I’m a girl and my coworker talks to me on instagram asking how work was and comments on my story sometimes.
Now today he randomly told me
>you were in my dream, as weird as that may sound haha
Now i just want to ask you guys, is he flirting with me? Why else would he tell me this?
He actually dates another one of our coworkers, but they try to keep it a secret even though everyone pretty much knows already.
What do i say? If he really is flirting, should i tell his gf?
I’m a girl and my coworker talks to me on instagram asking how work was and comments on my story sometimes
It’s not flirting he just wanted to hear your reaction and spawn a conversation.
If he wasn’t dating a girl, I’d say he was interested but is just probing you with convo. But, I doubt he’s interested, probably just friendly.
Shut the fuck up, Satan.
Thats what i though it could be, but he lead into it with “we haven’t worked together in a while” and then told me he dreamt about me and used that nervous smile emoji
Maybe i am overthinking it, but i’ve heard he has a reputation so idk
yeah, hitting up on you. clumsily too, i wouldn't be surprised if he got the tips from this board
if he has Gf and doesnt say shit like this often then no dont worry about it plus did you ask anything about the dream? Dreams arent always about sex you know, it's a collection of memories.
my thought too, literal incel intro line
however he has a gf so if anything it doesnt mean anything.
She still should have said what Elliot in Scrubs said when Turk mentioned dreaming of her. "Was I the woman?"
Being in dream != something sexual 100% of the time
or the dude could have said it wasnt a sex dream
Let him crempie you.
How many times a month do you tell your coworkers that they were n your dreams?
Very classic flirting. Or basic.
Soon he will mention that he just came out of the shower too. Or soar after workout. Very very basic stuff.
We call it probing.
He wants to fuck you too so your real question is do you want to fuck him.
Yes, hard.
then fucking do it bitch
So fuck him and accept that you’re both shit people.
>guy cheats on his gf
>fucking a guy already in a relationship
wew lass, now scram
>you were in my dream
lmao what a fucking loser
That wasn’t me. I dont want to be with him, but i’m wondering if i should show the message to his gf.
Idk how she would take it though. At the very least she could see that its kind of creepy for him to tell me that right?
I’ve used the “you were in my dream” line before to start conversations with women and it worked fine. But I’ve never been so beta as to say something like
>as weird as that may sound haha
Was the dream sexual though? Has he ever been inappropriate in your conversations? If no then there’s no need to inform his gf
It has plausible deniability to go either way. Consider it a red flag, keep it in mind, and if there ends up being a pattern of "plausibly deniable flirting" that's when you have a conversation about "the way you talk to me makes me uncomfortable." Set some boundaries, girl.
>Now i just want to ask you guys, is he flirting with me?
yes
>Why else would he tell me this?
Maybe you were in his dream and he thought it would be cool to tell you. maybe I'm gonna dream about you tonight and I'll tell you tomorrow.
>What do i say?
whatever you want to say
>If he really is flirting, should i tell his gf?
Tell her what, exactly.
You sound like you're looking for trouble for no reason. My advice to you is to watch a new series on TV or get a hobby like solving sudokus or something. You're too preoccupied with petty nonsense. Put something more constructive in your head.
You're looking for unnecessary drama. Go and get some hobbies faggot.
He has asked to hang out before, but i always turn him down