Hey everyone. needing help

hey everyone. needing help

my friend's 17 dating a 13 year old (trying to smash too)

i told them they were a bit young and then suddenly the age was 14... to me, that indicates that he sees something weird about that age gap too. he says they're really mature for their age and all that.

am i wrong for thinking this is really fucking weird? that age gap is ridiculous to me. like, even 16 vs 13 would even be ridiculous.

it's not that a 3 year gap (the 13 vs 16 thing i said) is a big gap but when you're at that age it is, you know?

idk i just feel really weird about this. it won't quit picking at me. what do i do? please help

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Yeah this shit always bugs me too. 13 is still child mentality. Your friend sounds like a creep. Do you know if her parents know about him?
This could be very damaging to her in the long run.

The parents don't know, and he also told me the 13 year old isn't supposed to be having relationships. I'm really bothered by this.

I don't even know who the parents are to reach out to them, so that makes it a fuckload worse for me. Oh man, this really sucks... fuck.

I don't see what's wrong with this or why it's any of your business. As long as everything is legal, keep out of it user.

lol, it's not legal tho. like, really not legal. especially since the parents don't know about it.

go look at a picture of yourself @ 13 then a pic of yourself @ 17. you'll see why this is weird

Honestly I would try to contact her parents in anyway I could. Find her on Facebook and find her family through there.
You risk losing him as a friend and you would be absolutely embarrassing her, but you also might save her from a lifetime of regret.
You will also regret it if you don't do something.

>t. pedophile

I have a first name, and that's it. Seems to be more of a self-chosen name by the 13 y/o / nickname. I didn't find any accounts on Facebook that matched the pics he'd shown me. I don't know any info on them.

I know one person who does, but he won't tell me shit. We're not very close despite being friends. More of an acquaintance really.

I’d run to her parents and tell on her like a little snitch. She’s not old enough to even act like an adult and follow simple instructions.
Your friend is shit, imagine how he’s going to be when you have a daughter. Ditch that foo or kick his ass.

And she’s not on your friends friend list? Are you even trying?

Well I don't know where you live, but if it's not legal I would definitely try to talk him out of this or try to make him reconsider. Bring up how if he's caught he will be labeled as a sex offender.
Pretty sure it's fine in most of the US if he just waits a year.
What?

Fucking find a way user, be sneaky if you have to.
If you know what school she goes to, call and report it there.

It's legal to date if there is no sexual contact. Get your head out your ass and stop thinking about minors having sex

he told me his plans to fuck her, and he was literally on the phone with her and said something along the lines of "i'd like to put my face under it" talking to her while sitting behind me.

i'm not thinking about it just to think about it, dumbfuck. read what i write or don't reply

i don't even know that kind of info. i know nothing but a name and some pics he showed me (not nudes)

>i'd like to put my face under it
What's the context? "It" can be many things.

You enjoy being friends with scumbags or are you just a scared of him?

i don't even know her parents tho. i know nothing. i'm really upset about this.

he was, like, grinning when he said it, and they had been talking kinda dirty. it was def a sexual thing

If you know nothing, and are too afraid to put your foot down on your friend, you probably should just get as far away from the situation as possible. Like stop being friends with him if it makes you feel uncomfortable. Would you be friends with a rapist, or someone who tortured animals?

The young girl is obviously wanting sex regardless if she even understands what she is asking for. You can’t be captain saveahoe especially when you don’t even know the hoe.

If the shit blows up in your friends face, you’ll probably get some backlash for it too.

i'm not too afraid, it's more i don't know HOW to. i can't just text him outta nowhere about it, y'know?

Yeah you can.

Look dude, you’re pretty young. Decisions like that aren’t hard. Sure, at a young age it’s a little intimidating to have people turn against you. But as you enter your 20’s you’ll realize, friends come and go; not every friend has your best interest in mind; some friends are worth giving up.

Us anons, really have our hands tied. If you can’t provide info and you can’t interfere, what can we really tell you? You say you’re not afraid, but you come off extremely insecure.

Have you even considered telling your friends parents he’s trying to fuck a child? Beyond that there seems to be nothing else you can do since you’re afraid to confront him yourself.

here's the thing though man, i do wanna talk to him about it. i just don't know what to say or how to start that dialog. it doesn't help we live a good 45 mins apart

Snitch to his parents and cut off all contact with him. Done.

“Yo bro, what’s up?....that’s cool, look man, I need to talk with you about your chick...you know since neither of you are 18, her parents can say it’s statutory rape if she is 14 right? If she’s 13, it’s altogether illegal and you could do a few months to years. The reason I bring this up bro is because I’m trying to look out for you and the whole shit is just making me feel uneasy ya know what I mean?”

I swear boy, didn’t your parents teach you anything? No backbone or social skills having ass. No wonder y’all lil niggas dying from eating soap and shit.

honestly at this point i'm really leaning towards that. the more i think about this it bothers me.

Let it go, it's not your life. if he was 27 and she was 23 nobody would bat an eye. Unless what he's doing is illegal or coercive there's literally nothing wrong with dating down. He's just stupid for doing it.

lol stfu ur prolly a white kid from seattle. i got social skills, i got a backbone. just trying to figure out where to go with this because i'm either having a heart to heart explaining why this shit's fucked up or i'm cutting this dude off

Bullshit, you ain’t even got a dick.
Heart to heart? Haha, what you gonna lick his balls and stroke his shaft while you’re at it?

You got your advice you little punk, now beat it and go hang out with the rest of your degenerate fuck up friends. You make me sick.

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how do i make you sick when i'm the one trying to stop the degenerate bullshit? fucking moron

You ain’t even gonna stop him, you gonna just sit by like a lil bitch and let it happen.

Tryna be all sneaky and shit trying to tell on the girl behind your boys back. You definitely a white boy from Seattle.

if you got something better, say it then dickhead. quit just talking shit. tell me what you would do.

Lol, see no backbone, you backed up quick on the 3 advices you already got. You gonna let ol boy rape that girl huh?
I already told you my advice boy.
What you forget to read the comments to your own thread?

whatever. thanks for the advice, re-reading it's very good advice and will probably be used.

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This is only weird right now. I know a guy married for like 25 years or so that started lile this. Parents didn't know, didn't like it tried to stop it, he joined the navy and married her (earlier, with parents consent.) now, hes like 45 and she's 41. I think that you are doing your part to just tell him that it is kinda strange and caution him to be respectable.

ask the parents if its ok and they know of it

whatever you do user do something. you'll regret it if you could've stopped them from fucking up their lives. update us if you feel like, best of luck to you.