĺ nrver be this alpha in my life ever. I always take things way slow.
Nathaniel Taylor
That’s good if you have standards. If you take things slow with ugly warthogs then yeah you beta.
I mean it’s all about the bitch though really, some girls you fuck after 3 nice dates and gettin to know her. Some girls you fuck in an alleyway behind a McDonald’s, cum in her asshole and never speak to her again. It just depends on what you’re dealing with. That all want to be fucked like dirty little sluts though.
Grayson Russell
I just am a shy ish guy with people i dont know. and it essentially kills all my chances with girls. Also literally spent my first 20+ sth years on computer games so yeah. Lots of reconditioning. And if i have to behonest some of the stuff i read on this thread doesnt even seem interesting to me that much
Landon Rivera
You’re not missing out on much. I don’t even know my body count and it all becomes a blur after a while you don’t remember most of them. Just find one girl you really like and get really good at sex. It’s about the quality not the quantity. You’ll always remember a good piece of pussy, and women appreciate a guy that can fuck them good cause it’s so rare guys don’t have much practice with sex. So if you find a girl fuck her a lot until you get good at it, dump her and find another and repeat til you get the one you want.
Xavier Roberts
Same night once. Usually a couple days. Get her number and set up a date in a few days to avoid her flaking. Text her light hearted stuff but don’t text too much.
Aiden Brooks
An hour
But apparently she already knew me from parties
Alexander Miller
Fuck you guys, you fucking Chad wannabe losers. You think you’re so cool you come on Jow Forums to brag about all the sex you’ve had? These girls aren’t fucking guys like us stop fucking LYING to yourselves and making this stuff up NONE of this really happened and you fucking know it.
Jaxon Clark
Yeah, we will see what happens. Doubtful since i couldnt even get my first gf yet. I am trying, will let the whole board know if i make it :)
Chase Flores
Wrong site, you aren't on r/braincels.
Landon Baker
HAHA
>because I don't get any, no one else does ether
Go back to believing your 20% 80% meme. It makes the world easier for you to comprehend.
Ryan Perez
Kek found the incel
Hudson Cox
The ironic thing is--which i'll tell you not because i'm proud of it or trying to humble brag, but specifically because I think it'd be funny to trigger you extra--as this guy: :
At the end of the night, I turned her down because I've done a couple one night stands before, and know from that that I'm not at all about hookup culture.
Long time lurkers might even recognize the story of this particular encounter because I always list it as one of my most cringiest encounters, about how I met a girl for coffee and within minutes she was asking about the craziest shit, and by the end where I was trying to get out and say goodbye, she tried to take that as an opportunity to shove her hand down the front of my pants to grab a feel.
Anyway, casual sex isn't that spectacularly difficult if you bump in to someone who wants it. Most of the time you basically just have to dress/act above a certain minimum threshold, and if they're interest is caught, and you don't act like a spazz, then it's on.
Hell, I've had it where I've rejected a girl trying to literally drag me in to a bedroom, and then once she realized I wasn't playing, seen her huff off and drag the guy next to me in to her bed within minutes.
Thirst is thirst.
The problem you're running in to is you're either trying to set your standards too high, or you're not meeting those bare minimum thresholds because your desperation or your Nice Guy™ mentality is too fucking intense, that it bleeds through to everything you're doing.
Lucas Thompson
Less than a picosecond.
She didn't make it.
Austin Smith
I exchange like 10 messages back and forth on the app, test the water, see if there's a connection then ask for the number, if I get her number I'll maybe text her back and forth a few times, depends on the girl and how much they want to text but I always setup a date early on in the texts. I try not to text her much in between then and the first date because it ruins the mystery and chemistry.
Ian Collins
Forgot to answer the full question
I've fucked a girl on the 2nd date, never on the 1st date yet but I honestly am a little more conservative than most guys when it comes to sex so I want at least 2 dates before sex occurs because it's hard for me to perform when I don't really even know the person and aren't comfortable with them yet.
Thomas Young
That was always my strat. If you spend too long talking before physically meeting you allow the fascination/infatuation to fade. You want them to be looking forward to finding out more, looking forward to hearing from you. Talk a bit, set up a date to meet. Slow down/stop contact until then apart from the bare minimum to sustain interest.