My boyfriend broke up with me. It was the perfect date... he took me to the fair, bought me snacks, won me prizes. Then sat me down and told me he didn't think it was working. At the time I said that's ok, I was thinking the same thing. But then once I got home I just started bawling my eyes out. I'm pretty much friendless now... I'm all alone. He was literally the only person who ever wanted to spend any time with me, and now he's gone. I just keep hugging this plushy he got me for my birthday and crying. I don't know why I'm so hysterical. I need to get out of this rut. But it's hard.
I tried to be the best gf I could. Gave him presents, spent time with him, complimented him, started losing weight to impress him. I don't know why it didn't work. I really miss him. A lot.
Nothing but time, unfortunately. Gotta go make some friends, too. This is why being codependent with your partner is such a bad idea.
Adam Johnson
Honestly, memes aside, a rebound is the best way to do it, after an appropriate mourning period, length up2u. While one-night stands are the equivalent of getting drunk to forget about the pain (except drunkenness lasts longer) get on dating apps to meet new people. Ride a new cock tonight if you want but the real goal is to meet another dating prospect. Doesn't have to be serious but it will help. Good luck
Ryan Wright
I’m sorry to hear that happened. Unfortunately sometimes it just doesn’t work out between people. You may not have necessarily done anything wrong or bad, and maybe neither did he. It will hurt for a while but these feelings, just like time, will pass. All you can do is to move on, learn from what you have done and continue to work to improve yourself.
Charles Hill
Don't do this Do this
Cooper Gonzalez
By taking the time to properly lament on this, instead of just crying like a little bitch. He broke up with you for a reason. Find that reason, and either fix it if its a flaw, or accept that it isnt and that you just weren't the one. Then you can cry like a 9 year old.
Dickhead, I'm 140 and 5'7. You're picturing a landwhale, or whatever, you're not getting one. I wanted to lose like 10 pounds to be thinner. Which I'm still doing, by the way.
Thanks dude.
You're right. I know I shouldn't be so hysterical... but once you start crying it's hard to stop. I'm not sure there was anything I could've done. I guess I can take some solace in that.
Gabriel Taylor
DO THAT
Andrew Collins
IF I WAS YOU I WOULD BE TURNING THE FUCK UP , BUT CONTINUE LETTING HIS LITTLE PENIS TEAR YOU APART.. OR NOT .
Nicholas Hernandez
Calm down, look give yourself time to cry, there's nothing wrong to be sad, it's actually normal to feel sad when we lost someone or breakup a relationship, give yourself time to heal, it may take a week or two, in this time cry it out listen to sad songs, watch sad movies. You need to give time to your heart, if you "move on" right now this wound in your heart will stay open and you'll never get over it. You will be sad for a while but then one day you will wake up and be like "well I don't feel like crying anymore" and you rebuild your life, find another person I know you're a pretty girl allow yourself to be sad for a while so in the future you can be truly happy
Jonathan Cooper
The only thing you can do right now is give it some time. I've had the same thing happen to me. Its gonna hurt for a while but in a year, you'll look back on it and think about the good times yall had. It sounds so damn cliche but dont be sad that its over, be happy because of the memories yall made together.
Also, when you said you have no friends and didn't have anyone to hang out with, I feel that. I haven't had friends since my high school graduation, which was about 3 years ago. I never hang out with anyone but my boyfriend at this point. The only advice I can really give you is to get comfortable with being alone. It really sucks at first, (at least it did for me) but once you get used to it, it's not so bad. I wish the best to you and I hope things get better for you soon!
Logan Bennett
Find new people to love and support you, its not that hard you just have to look.
Your ex is a good person for recognizing that this was not a good relationship as you both would not be happy. Be happy for that and move on with your life.
> eat some ice cream
Jaxson Taylor
This is just empty and shallow, not a great way to handle grief.
Alexander Lee
But did you fuck like an insatiable porn queen?
He saved the best for last.
Grayson Richardson
Do this. user knows what he's talking about I've been through this myself, and all I've ever heard people say about hooking up with other people after a breakup is that it makes you feel even more empty. Instead, focus on yourself, your friends, and your family. When you feel like you're healed (could be a while, but that's just how it is), it's time to maybe start looking again
Kevin Jenkins
Are you anxious at all in everyday situations?
Jayden Rogers
Thanks. I'm trying. His friends told me today that he still wants to be friends with me, which is good if true. I guess I'll see.
Not particularly... hard to say.
Owen Cook
>It was the perfect date... he took me to the fair, bought me snacks, won me prizes You know OP I hate men, how they do all this and then kick you so it makes them feel better. I've learned when they start being nice they're up to something and brace for the worst.
Nathaniel Brown
>How do I get over this? Time. That's it.
Just be a cool person, focus on your own hobbies, and you'll get over it and then find someone new. That's how it always works.
Caleb Torres
Do not go back with him. Block him. do whatever possible to avoid him.
