So I’ve seen plenty of threads asking what’s wrong with women, why aren’t you getting enough matches or any at all, or if you do, getting ghosted, let me ask you anons, what do you think it’s the problem...
Let’s help each other at improving ourselves, let’s put out our profiles and advice one another. How do you start conversations, how to keep the conversation going, when or if to ask numbers, you know all of that. I’ll start with my profile.
with tinder just from what I've understood, you shouldn't ever message first and you shouldn't respond too fast. let her do the talking because if you have to keep the conversation going then you've already lost
Elijah Gray
That's cringy as fuck
Nathan Thomas
>these seem to work pretty well so far So then what did you need help with if not your profile? >with tinder just from what I've understood, you shouldn't ever message first I’m not sure where you got that info because girls almost never message first on tinder.
Gabriel Bell
Shirtless beach photo, beer in almost half of them posted
Dude, you're presenting yourself like a total, cliche, generic douche
Cooper Lee
This is me tho. Well it is just one, I thought it would be good to have at least a photo like that
I’m 5’7’’
Bumble looks mostly the same as my tinder profile.
>This is me tho. Yeah thanks I got it the first time. What do you want help with besides the photos? Everybody is going to have different opinions on them but the OP made it seem like you want to know how to talk to women also.
Jason King
Results so far, I’m aiming for more, and I would like advice and get adviced
Always message first, girls aren't going to do that shit
However, if they're only giving one word responses and not responding with anything of value cut them loose. They're not that into you.
Jayden Campbell
The problem is modern women have hundreds of options and they know it, which makes them incredibly shallow and picky to the point where their standards are impossible to meet. Eventually they get close to 30 and realize they fucked up but for many of them it's too late
Jaxson Gutierrez
The problem is you probably look like >>>
Jason Richardson
I just find it too uncomfortable a medium. Would rather talk to strangers in bars.
Jackson Morales
I'd have swiped left on all of them.
Ryder Adams
You're gay
Juan Gonzalez
every bio I come up sounds corny as fuck so im just gonna be honest about myself.
"Hi, I'm looking to meet new friends and experience new things. Im outgoing, laidback, love doing anything outdoors, and can pretty much get along with anyone. I can also draw, play piano, and speak fluent Croatian. I Love travelling and have been to 6 countries and want to add more to the list. Swipe right if you want to explore new places and hike up some mountains with me"
David Harris
I would have too
I'm not into spics, much less mediocre looking ones. Fuck off.
Carson Reed
>108 matches You dont need advice
Alexander Bailey
>asks for advice >doesn't post his actual face
I think I may present myself as too much of a loner, possibly.
Just leave you bio blank or put in your height and area or Snapchat, that comes off as very uncool tee bee haich dude
Isaiah Howard
Maybe that’s why you don’t get any matches at all, you set the bar too high and wonder why the 10s are not interested in you
Jack Sullivan
I don’t see why you need any advice, seem to be doing ok, you’re not a 10 and you understand it, so you date 7-8 good, some anons over here aim for a 10 being less than 5, congrats OP
And yet he seems to get enough dates, he’s not good looking so he doesn’t pursue the apple on top, and in consequence he’s not an Incel like many here
Carson Sanders
If said shit like this I'd get blocked
fucking sucks being black and below a 9/10 everyone thinks im a druggie, criminal or creep
Colton Sanchez
ditch the second photo, replace 3 with a similar picture but with your eyes open then swap that picture with 1
your first picture needs to be a good picture of you & your face, then use the other pictures to demonstrate your interests
Gabriel Cox
Mine is
City/City (in french and english) English/French 1m86 (6feet something) I like cinema. Not marvel
Probably hurt a bunch of marvelette but I don't want them anywhere near me
Elijah Perez
>install Tinder >get 50 matches in the first week >second week hits >don't get new matches anymore, not even any likes Did I do something wrong? Is there a cap or something?
Blake Wright
You are so right. Had a chat with a few 30+ women I got to know over these apps, wich were complaining that they are now struggeling to find a real relationship.
Parker Clark
wtf did u do to get 50 matches? is it workin for you?
Gabriel Howard
>9 matches Time to like the ugly ones, I guess.
Chase Kelly
The problem is online there's you, and nine hundred other thirsty fags trying to blow up her IMs. It's simple, do you find your confidence rises if there's two other candidates, or two thousand?
Liam Watson
See about this
I have over 130 matches right now, I rarely use it. I went on a date with a middle aged women, pretty average and she showed me her phone bragging about the matches she has, 4k matches.
That is when I knew, online dating was not for me.
Noah Nguyen
meanwhile ive had this thing for months and had like 3 matches...
I wish I wasn't such a bitch when it comes to asking girls out irl. its so much easier online.
you probably swipe too much. Don't swipe on more than like 15-20 per day
Logan Ward
I'm reading this like you got confused in the middle of your first statement and are asking if "who gives a fuck" is actually what you studied.
Also makes you sound like an immature tryhard.
Nicholas Martinez
Jajajajaja I remember going out with this girl that in person was meh, 6.5/10 and after talking a lil bit she showed me that she had a shit ton on matches, like 250+, now imagin that fot a real cute bitch