Femanon here. Moderately fat. I'm an honest to god 2/10...

Femanon here. Moderately fat. I'm an honest to god 2/10, (average rating from anonymous strangers) and I was still incredibly ugly when i was skinny/average. This isn't just my low self esteem. I am objectively ugly, as I have been told by a depressingly high number of people. I've dated a decent amount, but all of my past partners have either been men wanting a bbw to fuck or women wanting an ugly, mannish girl to get fucked by. I just wanna be normal. I'm in the process of losing weight, but even that will only make me just another 4/10 fleshlight.

Tl;dr

Is there any valid reason for an ugly female to want to live? Is it possible for someone to truly love an ugly girl?

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I doubt you are as ugly as you think you are. A clouded mound can't see clear.
You are gonna have to ditch the sad sack attitude to get ahead. People sense that. We all sense things subconsciously from people.
Losing weight will help a lot though. As much as people bitch about tolerance and acceptance, deep down, no one likes a fatty, either male or female.

Yes, if they like your personality. People say men are visually oriented, which is true--- at first. I become significantly more or less physically attracted to a girl depending on her personality. A girl I found average at first can become much more attractive if she has a cute personality. If you can lose enough weight to become a 4/10 you might at least be able to get your foot in the door for a guy to consider you, and if he really likes your personality you could easily become a 6-7/10 in his eyes. And if you've dated multiple guys already I doubt you're as ugly as you think you are. TL;DR yes. Also, there are other reasons to live aside from dating and romance. Find a hobby or activity that can give you fulfillment and spend time with friends

>Is there any valid reason for an ugly female to want to live?
yes, but I'm not the best person to ask.
>Is it possible for someone to truly love an ugly girl?
No. Sorry

You could live a lie, however. Play World of Warcraft or something. Tell people you're a girl but never, ever show your pictures. A guy will fall in love with you and you'll only know each other's avatars and personalities.

When you think about it, it's not that much different from wearing makeup.

I bet you could look nice if you learned to do your makeup and got flattering clothes. Start working out and work on your personality. Get better at making others feel good about themselves. People will like you in spite of your flaws.

Also you're still getting laid and could at any time, have health, youth and safety. It's really not that bad lol. Just your mental health that's the issue.

post a pic and let us judge you

Nqb bro, that might actually make me kms

Then stop bitching for attention since you clearly know you are average looking and can get most guys.
Fuck off and delete your /soc/ level thread

something like ugliness is so objective. what you need is to bring up your self esteem. from what i tell, a lot of (good) men don't rely solely on looks, but confidence + a good personality. yes, it is possible for you to be loved.
i am a fellow femanon who used to be fat (170lbs) and have went down to 148 and still losing. when it comes to losing weight, do it for yourself, to enhance your self confidence. don't do it so you can just attract someone.
plus, the thing with the rating--as i said good men also like good personalities. anonymous people don't know you and surely people would find you more attractive if they knew you better.

This was actually really helpful, or at least it was sort of comforting. I sorta have a memey gamer girl personality, and a tomboyish thing going on. I guess there's a niche for that sort of thing. Also, I'm probably more like a 4/10 at this point, considering I'm getting laid regularly. Maybe I'm just unphotogenic lol

Homie I just wanted vague opinions on what people think of uggos in general, not advice on my specific looks. Calm yourself

What do you not like about your appearance aside from being fat?

Big nose, weird jewfro thing, 5head, too much body hair, mouth too small (sounds dumb but it's true), scars all over, very pale, etc.
I'm half black, half white/Italian. Genetics fucked my shit up

Yes, I was trying to be comforting but also realistic. It will take some work on your part, but your situation sounds far from hopeless from what you described.

Our vague opinion of uggos as a species is “ugly,” and that’s about that. Sometimes we assume ugly peoples on the outside are ugly on the inside. Sometimes not, depending on their behavior. We prefer attractive people over Uglies and will generally ignore you. As a 4/10 woman, you will be able to marry and procreate. Try to make your personality worthwhile and develop useful hobbies.

Bra size and country since you won't post a pic with your eyes blurred out. That determines if you're truly fat. Aside from the fact you've slept around you seem to have the personality and interests I like, so you're likely a 5-6 on average.

38ddd. American, if the bra size didn't clear it up

mommyyyy

>valid reason to live
>talks about relationships and own looks instead of anything that matters
This is an 18+ board.

>jewfro
Use a flat-iron or hair product to straighten it
>5head
Cover it with your newly straighten hair
>too much body hair
>shave legs, pits, and crotch. Use an epilator everywhere else
>scars
mederma
>pale
literally just put on sunscreen with tanning oil and go outside

Shit like your nose can't be fixed without surgery, but you could try to work on the other stuff. Every attractive person puts some effort into their appearance, don't think you can't improve yourself.

Damn I would fug the shit outta you then date you

Yeah, I'm putting the work as well as I can. I just got caught in a moment of fear that even with the work I'd be a lost cause.

Fair point

>Considering I'm getting laid regularly
I'm hearing a voice telling me that you created this thread to get attention

Nobody's normal. Everyone is ugly by the time you hit old age. If you're in a relationship with someone primarily because of how they look, then you are in a shitty relationship with a bad foundation that's a few decades or one cosmetically bad injury away from ending. Having a good personality, a sense of humor, and/or decent interests go way further with emotionally mature adults than looks do. Stop getting down on yourself, if you don't love you no one else will.

I guess I sort of neglect that kind of stuff for fear of looking like a "lipstick on a pig" type situation, but it's probably worth a shot

Probably yeah, in part. But I've only been fucking girls, and feminine lesbians have low/no standards in terms of physical appearance often times, so I wanted to get a second opinion

Height?

Bruh

5'4-ish? Not sure, maybe 5'5

>I'm getting laid regularly
I'm a seething obviously balding manlet

Weight? I'll give you an analysis after that

you should not let other sex with other dudes get to ur head its just a temporary feeling that will go away put ur focus onto something important. like cure for cancer.

220 maybe? I'm in the process of losing n I haven't weighed myself in a while, but I was 220 last time I checked. I'm actually fat, not chubby or "thicc" or whatever

unironically if you're an honest 4/10 anyone with a fetish for mixed/brown people will see you as a 6-7

>feminine lesbians have low/no standards in terms of physical appearance often times
>tfw doe bi and you sound like my type
Hey.
Why not just settle down with a lady though? Are you not also attracted to them? Or is the fact that they expect you to top because you're kind of masc? Or are you one of those bis who is still more drawn to the white picket fence dream?
I don't blame you, I find myself imagining my future with a male but it's more because of probability.

Why not lose weight and get plastic surgery?

Not mememing I'm serious.

How hard could it be to do a boob job and nose job?

Then get fit.

Yeah 5'4-5" at 220lbs is obese, but you have huge tits, and the plus side is there's a chance you'll keep them when you've lost weight. Your personality seems that self depreciating type with shitty self esteem like most of the tomboyish gamer girls, and the fact that you have the distinguishing features of both of your mixed race genetics makes you unable to identify with others racially, fueling an identity crisis that feeds the self depreciation and low self esteem. Seem accurate so far?

The good news is there's a lot of others out there like you, just as lost and with poor views of themselves as you, eventually finding communities online you all can relate to. More good news is unless you got hit in the face with a shovel you're probably far more attractive than you think. You sound like you know what you need to fix and are on the track to do so. As guys are saying in this thread, you sound like what most guys really want- someone they can connect with beyond sex. Stay the course for better physical and mental fitness and in a year you'll be fighting off guys. You got this.

Honestly I either want a qt straight passing gf or some sort of degenerate beta male type.
I guess I don't have a huge preference for guys or girls, I just feel trapped in this masc role cuz I look too tryhard when I dress/act more feminine.

i mean
there's indeed men who are most of a personality >>>>> looks kind of fella
but eh
you are obviously insecure
haven't you tried like...working on your image?
using creams for your skin, working out, typical shit like that

Being seen as a fetish isn't ideal, but I can work with that
I'm broke, but I might think about a boob job
Screenshotted. I actually feel hopeful reading this. Thanks for being so supportive m8

I'm working on that stuff, but a lot of it is facial structure and shit, stuff that would take plastic surgery to fix

Damb, I'd try to be your straight passing gf and would give you a makeover if we lived in the same place. I used to be gnc myself and it was fun going through the process of finding a feminine style that fits.
You seem nice user, I hope you find someone.

>would give you a makeover if we lived in the same place.
Shit man, if u ever end up in the midwest hmu

>Big nose
Depending on the rest of your face it can work.
>weird jewfro thing
Sounds interesting.
>5head
Wat.
>too much body hair
Laser is a thing that exists, you know.
>mouth too small
Can still work with the rest of the face.
>scars all over,
Who cares?
>very pale
Based. Although how the fuck does it even work together with being half black and half Italian?

If you weren't fat, you could have some potential, user. At least on the looks-side. Your shitty self-esteem and being whinny is a pain even if you were hot.

Unironically get fit
atrophy looks good on no one,
There are people who go from 1s to 8s by working out.
In addition
>take care of your skin
>find a style of clothing that looks nice on you
>find a haircut that compliments your face.


BTW just some runnign once a week ain't enough, get heavily into Jow Forums it umps you up some good ranks.

It improves the face it improves the body.

You can raise foster children.

>tfw I'm also a fat female uggo who will never find love with the right guy.
At least I'm still living and loving my fictional boys ;u;

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Well...shave
Also, the scars and pale thing can be fixed with soaps and creams but you need to constantly use them

my god you are a toxic piece of shit

There's someone for everyone
I used to be an obese fuck who thought would die alone, so i just gave up realy early in life and went like "alright, no gfs for me, only porn lmao"
And all of a sudden i got my first gf
And my second gf
...And my current gf
Life can surprise you in many ways

Not tthhat user but,
I dont know buddy, i am 28 and never had a gf. I feel like i just wont get anybody. I mean i took the whole self improvement pill but no luck so far.

I feel i am doing sth wrong, ot i am wrong in some way..

Maybe you are looking in the wrong places

Most likely.

I think my insecurities play a part too, not sure if a gf would help with that or they are the reason i dont have a gf if i have to be honest.

Also i sometimes feel like a dog chasing a car, ok so lets say i ask somebody and she says yes. Now what?

GFs can definetily help with insecurities, but of course there are women who prefer men confident of themselves
Me, for example, used to really hate how i look
But my partner has helped me to feel better with myself, and for the first time in my life i take pictures of myself and post them in my Facebook, something that i've never done before even if it sounds dumb as hell
>i ask somebody and she says yes, now what?
That's...a hard question to answer
I've never thought about that, i'm just like "woo we are a couple now let's talk about stuff let's reinforce our relationship" idk
Why do you want a gf though? What are your plans even?

girls need just one redeeming physical quality then the rest of attraction is dependent on how fucked up her brain isnt

u can finance most plastic surgeries these days.

If it will dramatically change your looks, why not try it.

Better that than being suicidal.

I like being intimate so if i can get that i will be happy. And caring for somebody and seeing them happy makes me giddy inside.

But i sort of got past the phase of ">tfw no gf" into ">am i not attractive enough for anybody? ".

I can see how these are self serving reasons, so i am not sure even of myself at the moment. Do i want a gf because i like people and would like to be intimate? Or is it about proving myself and to everybody i am a person held in high regard.

I am a bit confused about life in general, and sometimes i just dont understand life and other people. So somebody close might help with that as well?