Boyfriend doesnt take me seriously in arguments

Whenever I'm venting or I'm legitimately angry at my boyfriend when he doesn't do the dishes as promised and other little things, I tend to get a bit loud. One might think that I'm an angry girl. The same happens when I talk about politics too. But he just does not EVER take me seriously when I do. In fact he goes so far and gets erect. The argument that inspired this post was me losing my shit at him cause I gave him ONE task which was to send rent money cause I had to work, and he didn't causing our landlord to give us a fine for no reason. And the whole time he was just giggling and hiding his boner, while just saying Sorry.
How the fuck can I make him stop, at this point I think he does it on purpose? What the fuck.

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kick him in the balls to prevent boner, then speak calmly from your heart

well to diagnose your problem sounds like you're dating a fucking child. How old is this "man"? not to roast your boyfriend or anything but holy shit.

1) he has no respect for you
2) he h behaves like hes 12 like he doesn't have a responsibility ??
3) what the fuck is right

does he sit on the couch smoking weed all day ?

Talk about it to him in the most calm (but serious) and un-erection inducing way, since apparently he's got a fetish for being yelled at. Presumably he also tries to goad you into yelling at him. If this fails then dump him, he obviously doesn't respect you enough to take you seriously if he's willing to try to manipulate you into being angry at him so he can get off.

What said, he sounds like a child.

I'd take you seriously, babygirl, but of course, girls don't like nice guys and instead will date jerks who will hurt them...

>when I talk about politics
>he just does not EVER take me seriously
And rightfully so

cont.

If you talking about serious financial things turns him on and he doesn't even care about the true content of the talk . Then what the fuck, y'all will never be able to have a deep relationship with nuanced mutual respect.

Tell him to shape the fuck up or to get out and go back to the 6th grade.

Fuck, this is what I've been scared of. Calmness takes a while and lots of effort but yeah I will try.

I made him quit weed at least, but yeah asking to call me mommy should've been a very red flag.

Centrist shills have extra smooth brains

nigga what

he calls you mommy , Jesus Christ babygirl. Did you meet this NEET at the chuckie cheeses or some shit ?

Like i said , tell him to shape the fuck up or you're done. The main problem i see here is that he doesn't respect you. Which is supersizing since he has such obvious mommy issues.

oh shit, if not bait, it's maxgold.
guess down the drain he goes

i'm currently praying that its bait

Does nobody else see the blatant immaturity in OP? I'm alone here?

ok

nutella is better get the hell out

>giggling while hiding his boner over a fine
Drop out of the relationship and make him pay the fine.
There's a clear need for deep-seated professional help but for some reason you want to date and enable this poor bastard's idiocy. Send him to get help, and while you're at it swerve on this shit before you get fined twice. That shit probably hurts your credit.

bait thread?

> Tips the entire fedora rack

>Centrist shills have extra smooth brains
BASED.

Guy is based as fuck.

>taking women seriously
lmao, I hope you guys don't seriously do this

Break up.

what is wrong with getting aroused over you paying attention to him?

There aren't a lot of situations where I'd say the best thing to do is completely stop engaging with a person and distance yourself as much as possible, because most of the times conflicts can be resolved through communication.

But this is one of them.

From the sound of it, he isn't allowing for you to communicate with him, because he's not actually listening to you.

If he gets off on being cruel to people, there are whole sections of Fet-Life for bound, consensual relationships that don't actually fuck your real life up, and he needs to seek those.

Cut bait. Shut him down. Stop talking to him. Get your shit together and find another place, and walk away from him, and realize that even though you'll be teaching him where your limits are, he's still probably going to spend the rest of his life testing others' and running through an endless litany of being an asshole to people until they get tired of his shit, and maybe it's because of some deep-seated trauma he's gone through, but there's only so far that compassion can go before it becomes self-abuse, and your extending the charity of understanding and patience any further would just be masochistic.

Call friends. Surf couches, if you have to. Cut him off.