I thought we had unfinished business but obviously she doesn't give a fuck about me as she's screwing someone else now. I love her and can't bear the thought of life without her.
Had do I get my revenge? She works as a schoolteacher. There must be something I could do to get her suspended at least?
Soooo....you claim to love this person but want to hurt them?
(Spoilers: The problem is you. Not her.)
There's fine line between love & hate.
By getting a revenge body and changing your life around. All to make her regret her decision but with the additional benefit of actually being good for you.
win/win brother
I'm at the point I'm scared to ever have another bf. Its dangerous. So many men like OP. Thing is you are at risk if they even notice you.
In novels and emo poems, sure. But in reality, which is where we live, you wanting to hurt the person you CLAIM to love isn't the same coin.
It sounds like possessiveness and insecurity. It sounds like codependency and obsession and fear. It sounds like anything BUT love. If the roles were reversed - or even just as an outside third party watching another couple go through this situation - would you call that genuine love?
Love is freedom. Love is letting go when they want you to let go. Love is allowing the person to be who they want to be with who they want to be with - even if it means that you have to step aside for that to happen. Love is being happy for them and wishing them well in life - not plotting to destroy it.
I hate people who say shit like that. You have never truly experienced the heights of love and depths of hate you edgelord fag
Yeah that sounds all noble and shit but it's cuck talk. Why should I stand aside and let her enjoy her life when she's left me feeling suicidal?
I don't even care if she hates me at this point. Hate is better than apathy.
Fuck somebody hotter than her and make sure she knows. Be happy, live a life better than hers
Because you and I both know she didn't do the things she did with the malicious intention of making you that way. She's trying to find her place in this world and she's decided it's not with you. Simple as that.
I get being angry and vindictive and wanting revenge. I honestly do. I went through the same dark hole when my ex cheated on me and tossed me into the trash can. I went through depression, denial, anger, vindictive thoughts - all of it.
What I can tell you is that hanging onto this will leave you ugly and stagnant and you'll be trapped in a loop that you created all by yourself. You belittle yourself and allow this to obsessively control you. It turns you into a monster and keeps you looking back into the past. So what if you did the opposite and just let it go?
What if you allow whatever force is at play to do it's thing and move on? Whatever part of your ego she bruised WILL heal and by moving onto the next chapter of your life, you are taking back your power and authority over your emotions and thoughts. You have a future. A bright one, hopefully. You get to create it as you go and you can't look forward AND backwards at the same time.
Be like Elsa and let it go, OP. Let karma or god or the universe or the devil himself take care of her. That's her problem - not yours.
Even if she hates you it won't stop her fucking other men and falling in love with them.
And? At least I can ruin her life along the way. After all, she's ruined mine. Fair is fair.
C'mon dude. OP's hurting under all this anger. Build him up - don't tear him down.
She broke up with you and ruined your life? Did she cut off one of your legs? Can you still eat and drink properly? Did you get fired from your job in a way that makes you need to change careers?
Or are you just sad? Cause that's no reason to hurt someone else because they dont like you any more. People's preferences can change and you have to learn to deal with it.
The greatest revenge is living well
>plotting revenge on a woman
What are you, a woman?
Fucking based.
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Nope.
>Nah. It's one thing to be angry, but the forms and directions that anger takes are telling. This dude is clearly an entitled, narcissistic, self-pitying, emotionally stunted child. We're overpopulated as is and this dude clearly deserves to die. I'm not sorry.
>OP, do the right thing. You know you want to do it. It's painless for you and excruciating for her. Think about how sad she's going to be. How responsible she'll feel. You're never getting her back. Do it.
But who's to say he can't change? He's capable of these violent angry thoughts, but that probably means that he's also capable of the exact opposite too. He's probably got a lot of love in his heart and he deserves to have that side acknowledged too.
Look, it's simple. This girl was my life. Even after we broke up I still held out hope that we'd get back each other. Then I notice she's distant with me. Not talking as much we used to. Realize she's seeing someone. She confirms it. Why should she be allowed to get away with that? My life is over. Over. She deserves to pay for that.
Stop being a faggot and find another girl
You obviously just pump and dump with no real attachment to women. Ironically that makes you bf material
Try this old trick, OP:
Have yourself a good fap, then afterwards see if you're still as hung up on this. The difference between your pre- and post-fap yearnings is the amount that you're just horny.
To find another girl you like you need to pump and dump a few
>I love her
lol. tough luck, beta
You're at a point where you're scared to enter into another man's life and fucking it up for no reason? Aren't you a scaredy little cat?
>wahhhh she doesnt like me
The thread
pay for what? how much worth is your life to you if you're willing to use it to get revenge on someone? you yourself don't value your life, like at all, and this woman 'taking it from you' is what you tell to yourself so you can sleep at night. she's got nothing to do with you and with solving your problems. grow up
Break into the school, leave a half empty bottle of rum and a noose in her desk, warn the school about her mental health issues.
What you need to do is break off all contact with her. Block her on every platform possible.
You should never have kept in contact after the first break up. She's getting on with her life, you should get on with yours. Staying hung up on this will be destructive to both of you.
Block her and do something new in your life. Pick up a new hobby or go on a trip or something. Socialise. Grieve but don't let up, keep moving forward even if you don't feel like it and you'll get swept up in it.
>Order pizza to her house/drugs to her school
>Get someone to deepfake some porn of her
>Public exposure of her personal details
>Throw her trash cans on the street
>Pay some kids to throw a brick into her house
There are guides on how to ruin someone's life on the darknet
Best revenge is make yourself something amazing and find peace in your life you fucking degen
It's not right that she gets on with her life. She's basically saying that what we had meant nothing. She can just move on and get banged by some other dude and my life is over.
What a faggot
You're worthless if you base your life on another person, so I see why she left
I banged my coworker alot who had a boyfriend., fell in love, she broke my heart as sluts always will.
I was crushed
Banged her best friend whos hotter than her, and gives her insecurities about her looks cause i guess when they meet guys together they always go for her first.
Told first girl, sent the texts and nudes.
They are no longer friends
But i wasnt done.
Sent the boyfriend, who she lives with her texts to me, showed him the nudes she sent me. She was kicked out of her apartment.
and everyone stood up and clapped
No man is an island
Hey OP, currently going through the same thing right now. Got ghosted on everything, found out that she moved on with someone else, bugged her on social media in some shady ways and got in contact with her. She turned a 180 and said that I didn't love her and that this shouldn't have happened in the first place.
Try to cool down for a second and read what you're saying. You're saying that your life is ruined without her. Maybe you did love her at some point, but more than that you need her.
If you need her to keep your life together, and is willing to hurt her to keep her in your life for the sake of your own life's quality, that's not really love. That's a burden you shouldn't put on anyone with the exception of your family.
Think and try to figure out why you need her. Go to a therapist if you can't figure it out yourself. And try to fix those problems yourself because those needs are your responsibilities. Then, even if you might never be able to be with her again, you'll be able to love someone and he loved back.
>how do I get revenge?
By being the bigger person and moving on with your life. Go work out, eat healthy, work hard, embrace your hobbies and meet someone new. When my wife cheated on me I divorced her immediately and started working on myself. Now 4 years later I’m remarried with a kid on the way and beautiful new home and she still lives with her parents from when the dude she cheated with started beating her and she had to move across the state
There's an idea OP, find a psychopath who's got a history of beating their girlfriends and set him up with your ex gf.
This. You live your life fully. The only way they win is if you let them take a piece of your life away.
I didn't with my slutty ex and she hungers after the D to this day, some eight years later. I could message her right now and arrange a booty call, if I had any inclination to whatsoever. It might take more or less time circumstances depending, but the fact remains.
All because I left without needing her to validate all the pieces of my life. I gave up the 'her' piece and went back to all the other shit I had going on, and that was and is the key to women and getting the fuck over them.
You got to do your own thing and you got to be able to go back to doing it. Don't be the guy without a plan for a bad situation.