What's your best advice when it comes to getting a girlfriend ?

Also, how often (just an estimation) should you text and approach a girl you like ?
Of course texting/approaching her too much would be a turn-off/desperate, so I'd appreciate an idea regarding how often I should talk to her/any girl I like.
Would you recommend also hitting the gym, even though I'm not fat mostly to improve my odds of attracting a girl/girls ?
I'd really appreciate your advice.
Thanks in advance.

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If you're fat, you need to eat less.

Don't focus on getting a girlfriend.

Unless you live a total hermit life, you're bound to encounter some cool women just by living. Browsing through dating sites isn't a bad idea either, if you do it for the fun of it.

Love yourself and have a good mental health.

Become attractive.

Male attractiveness = looks/10 + wealth/10 + intelligence/10 + goodness/10.

(Intelligence includes humour, self awareness, self control and cool-ness etc, goodness means you're kind, generous, not a bitch, not resentful of women or mean etc)

Work on whichever of these traits until your total score is at least 20/40. Then it doesn't matter what your approach is so much, you will deserve a girlfriend and life will send you one.

Imagine a really fat, ugly, smelly girl who understands men and has great 'approaches'. Are you going to care for her pickup lines? No, you're going to go for her beautiful, shy friend.

Become attractive, and you will attract. It's very simple really.

I am sorry my life isn't as cool as yours. How do live in a way where I meet women just by living?

>Male attractiveness = 4/10 + 4/10 + 6/10 + 6/10
I'm a 5

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Stop chasing women too good for you and settle. Then you have plenty of options.

How is that not a 2?

>trying to calculate the exact formula for timing and responding to texts to ensure ideal conditions
Heres the problem. Stop being so autistic and just wing it. Being logical minded and trying to have foresight is a good thing but it does not translate into human interactions well. People are people, not some sort of test that has right and wrong answers that you can study for.

women want to feel protected....period. that is why metros and soys ultimately end up cucked. Best way to show a woman that you can protect.....Lift weights and build up ur arms. Have a steady job with a good income. Be REALLY confident. even if you aren't then fake it. approach them even when they are in groups. you will immediately stand out . good luck

>you’re supposed to text at least 1-3 times everyday (women can confirm), call if they want to talk at the end of the day.
>Ideally, face to face is better than phone, 2-3 times a week.
>Self improvements never hurt, hit the gym, learn to smile and carry a conversation, dress like you care about yourself.

#1 advice, be honest with yourself, don’t completely live a lie for some pussy, because you’ll just end up miserable.
#2 advice, make sure you’re not breaking any laws age-wise, if she won’t show her ID she’s 100% either secretive/spy drama, or gonna cheat.
#3 advice, date someone you actually care about, because you’ll spend a lot of time listening to them.

Don’t ask a girl to be exclusive via text/phone/dm...you’ll end up feeling stupid, and look like a coward. Ask them in person, it’s usually easier to end the conversation without awkwardness that way.

Have a job that isn't in a dickfest industry or a home office. Have some hobbies that require you to go outside. Travel.
It's nothing cool or extraordinary.

7/10, 1/10, 9/10, 9/10 which is 26/40 ... holy shit, seems about right.

>I am sorry my life isn't as cool as yours

Stop being so bitter, for one.

Just go out and do shit. When I was in college I went out with a girl I met while on a co-ed sports team, I dated another girl I met at my job, and I met plenty of women form just being at social events.

The key, user, is to work on yourself and women will come to you. Seeking out women repels them, improving yourself attracts them.

Finally, there was a GREAT quote I heard recently which is super true.

"If she likes you, you'll know. If she doesn't, you'll be confused."

Its that easy.

Talk to girls, be nice and be clear with what you want. If she rejects you move on and try again. Just don't be an asshole

A girl who looks like OP seems like she is into me but she has a nice job, beautiful apartment, expensive clothes etc and I am a broke bitch barely living paycheck to paycheck. I also haven't been laid in years due although I'm not a virgin. Is it even worth it trying to do anything with her bros?

Of course.

Is unironically good. So even if you suck bad at one category, you can make it up in others.

No one is bound to anything. Specially after college, if you work in a male oriented job, the chances of you conviently meeting a nice woman that isn't already taken is nearly zero.

Because both the user, and he the user he replied to are dumbasses who cant do math...

The first user doesnt actually mean addition cause that wouldnt get you xx/40.

The second user just takes average instead of adding up the points, so yeah..

imagine carding your potential girlfriend

This is one of the best advice I've seen on this board. This guy really gets it

>be sociable
>be kind and polite to everyone
>meet lots of women
>become friends with who you like
>do stuff together
>ask out one of them

This is assuming you actually men girlfriend and not just woman who you want to sleep with.

Nothing wrong with asking a potential girlfriend her age and asking her to prove it. It’s all about how you ask, and either way it’s better to watch your ass and look like a goof than to assume she’s honest and be giving neck in jail.

>how often to text
Hit up once a day, send very few messages, all spaced apart. Giving women non-sexual attention is giving them validation, and when you give them free validation they have nothing to earn and treat you like a beta male. You get a woman attached to you by only giving her attention when you see her in real life, so keep texting to the bare minimum.

>hitting the gym?
Looks, muscles, height, etc only get your foot in the door. Men always make the mistake of using their own judgement as women's. Women actually do prefer personality over looks. The superficial stuff is still important, but like i said it's just to get the first date basically. To keep getting dates, you need a personality. And there's many "ugly" guys with hot girls, so unless you're obese dont worry about the gym too much.

Some other advice is to at least pretend you have an abundance mindset. Make her think your time is valuable. If you make plans, and she wants to push it back 20 minutes, just cancel the date. You always want the girl chasing, because the person chasing is the one who has no power. First like 3 months the man will chase, but as soon as she has high interest you need to do a pull back and make her chase you.

To those who have/had a girlfriend(s):
Is it foolish to lift and possibly take dance lessons solely to attract girls ?

Well now at least it's confirmed bad advice

Not lifting, but definitely dancing. You will very quickly be one of those guys who gets "Uninvited" to future lessons.

You forgot social skills, or is that supposed to fall under intelligence?