ITT: Ask the opposite gender anything

No. Not a single man under 6'4 ever had a girlfriend or a wife.

Best dates can only be about the conversation between the people. Dates that have a better possibility of creating really personal magic moments are thus more likely to be great. Restaurants aren’t private enough for honest conversations, you’ll get thrown out of a movie— honestly, most classic dates are great ideas. If it’s with someone you don’t know well then it has to be in public so no one gets murdered but if you know them before dating or it’s a few dates in and you want a GREAT date, don’t do that stuff.

To actually answer the question though: Best date I ever had was a walk on a quiet night. There is a double rope swing that we knew about but for some reason that night the whole tree was illuminated with thousands of white lights. There was also a new mailbox staked into the ground with a once blank notebook in it that people had written in. The mixture of these private thoughts uttered into this very public notebook was immensely striking. It’s difficult not to open up your own emotions with something like that between your laps.

don't even joke that less than 6'4 is short or soon girls will reject my 6ft ass

Whoops meant aren’t great ideas.

Make sure I want it first, but looks like you've got that covered. Take a full body pic and ask what she likes, so from nipples to knees, and go from there.

I went to see the Lego Movie 2 in cinema then for a meal, but I think that was more the person and less the date.

Do not get with a girl who's friends don't like you, especially in school / university.

Yes

That they're the average dude. Sure, if I were into that

Is it a turn off to tell a women I haven't had sex in 10 years?

It isn't what you do, it's mostly the person you're with.
Anything I did with my boyfriend, from surprise disneyland date on Valentine's day to grabbing fast food on the way to his house and watching cartoons till 4 AM, has been amazing because I was with him.
If I had to pick a personal favourite, our second date. We were kinda high, we went out for lunch and laughed a lot. We were alone at the restaurant and I have this sweet memory of him trying to get me to stop laughing because all the staff was looking at us. Then we went to a museum and walked back home.
One weekend we made a lot of food (I made pizza, he made wings), drank some beer and had a star wars marathon.
I like going on sport events on dates, too. It's pretty fun.

I don't know. As long as you're with someone you like, it's always fun.

We can't sense it by looking at you and there's no good reason why you should say it.

This guy gave you some good pointers.
Start with a pic of your bulge (be hard, for the love of God) and tease around.
My boyfriend isn't a guy to send dick pics, and I was more turned on by the shots where I could see his bulge in his boxers and other tease-y stuff than any dick pic I ever received.

Reciprocating flirting's the only way I'll know if I have chemistry with a girl.
Smiling, eye contact, touching.

yes, being cheeky and teasing does it for me

I would say it as an explanation for cumming in 2 seconds.

If a boy is dating (not in an exclusive way) someone who he really likes, but at the same time he is sleeping with other girls, does that mean that he doesn't like her that much?

Instead of a shitty justification, why not use it as a moment to praise her for being hot?

The first time you have sex with someone always sucks. Just laugh it off and fuck again.

>if I like kebab but grab a pizza from time to time, does it mean I don't like kebab that much?

>first month of new job
>Theres a really hot secretary-type lady that sits outside my cube area
>Shes always super focused on her laptop
>Havent said a word to her unless i say hi while passing her and shes always very warm

Only red flags is if shes single at her age and she has a giant lifted truck so either its her ex's, she's already taken, or shes a cunt

How do i approach someone at work who i dont have a work association with? Im an engineer and shes just a secretary

Am I right to be afraid to ask out this girl if she's much more attractive and popular than me ? I've been told I'm a 7/10 physically but I have low social skills and not many friends, while she's this gorgeous 9/10 who's friends with everyone. I wouldn't even think about asking her out normally but she spent the semester staring at me and approaching me out of nowhere. She doesn't do that with other guys so I think she's interested. The problem is that if I'm wrong I'll just look like the creepy dude who asks out the popular girl and I'd rather kms honestly. Are my fears founded or am I overthinking ? The good side is that I'll probably never see her again so if I fuck up I can just ghost her and her social circle

>Im an engineer and shes just a secretary
Man, this would be obvious bait anywhere else but here ... yeah, probably still is.

No. Just ask her out, worst case scenario she will reject you.

If he is serious with you he wouldn't date other girls. Same goes for you, if you are serious you shouldn't chase other guys.

This.

Nonmonogamy is real and not lesser than monogamy.

Not having to always be the one to initiate is great too. Lets me know the feelings are reciprocated.

Shut up, whore.

>talk to girl I met on tinder
>seemed to have a connection
>message her yesterday
>she responds that she had to do something with the doctor
>I empathize
>everything seemed to go well
>wake up today
>unmatched
What the fuck did I do wrong? Was I too clingy by trying to get her attention after a day of talking? We had arranged to meet up on friday but never exchanged numbers or anything wtf.jpeg. Also what is it with women never responding after matching?

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Right, that's how it works in Saudi Arabia.

How to tell you're really into someone as opposed to just liking the idea of them being with you?

So what do i say to her "hey nice truck where do you drive it?"

Did you ask for bob and vagene

Guys how do I know if you're interested in me?

It physically hurts when they deny you something even remotely

For me anyway if I am trying to meet up with you I am interested.

After months of talking every day I told an online friend I liked her. She said it didn't affect our friendship but she hasn't messaged me in two days. It's over, isn't it?

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Hey Jow Forums I will be going to a speed dating thing at a anime convention how well do these things usually end for average looking guys, after seeing metokur's speddating I am having my doubts about it.

I usually prefer hanging out with dudes cause women are boring to talk to, so if I voluntarily have long discussions with a girl it's cause I like her. Particularily if I try to get to know her more personally

>my 6ft ass
THICC

Why would a girl do this?

I mentioned to her that I wouldnt be able to make it to a meeting (Purely voluntary)

She said that it was fine and not to worry. But also seemed to be trying to convince me a little bit, by saying that after the meeting they'll be doing something that I had been a proponent of....

yes but at least now you can move on. no more wondering, you have your answer.

Initiating convos, compliments, wanting to hang with you, being touchy. It's hard to miss, no matter how autistic you are.

If it's a shy guy
>looking at you often, especially when you are somewhat distracted or busy doing other things
>sitting close to you at school
>paying a lot of attention (eye contact and asking questions about you) when you talk with him
>being (almost) always available when you ask for help
>compliments

If it's an extrovert guy, he would probably ask you out (cinema, coffee or something) as soon as he find out you're available

I used to fuck a girl when started dating my actual gf (we were just starting to meet each other) because i wanted to impress her on the bed, so i used the other girl to dry all my milk, stoped once it got serious

I told her I still wanted to be friends if she did, and that I understood if she wasn't comfortable with that anymore. She said she was, and that she wasn't putting me at arm's length or throwing me away. We talked some more that day, like we usually do, but nothing since then. I don't want to message her again and seem desperate. She probably sees me as a potential stalker now.

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goes out of his way to walk through mud, literally, to talk to you

I guess combine it with her randomly looking back at me earlier in the day, when theres nothing else there but me.

And a few days earlier wishing me a happy birthday in private texts, then again as an announcement in a group chat.

Along with I guess asking me if I was going to something earlier in the week. (But that could just be to see if we'd have numbers)

> I get nervous
> I talk less (if I talk to you at all)
> I make less jokes and say less "risky" stuff that could potentially offend you
> At all costs, I avoid saying aomething that could indicate I like you in a romantic way
> I am generally a less interesting person all around
It's completely counterintuituve and probably part of the reason I'm a KHV. I'm a much more likeable person and more true to myself when I'm around my friends. When I'm around a girl I like I turn into a shitty boring version of myself that's straight up less attractive and less likeable than how I usually act.

In my case the other girl is someone who lives far far away, they fugged like twice and that is it.

Will I really have more luck with getting girls when I enter my thirties as "redpill" people keep saying, or is it bullshit?

how do you find out for sure if a girl is single? is asking appropriate

i've known this girl and had what i feel like is vague romantic/sexual tension for a little while. she definitely had a bf a few months ago but almost never brought him up to me or even posted him on her social media, but i knew enough. now she's been way more persistent trying to get in touch with me and go out. i'm into her, but she still hasn't given me any clear "i'm single" signs, like comments about an ex or something, and her social media gives no help. i know this sounds dumb but do i just fucking ask her if she's single? it doesn't feel like we are friends when i talk to her, it feels like there's something more there. but not trying to waste my time or get involved with some weird shit. do i just press on and act like i don't know this guy exists?

I've met someone even shyer than myself and I think the feelings between us are mutual. However, I fucked up and missed all the chances I had to ask him out.

I know one of my friends has his number. Would it be okay to get it from them and text him? I know I needed to be direct when I had the opportunities to, but I constantly held myself back and couldn't think of what to say.

I just feel bad asking for his number from someone other than himself and randomly messaging him. But if the feeling is mutual, would he even care?

Bring it up in some way that makes it sound like you assume they're still dating. Like "how is your boyfriend doing" or "what was your boyfriend's name again". If she's still dating him, no harm no foul, she just answers the question and doesn't suspect a thing. But if they've broken up, she'll correct you and tell you they're no longer dating. Doubly so if she likes you and wants to get with you because she'll want to set the record straight that she's single.

you didnt do anything wrong, she either regretted or used you for attention

anyways never focus on one woman, that will be your downfall. date multiple women and dont take shit from a single one

To put it in the wise words of the FBI assassin that killed JFK, "you miss 100% of the shots you don't take". What's the worst that could happen? You're never going to see him again anyway if you don't text him, right?

Girls, any items of clothing that scream “His mother dresses him?”

I'm pretty sure my crush doesnt like me because she doesnt display the typical signs of attraction but she has:

>let me use her chapstick
>drank out of the same cup as me
>fed me finger food in my mouth
>doesn't pull away when i touch her
>has let me take her on a 10 min motorcycle ride
>has smacked me when i teased her about remaining friends with sexual tension

All good signs however, she never texts me and leaves me on read all the time, flakes constantly, and tells me that im drunk when i try to compliment her.

Am i right in assuming shes just an attention-wanting thot?

Girls

Would you rather be in a relationship with a guy who's 6+ ft tall but with a small penis or a short guy with a big one????

As we all know, guys usually dislike it, when a girl hangs out a lot with, has a lot of, and is fairly close to her male friends.
But how do girls feel about guys with a lot of female friends?

read this >I had been a proponent of....
elaborate

You'll definitely get more chicks in their mid-late 20s and older.

Talk to your friend about it. If they give you the guy's number then they obviously think it's fine. Come up with something across the bow to text them about. I'm assuming you already know them a bit, right?

Not a girl, but I can tell you the number one thing to do is not wear clothes that are too small for you.

Does she treat other guys this way?

Most girls don't care too much about size anything.

>be me
>go on tinder
>match
>talk with them
>give my number or ask for theirs
>either leave me on read or unmatch
why the fuck would you match me if we're not going to talk or meet irl

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Would it be reasonable to ask my boyfriend to delete porn from his computer when I will be moving in with him? Honestly the idea of him pleasing himself behind my back to images of other women really irks me and I don't think i'd be comfortable with it.

find out what exactly the porn is (vanilla stuff or fetish) and tell him you can do it better and please him in ways porn cant

I've only seen her interact with one other guy who she says is a good friend and no, they don't flirt with each other. He struck me as shy and a bit distant. Like when he says goodbye to her he just says alright later and walks away but when i tell her bye she talks to me for a little while.

Mixed signals as fuck

Honestly im pretty sure its all either hentai, doujinshi or lewd images of girls he likes. When I'm at his place half of his twitter feed is nsfw. I'm worried he might have already normalised it (seeing sexual images on a daily basis) and me asking him to cut it down will make him feel like im controlling. He spoke about how ''alpha'' it was of some other dude to dump his gf because she asked him to delete lewd pictures so i'm kind of concerned.

>2d porn
oh i see. sorry about that cant really offer any advice in that case.its a fair thing to be concerned about though so im sure someone here can offer you better suggestions.

White socks. Autism shoes.

A guy who isn't insecure about stupid shit like dick size or height.

Really, really dumb shit like this always gets answered immediately

Shit like this gets largely ignored

Are there even any girls on this board, for real?

You should have had this conversation about life habits way before considering moving in with him. And if you couldn't say it before, then don't consider saying it now because it's too late. You know he considers it a dumpable offence. Just don't use his computer nor go around him when he uses it.

I have a few super basic rules, but beyond that it's all good.

Rules would be:
>You don't invest in your friendship with those girls more than you do in our relationship
>You don't share things with them that you wouldn't share with me
>In general I'm not okay with 1 on 1 hanging out, if there has to be no private places or alcol involved
>If either of you is sexually or romantically attracted to the other, I'm not fine with you being friends
>Be honest and transparent about your friendship

I follow the same rules, just to be clear.

Kind of impossible not to go near him when he's on his pc. The bed and the pc are right next to eachother at a position where, if i were to lie on my side, I could see the entire screen. If he wanted to jerk off he'd have to fake taking a shit.

That's way too late to start demanding shit like that imo.
You've been fine with it up until now, I don't see how moving in changes anything.

> read this

The thing is, I'm normally a huge extrovert. It's just when I like a girl that I get shy.
> looking at you often
I definitely do this. Looking for "signs" like if she's looking back at me or twirling her hair or whatever even though the signs are probably unreliable bullshit anyway
> Sitting close to you
Only if I have a good excuse for sitting there. Back to my point of being nervous a girl I like might think I like her and be creeped out
> Paying a lot of attention
Yes
> being always available
Yes
> Compliments
No because she might think I like her

I know my "strategy" is completely counterintuitive and does nothing but guarantee I'll remain a khv but being confident around girls I like is really hard because I'm ugly and I feel like no girl would ever want me anyway so I may as well not disgust her by letting her know I'm attracted to her.

>In general I'm not okay with 1 on 1 hanging out, if there has to be no private places or alcol involved
Outside of this one, the other rules seem so basic and reasonable. Why is it such a big deal to hang with friends 1 on 1 and drink. Would it make a difference if they are in a relationship?

>If either of you is sexually or romantically attracted to the other, I'm not fine with you being friends
Men all have some degree of sexual attraction to our hot female friends, but that doesn't mean we'd act on it, especially if we or they are already in a relationship. Why does a feeling that only exists in his mind matter if he has the self control to not act on it?

Ask him to put the PC in the living room, that's about as neutral as you can get.

I've seen this kind of thing turn into cheating way too many times.
I'm fine with hanging out in group settings, and if you have to 1 on 1 can be fine as long as you minimise risk factors as anything that lowers inhibitions or anything that makes getting handsy easier like being alone at home.

>Why does a feeling that only exists in his mind matter if he has the self control to not act on it?
For the same reason as above: I've seen this kind of thing turn into cheating way too many times. You have all the self control in the world, then she starts flirting with you a bit and you start thinking with your cock.

You feel the need to put arbitrary limitations on your boyfriend because you can't trust him not to "think with his cock"? It seems like there are already trust issues in the relationship if that is a major concern

We don't have particular trust issues, no.
I've seen first hand how easy it is for men and women to cheat when they're in the right conditions, even under the best intentions. A person they find sexually attractive and that they're close to emotionally is probably the best condition to cheat.
While I am fairly sure my boyfriend wouldn't cheat, I don't see why I would add unnecessary stress to my relationship so my boyfriend can hang out with some hot girl or I can hang out with some hot guy.
These boundaries are things we agree on and share.

If you are concerned about asking him to delete them, maybe you can hint you wouldn't like him to fap in front of you.
If he would dump you for something this stupid he would dump you for many other silly reasons. You're losing nothing.

Nah, say, "Nice truck. I see you got it lifted. You got anything else that's been lifted?"

I totally understand your feelings. I would honestly feel weird if my girl was doing the same. Personally, I would satisfy your request. However, you should note the implications. This means that his only sexual outlet would be you. You need to be prepared to satisfy those sexual urges 100%. This means being ready to drop down and please him even if you dont feel like it, or satisfying any weird fetish shit he might have.

Personally, I think that's really cute and sweet and I would probably reciprocate. Obviously there's be times where I couldn't help (ie, I'm sick or out of town) and then I'd have to accept the masturbation situation.

No. No, no, no no no. Do not ever fuck with a man's porn stash. Ever. He will see you as a clingy bitch and be done with you.

NEVER. EVER.

There's a diffrence between "drop the porn or we break up" and "your porn makes me feel inadequate, is there anything I can do so you don't need porn anymore?" The first is obviously controlling and awful. The second is a reasonable stance.

>tfw attracted to very specific types of guys

How do I stop this and be more open-minded? I noticed the type of guys I'm into also tend to be not serious men

They say that second one. Then after a few months they're "tired" or "had a bad day at work" but you're also tired and had a bad day at work and just want to crank one off but she's not for it and she made you delete yer stash.

Is it uncomfortable if a girl has a clear, strong fetish for a trait a guy has?
That's vague, but I have a fetish for short men and it's occurred to me that my expression of this may be weird or off-putting. Basically I'm just very obvious with my interest in that I've only approached men under 5'5" and I depict a lot of smaller men in my artwork. Everyone close to me also knows of my preference and my mother teases me for it (noted because she'd probably bring it up if I got far with someone).

Is this uncomfy and "objectifying?" Or would it be flattering?
Generally, of course. I know individuals vary.

No, there are plenty of them out there. But they allways cry on here about feeling inadequate when dating taller women. If they could let go of their insecurity, they'd get lanky girl vag a plenty.

>penispeople
Nice!

>be 5'6"
>too small for most girls
>too tall for fetishists

Only if she makes in uncomfortable. Is it uncomfortable for a guy to fetishize big boobs? Not really, unless he's got several dozes scrapbooks of tit pics cut out from nudie mags.

Experience. Give a different type of guy a chance or two and you might be swayed.

It's not very reasonable to ask people to change just to suit your preferences.

Your friend should first ask him if he's okay with you getting his number.

My benis is in your bagina. Seriously though, I'm a massive flirt and it would be extraordinarily hard to miss.

It means he likes the sex more than the girl.

Wordplay, double entendre, etc.

>elaborate

Just was something I was pushing for the group to do. Won't say much more, but she did explictly say they were gonna do it that night, possibly to try and make me go?