When do you know you should break up with your gf?
When do you know you should break up with your gf?
When you have this question in your head.
Do you have a list I should tick?
Make your own list.
probably after like a month and you know she is expressing her real self to you.
can you imagine her crying her eyes out, balled up in blankets? can you imagine her making out with some other guy? do these images bother you at all?
if they don't, to the curb she goes
>crying her eyes out
She's a crybaby so I'm desensitized to it.
>Balled up in blanket
Don't care.
>kissing some other guy
This still bothers me atm cause I make sure my exes are destroyed emotionally first that they can't trust another human being let alone another man thus making me uncuckable even by my exes.
You dont'.
Remember, it's better to die together without love, than it is to die alone.
>if I don't break up with her, I'll end up cheating on her
This was the thought that led me to break up with my first gf.
Do you enjoy time spent with her? If the answer is "no" break up, there doesn't have to be a deep or dramatic reason.
When you don't feel bad about it anymore, because you did your best to fix whatever was wrong first.
does she text you a lot? if she hasn't been recently or if she texts very little then that's a sign she couldve lost interest. if you genuinely dont see a future with her or feeling happy then you should end it. Putting your energy into something that means nothing will just damage you both
Bruh. We live together. Texting is for teenagers.
That emotional destruction unlocks the slut phase for many
jeez, you sure do have a problem
These are serious red flags that it's time to break up (or go for a hail mary in terms of doing a 180);
>feeling contempt for your partner, not feeling compassion for them even when they clearly have pain/feel like crap, feeling disgusted or enraged by normal human things you never even used to notice (a blackhead on their back, the normal sounds of their chewing)
>you find yourself finding excuses to not go home/see less of them, time with them feels like a chore
>when something good/fun(ny) happens to you, your partner isn't ever the first person you think of telling this to, or doesn't even ever enter the picture
>sexual desire for them is at zero while you lust after other people all the time
>when thinking of things you are excited for in the future, your partner is either explicitly not included (single lifestyle), or just structurally left out (solo accomplishments)
>when you get an unexpected call/text from them your first feeling is annoyance
You are insane. Work on deriving your self-esteem from something else than the sex life of your exes.
You are one badass motherfucker. Your GF better get her act together if she's smart.
You think he doesn't know that? Don't insult the man's intelligence.
Most of those things apply to everyone I know.
Some of them are more normal than others. Feeling less desire by the idea of seeing your long term girlfriend naked than a random girl is normal (but that's not the same as not wanting any sex with your partner, by a long shot) for example.
Not being excited to share your happiness with your partner is absolutely not normal. But yeah a lot of people are in shitty relationships, doesn't mean they wouldn't be better off not doing that.
ask me how i know youre OP
>these are the people that get gfs easily
Kek I already am.