Losing my virginity at 23 to a girl I really like

> No, there will be things that you don't know and it will show

please do enlighten us
Unless the guy is litteraly asking where to put the penis in it's impossible to distinguish a virgin from a non virgin

1 more question.

Is eating a girl out ever a good idea for the first time?

Personally I fucking love it, it helps with the girls since having a orgams just from the penis is kind of hard but is an acquire taste.

As in, if you have never done it before the taste and smell may be too rare for you but if you do it right she will come back for more.

do not tell her you are a virgin
foreplay first
use condom
foreplay to seem more experienced

Explain detailed foreplay to me, I know, I'm likely doomed.

>drink a little to calm yourself
Does drinking make it more difficult to maintain an erection?

just do it and pay attention to her body language and feedback. make her cum with tongue-clit stimulation before penetrating her

Ok some tips here. I lost my virginity at 22 to a 27 year old girl I really liked and didn't want to totally admit to the lack of experience so kind of half lied and said it had been a while since I got laid and had a bad experience that knocked me abit and this was a great way of getting her to be understanding without me having to fully admit no experience which I wasn't comfortable doing. I also went for alot of foreplay expecting the actual sex to be quick and awkward so went down on her alot, groped her up kissed her and was great way for me to enjoy it and avoid the bit I was gonna be bad at. Also suggest having some booze just abit but it will chill you out and also give you a good excuse if you have problems getting inside her or staying hard and stuff.

Overall the first time is just damage control enjoy the good bits and don't sweat the awkward stuff see what she enjoys too and have fun.

she will laugh. this is a great opportunity to start the procedure.

what procedure?

>>Is there a way to seem more experienced than I really am?

Experience speaks for itself, it usually does even if you try to hide it. Unless you're downplaying yourself, it's hard to fake being better than you really are.

Your hands are your best friends. Good handwork/fingerwork will get you so fucking far. Take it slow, don't rush it, and if you're doing it right she'll let you do anything you want.

Remember to trim your finger nails before hand. When you're fingering, it's best if you do kind of like a hooking motion with your hand, sliding your fingers from the top of the vagina, rubbing across her clit, through into her vagina creating lots of stimulation.

Moaning = Good
Anxious/Frantic breathing = Potentially bad, ask her if she wants to slow down

Fingering will also help you figure out the layout of the vagina which is helpful for your first time.

After that if she's into it, its pretty easy and she'll let you do mostly anything so long as the sex is good.

>it's impossible to distinguish a virgin from a non virgin
This. From what I've heard from female friends over the years, many non-virgin guys are terrible at sex so it's unlikely that virgins will stand out

Yeah for this reason exactly.
That's why if you just care about what she is feeling you'll already be a good one.
Beside even if she has doubts about your virginity being brave and playing it through like you know your shit will make her you more
Also women can be a bunch of insecure little shit so she'll be just happy to be fucked
Don't stress it too much OP
I didn't and it went good and I was way older than you and her

There is no way to screw this up if you both know that you're a virgin.

You have to tell her, because you're gonna nut in about thirty seconds, probably, and unless she has some forewarning, she's likely to assume that you either lied about your experience or you're just a really bad lover.

But if you focus on getting her off as your primary objective, then it should be okay, and you'll just eventually put it in and finish really quick, which she might actually find flattering if her libido is sufficiently satiated, and knowing that you'll probably get better at fucking her will make it more likely that she keeps on doing it (which, presumably, you want).

Condoms are worth a shot, but at the same time, don't forget that the Costco pharmacy sells Plan B for like 8 bucks, and you don't have to have a membership to use it. Kaiser does, too.

I was almost 20 when I lost mine, but I spent about an hour and a half eating her out, so she was literally begging for me to put my dick in, and that was pretty awesome.

As long as you both like each other, you'll have plenty of chances to rock the puss, and that's sort of the best thing ever, so just make sure you're straightforward with her and that she doesn't feel like you're being dishonest with her.

The best way to do that, of course, is to be completely honest with her.

>Honesty
Don't. It's a cold world out there.
If you want to tell her you are a virgin do it after the act at least you'll have that one fuck
If you tell her you are a virgin everything is off table.
It's better to ask for forgiveness than to ask for permission, it's a brutal black pill of life but it's true.

Beside you don't know anything about OP they might have never talked about sex at all

Also do bring a condom don't listen to this other really bad advice. It will stop you from cumming too fast and protect your health
Do not trust roasties

Who hurt you, user?

You'll be okay.

>Who hurt you
Every girl I was honest with
I'm done falling for this meme and never had so much success
I'm okay though, I've just stopped trusting anything a girl says unless I'm sure she ha 100% fallen for me