Why do women prefer "bad boys" over men who are nice, humble, and treat women well?

Wrong thread?

It’s a delicate balance of being both I’ve found. Not too clingy needy but not too much of a cold distant ass.

no

>want to be treated like normal people

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Because this is usually a fella's genuine thought path when he tries to convince you that he is "nice" and "cares about women"

This thread says "why do women prefer bad boys?" not "show your false sense of superiority here"

ok..? Are you suggesting women the weaker, slower, less innovative, less intelligent gender are not inferior?

Nice guys and boring guys are kind of the Same m8

Checked

So, how man is acting and doing to show of as a nice guy to woman?

because women are an evil conspiracy out to destroy YOUR life specifically for being so nice, duh

Women are mentally children who hate boredom more than anything else, it's like giving a kid a choice between a mountain bike or a solid, long-term investment portfolio. One is better in the long run than the other, but the other is much more exciting and immediately gratifying

This but also these as additional evidence

Everyone hates boredom. The difference is what we consider boring (personality) and our ability to bear boredom for the sake of a meaningful mission.

So you can get a girl who is genuinely bored of party guys and can sit still for hours if she values the result (like doing research observing insects even if the observation itself bores her

Exactly. Despite what feminism always preach around women definitely men (or discipliners) to lead them emotionally and logically. Left alone women, like children, will spiral into an emotional mess. There is a reason matriarchal hierachy didn't survive long in human history. Women aren't BORN to lead, they can try (and could be successful), but they will exhaust themselves and be replaced by men. There is nothing sexist about this. Everyone has their forte and to maximize the output of a soiciety, everyone should know (and be at) their place

because they are animals who base attraction on looks, but unlike men, they'll completely ignore men who are not as good looking but are decent human beings

Because people in general are buttfucking retarded and have lost their sense of responsibility alongside their religion.

Life's a fucking nightmare. Find your own way to deal with it.

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>bitchbois on Jow Forums trying to feel superior for things hey didn't do themselves but other penis weidling men have done
>never a citation of course

this thread is dumb, op is dumb, stop making it, stop bumping it, stop larping with yourselves, stop

women play a completely different ballgame compared to men.

Their physical peak is reached at around age 21-23, regardless of intelligence or interests and as such a lot of them try to have an exciting life around that limiting factor.

This means that generally they will want "bad boys" because those people are doing things that excite them and thus spill over with that energy on the girlfriend as well.

Then there is the aspect that people in general enjoy a good challenge, meaning that people generally want a partner that is a stretch in some capacity - bad boys are exactly that. The girl knows the "bad boy" is only out for himself, but what if she can wrap him around her finger?

Challenge accepted, you see.

People just want an exciting life and its easier to have that with bad boys.

At least thats what i think of it.

bad boys are nice guy traps
they act like a nice guy then trap you once you fall. no escape.

I’m honestly a really decent person I think. I don’t want to call myself a nice guy because of the stigma but I’m kinda shy, respectful, not very edgy or obnoxious and I think I would treat a girl right. That said, I can’t find any women who wanna get to know me or go on a date. I’ve tried bumble and tinder. Am I just too ugly

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a nice guy is like karen taking the your car, house, kids and your dog. ANYTHING BUT MY DOG KAREN. PLEASE, IM BEGGING YOU!

KKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKAAAAAAAAAAARRRRRRRRRRREEEEEEEEEEEEEENNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNN

true.

>nice, humble and treat women well
>when in reality is entitled to sex and attention

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I’m those things except I don’t feel entitled. I am bummed out that women won’t date me tho and I more or less hate myself for not being good enough to get girls rather than I feel entitled and have anger towards women. I just make the excuse that I’m too ugly or autistic looking desu because I cannot possibly see whatever else it could be.

Without reading the comments, I'd say you're thinking of the exciting bad boy and a guy who is kind, humble, etc. but also wet and a doormat. The former will be way more exciting than the latter and more attractive. But the bad boy compared to a guy that is kind, humble, etc. but also confident, strong, can challenge a woman, has some fun spontaneity, etc.? I can see her going for the latter.

Nice and humble isn't really enough if you're also a wet doormat that is really repressed.

I’m not a wet doormat but I don’t have any luck finding any women interested in talking to me

Have you ever tried talking to a woman or do you just mope in the basement?

I talk to women. They say I’m not their type desu and I think they mean my looks

Get a decent haircut, thats's the first thing I noticed about your pic. And maybe shave?

This.

They mean you're boring and spergy.

This pic was literally taken a day after a decent 30$ haircut.... I have unusual cowlicks.... and also I basically shave once a week and keep my stubble trimmed. What’s wrong with that?

And so many people say get a decent haircut but never fucking give me an example of what suits me.... so I go to a fucking stylist and then my haircut is still not enough...

I would say clean up the front a little more if possible. It just looks messy to me?

Maybe you're too repressed. That's my problem. Not a doormat, am polite, etc. but am very repressed. I'm stuck in my shell.

you arent afermitive enough
grab her, hold her, make her feel safe and wanted, "nice" guys are allways to silent

Women who like "Bad boys" have daddy issues; their role model for what a man should be was

-> Abusive to her thus she thinks abusive relationships are normal. A child who watched her mother take beatings from a drunk father might think being beat up or strangled is a turn-on.

-> Did not care about her, therefor she looks for men who do not care about her.

-> Non-Existent. She has no idea what a normal relationship looks like.

Feminism is a response to technology; 3rd wave feminism is a response to social media and contraceptives, and women have been targeted by corporate america, political groups, and foreign adversaries to be told in all sorts of subtle ways that if goop yourself up in makeup and dress like a porn star and go on Tinder, you too can fuck your way up the social and economic heirarchy. All 3 of those groups know they are selling a high-risk high-reward strategy that at the core of it, creates an epidemic of poor fatherhood.

Does a man care about his daughters when his family breaks apart due to his wife cheating or does he move on when it happens? How many daughters are born to un-wed men? Abuse has no excuse but some men get insecure and drunk.

Turns out rich guys like young, free, eager pussy; that's what feminism is really about by the way.

Ignore the bad guys and bad girls.

Go look at the women who aren't wearing makeup every day, who you can think "Gee, I could dress that up as X". If she's intelligent, bonus points. Look for the "normal" girls nobody hits on, and hit on them.

You will not be disappointed.

Women like guys with higher status
If a bad guy treats a girl like shit, he's has a high value in her eyes

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women are also passive aggressive towards men and no one complains

It's true bud

haven't you ask this before a couple days ago?
Women want confident, self assured men, that usually means that the men are "bad boys" because they don't adhere to social norms and say/do whatever they desire.

Nice, humble and gentlemanly are actually attractive traits to females. Nice however gets confused with compensatory niceness which comes about as a result of weakness and insecurity. women sense this and are turned off.

damn nigga you're still on this board with that shit?

lol, so being am womanizer and a user is why bad boys get sex? get real. i'm about to drop some shit on you: women like criminals and brutes, they like tall men who are violent, there is not civility in their choosing, being good-natured is not attractive to women EXCEPT when they need someone to raise the bad boys child. that's literally all you're good for

>because they don't adhere to social norms and say/do whatever they desire.
but that narcissist/asshole trait.

Im a bad boy. Bitch always leaves me for a nice guy. Ya'll a bunch of pussies up in here. Next bitch please!

>Nice, humble and gentlemanly are actually attractive traits to females

People usually say, but can you provide a single example how this would work?

nice guys are boring

I think you know you're hot, but you're insecure af

You can have light banter with them, challenge, etc. without being a insulting asshole and have a backbone.

What if I offend her though? I don't want to be rude to girls...... And I sometimes cry when rappers in songs use the b-word which is very disrespectful towards women... I don't even know what I should do at this point, being a nice and gentle guy sucks, and women despise me for it...

>that post
you're either baiting or you're born 400 years too late

>humble
there's yo problem nigga, flaunt your value

>"normal" girls nobody hits on
there are no Girls that not get hit on

otherwise good post

Men replace women because they're stronger and narcissistic. That doesn't mean it's natural. The CEO being a sociopathic jerkoff doesn't mean it's natural.

Society would be better off without these men.

i think a buzzcut with the stubble would actually look alright but idk your hairline

>At a bar I approach a girl who's been looking at me smiling for a while now.
>I go up to her and compliment her like I don't give a fuck if she rejects me or not.
>introduce myself and get her a drink without even asking
>during the entire 10-minute conversation I ask questions that convey that I'm actually interested in her as a person and not just a walking gash
>Later I say I'm going to go back to my friends without explaining why. I do mention though that I really enjoyed talking with her and that I wanna get coffee with her on friday after work
>she immediately says sure and gives me her phone number.
Deal done.

The trick is in being confident enough to say how you really feel. And if you really feel as if she's special and that she's worth more than any of the other girls at the club that you could've gotten then she'll pick up on that. Women love that shit. Niceness and gentlemanliness could accurately be described as the ability to make a girl feel special(you can't make her feel special if she knows she's the best you can do). And that's why the girl would give me her phone number in that situation. Because she loved how special I made her feel

That wouldn’t work for me, user. Not with my hairline. I have nice thick hair, why wouldn’t medium length be alright? I guess I’m willing to accept something isn’t suited for me if it makes sense....

Because usually assholes are the ones who act tough because they've been hurt and once a girl gets in on his trust, they find deeper reward even just from knowing and befriending that one person than they'd get from forty-thousand squared miles of nice guy dick.

Sure, sometimes they're just assholes, but at least girls have an idea of what they're after.
You fags just go after total thots who are your principle opposite and then get mad when you get shot down.

the "bad girls" do, the normal ones dont

>not all women are the same
normal ones lie to themselves

Can we just skip the dumbass "actually nice guys are the REAL assholes" and just admit that it comes down to who's hot and who's not?

Sociopathy has always been a necessary trait for a good leader and overly empathetic leaders are often the ones that cause the most damage.

>overly empathetic leaders are often the ones that cause the most damage.
what do you mean? Hitler?

Based on my experience with a Stacy sister, it's just a phase. They want the thrill of a bad boy because it epitomizes "manliness" in a very immature way: strength and confidence, even though bad boys are for the most part also immature.

Girls love bad boys because it's exciting for them, but grown women prefer stable men. That's why bad boys are never in a relationship for more than 3 or 4 years, it's a fling, never something lasting.

However, don't think that being a stereotypical "nice guy" is good. Being a beta fuck is no good to girls or women. Everybody, men and women, want someone that has life in them, so to speak, and wimpy men and women are lifeless.

I'm a women myself and i think women are retards.

it's all about the looks retard

what

i have my own opinion on your weak ass thinks im a woman? listen faggot, if you're done chasing after instagram hoes or basic bitches wondering why they want the hottest men on the planet, YOU should get out more and start having proper relationships with people without expecting a reward.

this means forming actual bond with women and not pretending to like them in hope of getting pussy. If you want pussy, get a hooker. If you want a girlfriend, act like a human being.

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Dont listen to this evil person.

This is evil.

A hot guy will be given more leeway than an ugly guy, but a hot guy that acts like a mewling bitch will eventually repulse any woman he's involved with.

Women want to be wanted. They want you to show attraction and make them feel sexy and desired. If you miss her signals, that's extremely offensive and disheatening. Being the "nice guy" when a woman wants to fuck is actually being an asshole.

>I'm a women
dunning kruger

to a certain degree, yes, but you'll see ugly men with girlfriends (and sometimes even good looking girlfriends) and you'll see ok and good looking guys that can't get laid (see Elliot Rodger). looks are important, but they're not everything.

Women are retards.

>If you miss her signals
Like what?

Because "bad boys" are masculine while "nice guys" are fags
People who say "Nice guys are entitled, manipulative, etc" are also wrong, they just emit effeminate behavior
Based

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ignore all the virgin splerg.

one word. excitement.

Women don't want nice guys and women don't want guys who treat them badly. They want bad guys who are nice only to them, so they feel special and protected. Unfortunately men like this are unicorns and women are dumb, so a guy who treats everyone like shit will usually eventually treat them like shit too.