Boner suppression

I'm lonely as fuck, and any positive attention from a woman is liable to give me a boner. This ranges from half-chubs to full hard-ons. Makes talking to women awkward. Is it possible to alleviate this, or is it something I'll just have to deal with? Any anons have experience?

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Watch more porn and get desensitized

Tense a muscle and it goes.

Porn is horrible and I'm not watching it anymore

Which muscle? Kegel?

The uncontrollable boner is a trait of early adolescence. It generally comes under control by 18 or so

I'm 23. The uncontrollability went away for a few years from porn/masturbarion addiction, but now it's back. Sexual thoughts make me throb

Bump

Yup. I usually tense a leg while sitting down. Goes in about 30 seconds.

Are you a virgin? Do you mostly avoid social settings?

fucking beat your meat
wack the weasel
polish the pole
mix a batch
tug the rope
drill for oil
do the five finger shuffle
flog the dolphin
clean the boat
milk the cow
tickle your pickle
clean your rifle
crank the shank
get to know yourself
frost the pastries
give it a tug
play pocket pool
polish the rocket
shine the helmet
shuck your corn

FUCKING FAP you phallus

What about standing up? My bonners happen whenever, and I think they're noticeable when standing

Not a virgin, but damn near. I've had penetrative sex with 2 girls across 3 instances, and fingered another girl once. I've historically avoided social situations, but I'm trying to change that which is why I want bonner to leave

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If you release the sexual tension in your life, you will think less sexual thoughts. fap it, but don't over do it. Keep your libido in check and you will stop having boners when you talk to women.

If possible try putting yourself into passive social settings with the option of communicating, like coffee shops near a college campus, campus library’s, study halls etc. Also consider networking online - plenty of foreign woman online looking for just an English tutor, let alone whatever other skills you may possess. Exposure and time is your best bet for overcoming this problem.

Also, avoid porn, and if you’re interested try a nofap streak

I was being facetious, but I appreciate the elaboration. I tried nofap for a week and that was no good; I got way aggressive in general. I usually go every few days or so, but the problem I have is that jerking it doesn't offer any human connection. I'm lonely as much as I am horny, if not more

I've done the passive thing for a while. It's helped with my anxiety to a degree, but I'd really like to be able to approach people. I'll try more of it, either way.
I'm definitely avoiding porn, but I'm also wary of nofap because of what I mentioned in

of course I know you were, which is why I appended actual advice.
I don't believe nofap works. It's a meme.
>jerking it doesn't offer any human connection
You have entangled the two emotions. you need to figure out a way to suppress or put your libido in check.

My best advice is to talk to women and just attempt to suppress it. Practice makes perfect. The only way you can overcome this is to interact with people.
When you are interacting, think of other things. Get focused on the conversation, think about what you're doing after work, literally anything except the problem you are having. It may not work the first time or the first 10 times, but you can mentally train yourself to not think about it while you're talking to others.

I used to have a fear of getting a boner while going to the doctor. I would get nervous as shit from it. But when the time came, I cleared my mind and forced myself to think other things more loudly than the fear of an erection. I thankfully have not had a boner while at the doctor yet.

It’s funny that I get mild bones whenever I’m around my girlfriend. Not full blown tent, but enough. She teases me about it.

Don't women bitch about bleeding and tax tampon?

Boners are natural. Let that shit rage. That's what I do.

>having convo
>girl makes joke
>slight chuckle
>get boner
>she's embarrassed
>"Biological reaction to thinking you're cute. Outside my power to control it"
>she jokes again about aside from it I'm pretty well composed
>"well, yeah. Before I act on instinct I need to know you want me too"
>girl turns red
>let her feel that heat
>"want to grab some coffee?"
>"s-sure..."

But it's not all a walk in the park.

>talk to girl
>she's being all serious
>get boner 'cause... who knows
>she says "uhhhh wtf?"
>"it's an involuntary reaction. Sometimes-"
>she cuts me off "that's inappropriate"
>i respond "I agree. Dead bodies? Hookers? Crack? I can understand. I can't understand why I'd get hard talking to someone as insipidly boring and slow as you."
>leave

Fuck it.

You're a good guy, user. Thanks for all the advice. Gonna get out again this weekend and try to talk to some people.

Envy. I want this relationship.

Kek. I'm not so smooth as that, but it's something to work toward

Not op, but i fap like 3 times a day and still get this.

Itdoesnt come from physical contact, just literally women being nice to me

Woman scent gets me