I don't want to go outside anymore because girls are too cute and I have visions of seeing them and it reminds me of...

I don't want to go outside anymore because girls are too cute and I have visions of seeing them and it reminds me of how pathetic I am as a person

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Do some sit ups or something

Why are you pathetic, though?
Don't think about girls

same. Seeing pretty girls reminds me of the time when I was taken and attractive.
Now even if they glance I can't engage.

I do that a lot and push-ups actually

I am extremely bad at social situations and flee girls because I feel bad about knowing that someone like me is attracted to them. A part of me desperately wants to be with a girl, but another part of me feels like I have to prevent it from happening because it's wrong to think about such things, yet I can't stop thinking about it.

I never was attractive and have never been in a relationship. Seeing pretty girls makes me feel bad and ashamed about myself.

What's wrong with seeing pretty girls?
It always puts me in a good mood, motivates me to try harder to get one, especially if a friend or my sister is there to laugh at my dumb grin.

There is nothing to try since I'm a broken person and no girl should have to put up with me, yet I can't cease my rampant thoughts concerning my desperation for a relationship

I'm extremely bad too , i get you
I don't like interactions at all, but i still have friends n shit
Well, first of all, if you don't love yourself, how can you expect someone to be with you?
Not trying to be a dick or anything, but like if you don't even try, you won't be able to have anything with a girl
In itself i don't think wanting a relationship is the best thing right now, what you should do is work on your emotional and social issues, that way you'll be able to have a gf

We're all broken.
Jordan Peterson had this awesome story about these electrical technicians he knew. One was crippled by some neurological disorder, the other was crippled in a car accident, but together, they could do the job of one person and keep the lights on in their town. That's how society works and builds itself up.

You're right, but I feel unfixable, and it's been going on for years. No matter what I try to do to improve myself as a person I always end up feeling like I'm not worthy of anything

That's pretty inspiring

I think people have a habit of playing down what they're capable of, because denigrating that absolves them of the responsibility of doing more than others.

You should really watch some Jordan Peterson lectures. Google "bear your cross " especially.

I agree with you and that's why I try to put a lot of effort in everything I do. Socially I just feel like a lost cause

I swear to god every piece of advice from this guy can be summed up in 3-4 words

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Well, you are.
Everyone deserves to be happy, everyone deserves to go out and have a good time, distract your mind as much as possible and i swear you'll forget that feeling.
Or go to a therapist, but that's the general tip.

exept for knowing where my life is headed job wise i feel similar. it all started with being the weird one and that label has stuck on me. now i dont feel even human.

>tfw summer
>women wander around in public nearly naked
WHY

>sees pretty girl
"oh yeah i forgot how desparate i am, man i look like a predator, if i do improve myself it's just forced work, i have absolutely nothing to offer them yet i always think about them because of my retarded biological drive"

You win