>I fap to hentai (nothing too crazy, pretty vainilla) sometimes while gf is at work. >She works more than I do so I know she doesn't have time to masturbate. >We probably have sex three or more times a week. She gives me bjs whenever I ask her too. I don't actually make her cum too much but I thought it didn't bother her that much. >She told me she masturbates at work (bathroom) sometimes. >I get really upset because I told her I am not okay with her masturbating. Don't ask me why, I just don't like it. >She gets upset too and tells me it's unfair because she barely cums with me (to be honest, less than 5 times a month) and I also fap on my own (she thinks I do, I never told her but she is right). "Why can't I do what you do already?".
I really didn't see it that way. Women don't need to masturbate like we do, it's a function for us, I just can't see myself stopping. Also, it's just hentai man. I don't know what she wants to masturbate to.
Mutual masturbation. Instead of having sex, try just getting off in company. Watch her go at it. Let her see you get off. I'm certain that you'll be able to tell that she enjoys masturbating and orgasm as much as you. You speak of needs and differences between the sexes, but you're making it too complicated. You're both two dumb monkeys who enjoy feeling good. An orgasm feels good. See it with your own eyes, unobstructed by the haze of sex.
If that doesn't work, just get her off more man, why's it gotta be that hard? If you can't she's got the right to masturbate. It's her body, so fuck her or fuck off.
Jason Russell
>not okay with her masturbating >she rarely gets off with you You're being more than a bit cruel there, m80. Imagine if your gf made you live with constant blue balls
Hunter Walker
>Women don't need to masturbate like we do if she masturbates, that's actually what she needs
Aiden Brooks
That's extremely controlling of you to get mad about her masturbating. If she does it she does it but now she's most likely going to be dishonest with you about it. Could eventually Fuck your relationship up. Just let her do whatever she wants. At least she isnt cheating on you. Maybe she's rubbing it out for the thrill not because she's watching something. I don't always watch porn or whatever to masturbate, sometimes just the idea of getting caught is what gets me off so I can see bathroom at work being pretty fun. You should ask her to video it for you and stop jacking off to cartoons and start jacking off to you actual girlfriend
Zachary Gonzalez
You can masterbate She should be able to do whatever she wants to her body
As a matter of fact, if you start telling her not to masterbate and you dont make her cum she will fuck some other dude that will make her cum
Let the poor woman masterbate in peace just as long as she is loyal to you and she loves you whats the big deal you insecure man child
Chill a little bit and start educating yourself about making her cum and stop being selfish This usually happens with communication and the sexual tension
Julian Martinez
OP here. Mutual masturbation doesn't work too well. She says she needs to focus either on me or herself to cum (she touches herself while I finger her, I never lick her down there), it's hard to do both at the same time. It doesn't seem like she likes it that much either because she can't focus completely on herself.
I don't really like doing it on my own in front of her, it doesn't feel too great. She likes to look at me but it gets too weird for me.
They don't get the same feeling we do though.
She has always been an exhibitionist and loves to be looked at so that makes sense. The closest thing we've done to that together was her giving me a bj in a state park. She told me sometimes she just needs to get off. Why is that? Isn't sex enough? You guys don't have balls to worry about.
What if she masturbates to gang bang porn or things like that? What if she does want all those things (or has fantasies about it) but she doesn't tell me?
Zachary Perry
This bitch needs to leave you and find a real man who A. Won't control whether or not she masturbates like what the fuck B. Can actually make her cum regularly so she isn't just sexually frustrated all the time. and C. Isn't such a little bitch.
In most cases when a women cheats I think shes a filthy bitch. But my dude, she is totally within her rights to go out and get as much strange dick as possible, just because you're that bad of a bf. For shame.
>They don't get the same feeling we do though. How do you know this, and why does it matter either way? So what if it feels different to them? Why does that fucking mat
Eli Collins
>What if she does want all those things (or has fantasies about it) but she doesn't tell me?
now I'm curious, what if? what's so wrong about that?
Elijah Cook
I'd let her masturbate if I were you. Women like to do it too.
Brayden Allen
>Women don't need to masturbate like we do, it's a function for us, I just can't see myself stopping. Sounds like you have an addiction, friend.
Blake Martinez
>What if she does want all those things (or has fantasies about it) but she doesn't tell me? God you sound like a woman
Wyatt Morales
OP again. Well I don't find it arousing to know my woman masturbates to 4 or more dicks. I like vainilla, really normal stuff. I don't fap to things I can't have with her (even though I have done it with threesomes or double dick licks). It feels like she wants more than just me.
How can I tell if it's an addiction? I may do it on my own three times or so a week, it depends.
I do have my insecurities, I guess.
Owen Hernandez
The more of your shit the more I'm convinced you're a neckbeard. Wtf? How'd you get a girlfriend? How do you function with your 3 braincells when you're so stubborn? Maybe satisfy your girl completely if you have such an issue with it instead of bitching at her doing something perfectly natural. If not, shut up.
Adrian Powell
Sounds like your girl just needs a chad instead of a limpdick faggot. Maybe you’d prefer she get a bull?
Matthew Flores
Well, if you could give me tips I'd appreciate it. I don't do oral so forget about it.
What really annoys me is that she asks me to finger her when I am tired, about to sleep, while we're watching something or after I cum (then I don't want anything to do with sex). What can I do about that?
Parker Gutierrez
>They don't get the same feeling we do though. How do you know they don't get a worse one?
Easton Perez
This has to be bait right? No one can lack this much self-awareness right?
Grayson Ortiz
She told me she just gets really sensitive in general (if I touch her back a little she would moan) and it's hard for her to stop being horny. It goes away after a while, there's no pain for her.
If I do lack it, it's good to know I guess.
Nathaniel Cook
I guess I'll never get good advice then.
Cameron Johnson
Eat her out. I swear, I’d eat even ugly women and whores if STDs weren’t a thing. Vaginas are gods gift to us, and god are they mighty tasty. Use your tongue and make her cum.
Connor Hall
Problem is you aren't looking for advice, only validation. Most people here are telling you your behaviour is absurd, you mindset immature and self centered and that the only real problem your girlfriend has is being with someone as obtuse as you.
However you don't want to hear them, you don't want to change yourself, make a move to make her happy so that she doesn't have to find other outlets. The more you don't satisfy her basic fantasies, pleasures etc. the more you will continue to feel the way you do, as if she hopes, needs, thinks about more, about the things you are not giving her, about how you aren't enough. it's not because you aren't enough, but because you aren't so by enough for her and as far as I can tell both of you.
p.s. oral sex is great and you should try giving it, it that pussy, munch on that ass man, you got a world of fun and exploration between her thighs.
Angel Adams
Well, for what it's worth I sympathize with your situation. If your woman is making you feel uncomfortable with how she behaves sexually yoi have every right to expect better of her. She should feel guilty for acting the way she does.
It's not hypocritical to have different expectations for men and women. Instead of touching herself at work she should be focusing on how to relieve your needs and desires. Maybe if she was more attentive to your time together she'd get more enjoyment out of it?
Point is she should feel guilty for how she's behaved and you should hold your ground. Be assertive.
Austin Fisher
Romans 8:6-8 KJV For to be carnally minded is death; but to be spiritually minded is life and peace. [7] Because the carnal mind is enmity against God: for it is not subject to the law of God, neither indeed can be. [8] So then they that are in the flesh cannot please God.
