ITT: Ask the Opposite Gender Anything

Worse, they think they do and it gives them a probably wrong first impression. Big feet/hands, voice, hair, so many assumptions can work for or against you. Best not to care about it, because real men shouldn't fear what they cannot control (you CAN control first impressions of course, but I fear this crosses into the "you're caring too much" territory).
My point is, never underestimate someone's ability to assume they are right or smart, but if they make such a preconceived notion in baseless ideas like that they prob aren't worth long-term time.

If I have a pegging fetish, do you think I would have any luck asking a lesbian to peg me? No girl I've ever dated has been dominant in bed. Many lesbians have issues with men, they have a disdain for them, so maybe I could find one who enjoyed this. I know this post is kind of retarded.

My sister has claimed to possess such an ability, and a friend of mine has as well. I've never been able to discern the size of a man's penis with only a cursory glance, as my sister claims to be able to do, nor can I do so after further examination. I suppose I was just a bit insecure that I was somehow abnormal.

Question for girls,
talking to a lady and I want to know more about her personality and interests outside what we know, but I know if I just flat out say "tell me something about yourself" or "tell me something I don't know about you!", I'll get dead air or "lol what in particular?" I want to get her talking about things that are important and big to her, pure and simple. Need I warm read a topic and bring it up myself? Or is there a good way to ask "hey tell me about what else is important to you!"?

can someone give this one advice please?

If you've stopped liking a person, don't continue interacting with them. Easy.

That's a dick move (apparently)
Never bothers me

How would a girl typically respond if I told her to dress more modestly?

I don't get it, what do you need advice on? Do you just want assurance?

Go go user! You can do it!

Who an why are you telling to dress more modestly? Probably disdain if she isn't a family member/friend, mixed results otherwise.

Did I fuck up by passing the number along instead of waiting and asking in person...whenever that may have been. Cause I've never heard from her.

It is to some extent, but it's a necessary evil in my eyes. Unless you'd really want to maintain any number pointless relationships.

Generally, people don't take kindly to qualms you have of their personal standards. Unless there's a real good reason, like you are going to church and she''s wearing a Hooters uniform, either keep your mouth shut or just move on.

I've been seeing a girl for some weeks, and I've tried to kiss her twice. Once a few weeks ago, when she rejected me and said it was too early, a bad moment, and she was too drunk. But we kept hanging out and she kept being touchy and flirty.

So, yesterday, I tried again. She moved back and said something like "why do you only try this when we're drunk???"

So I said, that I would try sober instead then, to which she said yes, smiling. She hugged me like 5 times and we parted ways.

Can anyone help analyze this situation?

My grandmother. She 82 fucking years old and she's wear a crop top for Christ's sake. I want to be able to visit my children without feeling the urge to vomit goddammit.

Yeah should've asked in person but oh well. Go see her in person tomorrow or whenever you got time and make up for it.

She hates the taste of alcohol, obviously

Don't think too much about it. People fear that feelings are less genuine when influenced by drugs or alcohol, and sometimes that is justified. Just do as you said and do it on a sober occasion, it sounds like she's still cool with you from how the night ended. Plus, tbf, some people care about firsts, and she may not want you to be drunk during your first kiss.

does it change things that much? like make her change her mind?

Nah, she just expected things to escalate doesn't want to limp whiskey dick excavating her flesh caverns.

Ex girlfriend just sent me an old photo of me that she took on her phone, it's just me in the photo and she didnt type any text with it. It's been a while since we actually talked. I dont think too much of it, but I was curious as to what the point of the text was. I didn't respond back.

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To keep you on your toes

I bet they would guess my dick size very wrong.

Top kek

testing the waters

She's accurately guessed the length and girth of every fellow I've asked her about with a margin of error of about half an inch. Although I must concede that I've only ever personally confirmed about 4 of them.

Send a picture of her maybe?

I'm somewhat short, so she would probably guess 3". But I have a 5".
But what's up with your relationship with your sister? Do you share guys? Do you really measure dicks with a ruler/tape? What the fuck?

Nah she sent it hours before midnight, bow would be a weird time to do it. I'm also doing no contact so that would defeat the purpose.
I figured it was these two, but I'm wondering.....why now? I'm ignoring but now she's gonna be on my mind again. Shit.

She's oddly perceptive about certain things, so I'll have her make an assessment on fellows I'm interested in. I dated four of them which is how I was able to confirm their supposed lengths. Also nice trips, Satan.

Is she your older sister? What's her age?
Is she a slut?
Is she a succubus?

Male and females:
I got out of the shower today, and the scab where my dermatologist removed a mole was soft and peeled right off. Is that good or bad?

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So long as it left no scar I don't see why it'd be a bad thing.

These are a lot of questions, but I'll humor you because it's late and I'm bored.
>Is she your older sister?
Yes
>What's her age?
27(?) Mid to late 20s, anyway
>Is she a slut?
She's had one boyfriend for the past 4ish years. So I'd say no, bit she does seem a bit more experienced than I am.
>Is she a succubus?
Neither literally or figuratively.

My female doctor told me to go pigeon toed before she went in there. Footwear MAY have something to do with it.

"Tell me 3 things about you, make one of them a lie and I'll guess which the lie is."

No, dude. Lesbians don't want to fuck men.

I know that sounds like a dumb question but do tall girls exist? Any of the girls here actually 6'+ or so?

I dig tall girls but I seem to be literally unable to find them

Have you ever been outside?

What about bisexuals? Why would a lesbian fuck somebody she's not attracted to.
I'm the type of girl that chased after my boyfriend instead of the reverse so maybe you'd want to find someone like that. I'm completely open to the idea of pegging and I love teasing my boyfriend.

I'm 175 cm (5'9" or something idk) and I see a lot of girls taller than me at my uni. Theres a ton of tall guys too, I felt weirded out today when I was walking with three dudes to an exam and I had to look up the whole time while talking, all three of them are like 2m tall, feelsweird.
I live in eastern eu btw, depending on where you live it might be harder to find tall girls. Balkans, Netherlands, North eu are all full of toll girls.

This.
I'm one of the taller girls where I live at 5'8", but when I was in the Netherlands I was a shortie compred to half of the girls there. My best friend is dutch and his mother is a head taller than me.

Yeah, both of my parents are taller than me but I still grew up feeling pretty tall. Suddenly when I went to uni I started feeling average since there's so, so many tall girls here.

Plenty of times, even. I've seen a lot of women too but barely any over 1.80m or so

I live in Jewland, so probably just kind of south of you. We have plenty of tall guys and I have my fair share of 1.90+ friends etc. But the only tal woman I've seen recently is one of my tutors in the Uni who's about 1.78-1.80 or so

Is this fine to text to ask a girl out during the two weeks before exams?

What are you up to this week? We should study together sometime. Haha, i'd love to get to know you better during the study breaks as well ;)

My mom's side of the family is quite on the short side. My mom is 161, her parents were 155 and 163. It's not that uncommon here as I'm originally from southern europe.
But on my dad's side, they're weird mountain people and they're all really tall. I took after them. He's 188 his mother was around 175 and his father is 185. I'm 173 myself.

My boyfriend is 193 so perhaps we'll breed giants.

Hmm. Northern California. I'm six foot and see bitches taller than me. Not like every day, but more than once a month. Had two Grs in Kansas that were taller than me.

Ah i actually go to Israel every summer and I have to admit girls aren't as tall but they're definitely there. I know a few girls of Georgian descent and they're taller than me, not sure if they pass the 1.80 mark. I've seen a few tall qts in tel aviv but yeah, definitely not as many as here.

Depends on how stressful is her degree. If it's a chill college or whatever than maybe. I'm on a very demanding degree (Physical Therapy. IDK how it's where you live but here it's hell on earth) and I wouldn't meet any new people like a month or so before finals. If it's an attempt you don't mind failing and you don't have a oneitis on her, try it. You're technically at a no so at worst you'll get a yes.

Like an inch taller or anything significant?

Really? Cool. Visiting relative, or did you somehow manage to like it here?

We're both studying Law, haha. Very intense.

I'm fine with a no from her but I am also expecting that if she's too busy, for her to reschedule, haha. Is this too optimistic?

Oh aye but I'm not incompatible with this dude. Like I said, we work exceptionally well on paper. I clicked with him platonically, that's why I'm so confused over this. I always feel like an idiot but thanks.

I have anxiety, depression and autism, he's clean.

Bumping on new thread, would like opinions that aren't dismissive (looking at you tripfags)

Thoughts on forehead kisses?

Whoever sold you this is having fun at your expense. We can guess and if you're showing through your pants we can estimate, but no.

No, no and n/a

Learn to say no. This will be affecting far more than your dating life.

I would say you did screw up because you don't really know if she got it. Go speak to her in person, ask if she got it (even in front of people) and then exchange numbers.

No but you could find a bi one. Any legit lesbian will not sleep with men, the same way any legit straight man wouldn't sleep with a man.

Do you have any goals? Passions? A ten year plan? What drives you? What's the most fun day you've had? Is there anything not private that you've just never got round to sharing with people?

Random girl will tell you to fuck off. Gf / wife will depend on person. If my bf asked me to dress a certain way I would only do so around him.

Attention

Horrifying, but I'm no doctor. Go to the doctor!

I am a midget but two of my female friends are 6+.

Yea should be fine unless she's doing an arduous course

Adorable when my boyfriend or my dad does it, gross when basically anyone else does it.

I am sure that I am overthinking this but if a girl goes from responding to your texts super quickly and then leaves you on read for hours... Did you fuck up?

possibly if the context is given, but it's likely you're just texting a manipulator

girls in this era are mad toxic, take a step back and find a distraction, user

stay safe

I may be actually retarded but:

>be told numerous years ago that female ejaculation isnt actually a thing and its only faked in porn by chicks that drink gallons of water and that its only piss
>Assume this is fact for my whole adult life
>Actually made an irl girl squirt
>Felt a tremendous feel salad of surprise, confusion, pride and gittyness

Please explain to me the mysteries of the female ejaculation

big hands and feet
long fingers

body proportions don't lie, anyone who says otherwise is coping

The context is just innocuously flirting via messenger. I took it a bit further and said, "what are you up to this week? We should study together sometime. Haha, I'd love to get to know you better during the study breaks as well ;)."
Yeahhh, I think you're right about seeking out a distraction. I am currently studying but it feels weird to be this wrapped up in what she's thinking. Usually I am able to just live life and if a girl says no then it is whatever, haha.

I have no idea how squirting works and how girls do it. I always assumed it was piss. I cum alone and from sex often and it feels great, aside from some extra lubrication there's never a liquid squirting out.

It's a slippery slope my dude, once you start letting her rent space in your head shit gets awry so forget it and don't bother

Shawty could just be busy, so if she gives a shit she'll hit you back up, in the mean time just leave it and do your thing and if not, what ever. Don't waste the energy on someone who won't return it

My last fuck went the same way, constant messaging, then cycled back and forth from read receipts for days then round at hers for a fuck like it was an agenda, mental whiplash like that just fucks ya head up big time.

How do I turn a girl on

Why do I secretly hate women and see them as lower than animals

I don't really know either how it works, but if it's piss, whatever who cares, just take a shower later, it's not like shit.

Guys;
How would you like your girlfriend to approach you about an issue regarding your low sex drive? I don't want him to feel bad but I'm not sure he's aware there's an issue so I do need to let him know. I was thinking;
>Hey, I don't know if it's just me but it seems like your rarely instigate anything sexual any more and seem to respond unenthusiastically to pics / texts. Is something wrong or are you just settling into your preferred pace? There's no problem with either, I'm just trying to make sure we both get what we want here.
But it seems too whiny / manipulative tbqh.

Yeahhh, it is a bit fucked that she is living rent free in my head and we've not even fucked, haha. I think you're right about the not bothering... She just responded after a fair few hours and said she's busy this week but will hit me up if anything changes. Generally I take that to mean the girl isn't as interested as I had previously perceived.

That does sound like a mental whiplash, lad. I am really sorry to hear that. How did you overcome it?

Nah. That’s fine.

I say this as a guy who has had a similar conversation with his gf. In fact I think what you said here is way better than how she approached me, which was her basically being emotional and telling me she felt unloved or like I didn’t care anymore—which had nothing to do with the truth of the fact that I’m just dealing with depression because I kind of hate where I am in my life and the career path I’ve chosen.

I get your point, and I am sure that it is a problem that affect you a bit, but I guess that if you make the message more clear but less direct and emotional, I believe that the better. And don't put it like it's entierly his problem and that he is not understanging you or something.
Your message in fact is not like what I am describing, but In guess it could be a bit more different

Maybe something like: "Hey, latley I am getting a bit more aroused that what you are, wouldn't you like to step it up a bit more?"

It looks like it's a bit informal, which makes it more sincere and honest, and does not put him in a position where he might feel sorry of even ashaem for not taking care of your needs.

in the best of the cases, maybe he would respond "Sorry babe, It's just that I am studing a bit harder/ Lately I just don't have the impulse but we could try more / I did not think of that way" and in the worse he would just tell you what is worng.

The tl;dr is that the less you make him sorry for, and the more clear and sincere you put it, the more receptive he would be to have a fun time (I would not want to play videogames with a friend who accuses me of something, but I would if he just makes a comment and we end up laughting or whatever).

Ah that's grim buddy, I feel the depression thing tbf. I think this guy just has a naturally low drive tho, we've just come out of the honeymoon stage really so. It's not too whiny / wheedley / self martyring? Would you rephrase anything?

>don't put it like it's entierly his problem and that he is not understanging you or something.
This is what I'm worried about. Its why I thought to add "settling in to your real pace". I tried to phrase it as a both of us thing but I couldn't phrase that without the guilt trip.
>wouldn't you like to step it up a bit more?"
Like the idea but hate the phrasing. Asking him to step up his game is saying his game isn't good enough imho. I don't want him to feel like I'm finding him lacking. I'm definitely trying to find a good middle ground between sincere and honest and not guilting / frustrating him.

yeah, it's a bit difficult.

But if everything's fine in hi9s side and it's juust that he for some or other reason didn't had the impulse, whatever you say, he should not feel that much bad. So who knows, maybe we are overthinking.

But whatever thinking is free, what if you make a more direct stand, and you "incite him" to the impulse? Maybe a massage, cuddling or another physical contact. After he is "cooked", you might tell him what we said, but given he is a bit more receptive, he should find a easy solution, if you know what I mean.

The thing is that make it a bit more carefree, but without being honest at some point or another (tellign him how you felt helps being more honest and make him understand you better, like always).

Oh and don't force yourself too muchb either, if you feel that you would not do that, it's no use being that direct.

Good luck femanon, hope it goes fine.

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Huh good point, he's a fairly self secure guy afaik so maybe we are overthinking.
I really really like the idea of saying something after we've gotten laid instead of texting, that's so much less pressure and he's more likely to answer honestly in that cus he just got his rocks off.
Thank you for your great input, hopefully it should be but it has to be fine even if it's not so ah well

gald to help, now tits or gtfo.

jk really glad to help.

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@girls

Based on physical appearance alone, how much would you rate pic related out of 10?
What would you say the minimum amount/10 required to do the shit he does without coming off as creepy?

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How do I seduce a girl?

pls explain further unless you want a "Seduce her".

girls

do women typically handle breakups well?
i had a ldr with a great girl but i've seen that it just won't work since she's way older and my career won't let me visit her in at least 5 years so i decided to split up
I wrote her a long message and explained that it's my fault and that she'll find someone better but she didn't reply for a few hours now and i'm worried
she's very attractive and gets guys easily so maybe she just asked someone out?
I just hope she won't do anything stupid because of me

How would you react to something like this?

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and before i decided to quit we had a huge argument, all we did for the past few weeks was arguing
so i decided it would cause the least pain for both of us to just go our separate ways

>she's very attractive and gets guys easily
She's probably off to find a guy already. I'm not joking or trying to be shitty, that's just what is likely happening.

>i told a girl that she should fidn another
>but but I am worried that she asked someone out

Men, get your shit together.
Also if this is true then yeh the best is to break up.

girls if a hot virgin wanted to sleep with you but you had a bf what would you do

How do I make a girl want to have sex? What turns them on?

You don't get it
I'm not sad that she'd find someone else, i'd be happy even because she would recover out of our relationship quicker
I really liked her but we just met too early and it had no chance of success, i had fun, she had fun but it's enough

Anyway it was the first relationship i was actually involved in, i've never had more than an ons before so maybe i'm panicking

girls if you were 48 and married and you found a really hot young guy (around 25-30) and you felt like you had a chance of sleeping with him would you do

Pretty much, a lotta girls just froth for the validation so don't succumb to being the benchwarmer in that situation. That's such a cop out response, it's pretty fucked unfortunately (our generation), cut her off tbt g.

Also my opinion, if you wanna hit up a beezy just say something chill like wanna catch up and smash a pint sometime, or go such and such gig? etc etc rather than anything too flirty or personal

A techno gig with the boys and a few pingers

if really fking depents a lot, its preferencwes of the person, some people stress out a lot, others likes gente, others dominate, others being dominated, and also you have to take into acocount what sense excites them the most, if touch, or hearing, or visual, etc...

We can not answer this question, you just have to be yourself and if she is compatible with your preferences, there you go.

well then everything's settled. It's a shame you are no longer with her but, sorry, I do not get what is the advice you want us to give you.

>just be yourself

It sounds like a meme but it's true. I've had relationships where in retrospect I was walking on egg shells or constantly changing how I acted to please her. I'm more myself with my current girlfriend than I've ever been with another human being and it works: she's actually turned on by how I am and there's nothing special about me

exactly. People here really thinks that women and men should be archetypical, but realy, while some girls finds you a disgusting/boring faggot, others a perfect match.

I'm not asking what I need to do to make a girl like me, I'm asking how to take the next step

i just wanted to know how other women would react to such a breakup, she's kinda a difficult girl and i'm just in shock i guess
so i should stop worrying over her doing something to herself? girls seem to do shit like that a lot
she lives in a dorm with friends so i guess they'll help her, right?

Aim to be yourself and if she's hot for you as yourself then you're in.