Girlfriend

let her type her rage just say yes dear and no dear untill she has calmed and then just come home

Im real and i need advice

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Cringe.

Never fucking argue over text.

She thinks that since i have her i dont need porn i love her and make love to her i promised her i wouldnt masturbate when shes in the house and i havn't she made me promise not to lie to her but sometimes i do i cant stop myself if i know saying something will start a fight. If she ask me does this make me look fat i really dont want to say anything.

"Listen 'insert name here' Im not trying to upset you, texting has no emotion to it so its harder to talk about it this way over text. We should talk when you get home, im really not meaning to upset you. Just want to make things right I love you and I want to make it better"

Thats just wierd. A grown man should be able to yank around his joystick when he wants in his own home.

Also shes a psycho if you telling her the truth is upsetting to her but so is lying. Shes getting to your head.. She begging you to stay because she knows another man will not take her psycho ass and stay.

Youre literally walking on pins and needles in your own home to keep her from getting upset.

Yes even healthy relationships have their arguments but guess what? Not everyday.. Not everyweek. Arguements can be avoided by logical adults who know to put their emotions aside and talk about the situation.

There are two sides to the team you are on.. Your side and her side. If you always just bring in emotion and no logic then you won't last but another couple days.

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>havent been together more than a few years
>has a baby already
>clearly mentally unstable couple
>porn addicted father
>tumblr dyed sjw looking cunt of a mother
This is why abortion followed by having a vasectomy/tubes tied should be legally enforced for certain people.

>woman sends a paragraph
>man replies with barely a sentence addressing only one part of her concerns
Hmmmmm

hahahaha OHNONONONO LOOK AT THE TOP OF HIS HEAD

this is solid advice even though there is reddit spacing.
you need to put your foot down OP and tell her exactly what you think, that you only searched it out of boredom/whatever but never to find another girl, and that if she doesn't believe you then you don't think things will work out between you both.
She's using you because you are giving her so much power, and instead of apologizing for something as stupid as googling an app tell her she is being ridiculous and that you'd never cheat on her. (don't blame her but just put ur foot down and show self respect)
It could be too late if she sees you as a pussy that she can easily order around, but if she still wants you in her life/needs u then she will have respect for you when you put your foot down. Continuing like this will only create more and more one sided arguments.

The relationship wont end because of me i wont break up my daughter needs a father.

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Did you fucking read any of what I just said??? Jesus christ im a logical female myself and can tolerate a shit ton but honestly dude between her weird controlling ass and your illiterate ass... Im sorry dude. Good fuckn luck not raising A psycho kid yourself.

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Thank you those are your words but they are true to me.

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Im sorry im not more gramatically correct im better at my keyboard

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she needs to lose weight, for starters. and honestly she sound like me, to have a cunt significant other like you is frustrating. things that comes naturally to us (doing everything we can not to hurt you), isnt exactly in your dictionary

>when the onions addicted "man" weighs half as much as his fat dike of a girlfriend

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I do alot ive taken her to and from work for 3 years. Ive pushed her to get a car she has a learners permit and complains about paying car insurance which is understandable when they are charging her 120 a month. We split our child tax credit and got her an suv. I buy formula cover what she cant pay and shes helped me before when my car broke down. I like to play the hero and talk myself up but im not a doctor with a six figure salary im just a maintanance man. I dont want to hurt her when i do its accidental i never set out to hurt her with malice in my heart. She is trying to lose weight, i do the one punch man training method. We just got a running stroller so we can run together.

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it's fucking depressing lol

>asked to look at my phone to see if i was looking at porn cause she doesnt want me masturbating
Try uncucking yourself

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First of all, don't act like you're guilty of something. If you want to look at other women, it's not a big deal. She's insecure, probably because of her weight, and taking it out on you. Not your problem. Second of all, even letting her go through your phone was a mistake. Your acceptance of that sort of behavior makes you look weak. Be a man. Don't cheat on her, but you look at what you want to look at, and if she starts in with the jealousy, tell her that you aren't having that shit and the conversation is over. She'll either get over it or she won't.

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Kek, user! You fucked up your families life! Shouldn't have searched dating apps. But at least you are paying the price now, too.
Who knows, they may be better off without you too

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Do you have a dad?

Jesus fuck you are donating plasma so you can go watch capeshit. Get ahold of yourself man.

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I was born, so I guess I do

Jesus Christ bud, what the fuck do you do for a living and what are you spending your money on? Why are you so skint?

You know what i mean faggot. Im not new to this site. Im used btardation. Can i get responses from people with families please. Preferably people not under 18.

Not my fault you fucked up your already pathetic life. Try not to fuck it up anymore, loser

Tough love

You want a real answer?

She's obviously insane and unreasonable, given her messages, your best bet would be to break up and split custody, it's better for the kid because if you quarrel like this now, it's only going to get worse as your kid gets older and given your financial situation it'll only get worse at a faster pace.

The best thing you can do for your family is to leave the girlfriend, focus on getting a better job/ improving your financial literacy skills, and pay your child support. It might sound harsh but it's probably the best solution unless you want your kid growing up in a broken home full of constant fighting, even if you think you're hiding it, your kid will know, they're not as stupid as you think, and they'll blame themsleves for your fighting.

Just gonna say OP, parents who stick together out of obligation because "the kid needs us to be together" end up fucking up the kid more often than not. Sure it'll suck for your daughter to have to deal with her parents splitting, but it would be miserable to grow in a home where her father and mother slowly (but surely) resent each other more and more every day. Just food for thought m8 good luck, you're gonna need it.

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>morbidly obese woman mad about boyfriend GOOGLING dating apps
ayy lmao
don't ever play yourself

Top fucking kek

Im donating plasma because our roommate bounced last month with no notice after 2 month of free living and because my tv was busted. I havent been late on rent in 3 years. My girlfriend makes 13 and i make 11.

Thank you for your advice.

I just want her to be happy she really wants to see it.

This
I hate this

Hey OP for what it's worth I think you're a respectable and pretty cool guy for putting up with all the shit in life and working hard to give your family a good future

It's nauseating

OP seems pretty patient and forgiving, such rash judgment seems uncalled for.

You say this, but you'd probably feel extremely cucked if you found out your girlfriend was masturbating to and fantasizing about other men all the time.
If you love someone, you don't need porn. Simple as that, and only addicts disagree.

They make less than $15 an hour and they're raising children

>If you want to look at other women, it's not a big deal.
see

Financial insecurity is a terrible woe. This guy would give his marrow for his family though, that’s pretty admirable.
There are lots of poor people, many of which are even poorer, though they often try really hard in the ways they know how. It’s alright to be disdainful of poverty itself, but it’s cruel to be disdainful of those stricken with poverty. If you can’t bear looking at it without nausea then you need to become stronger!

Please don't encourage financially illiterate people to have children

This is what happens when moral development succeeds but social+mental development fails miserably. This whole thread is a cringefest. OP if you're reading this, just realize that you and your child's mother are mentally very unhealthy. Especially the mother.

This is always a hard one. She likely believes she's healthy, and if you ever suggest she sees a psychiatrist she'll take it personally and never get help.

In short, proceed with caution but don't set expectations too high. It's a ticking bomb regardless if you manage to defuse it this time

Why the fuck were you looking up Tinder vs Bumble? If the genders were reversed everyone would be shitting on you OP

whats doable in one state may not be in another. My girlfriend and i have a 2 bedroom townhome we just got a washer and dryer for our place. I have a gtx970 i5 4600k desktop with a 4k monitor and an htc vive. She has a gtx1070 and an i5 .we drive old cars and buy them upfront with no payments. I change our oil and transmission fluid and replace parts

Shes my first real girlfriend and my second lover i was a virgin until the age of 23 it was just curiosity i wouldnt of acted on it. Have a pic of my ride.

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Big fucking mistake.
Would you rather be alone but in control of your life?
It's too late to change now. Be honest with yourself, did you really plan on cheating on her?
You fucked up and there's really nothing you can do. Atleast try and manage for your son's sake. Read up on how to be a good father. Your life might be over but he can still become a good man without any mental issues plaguing him. But seeing how you got together with a mental control freak who took your balls and his them deep within her purse, I highly doubt there will be a good outcome. You have become an absolute tool.