How do I stop my obsession and hooking up with traps Jow Forums?
It started ever since I was young when I used to crossdress using my sister and mom's clothes. At college and and in my 20's I dated girls but in my privacy I fapped to shemale porn and even hooked up with 3 tranners. Now I'm half a year away from my previous relationship and I have been as sexually active with traps and dating them ever since. It is deeply satisfying to fuck a trap but part of me feel it's disgusting and it's gay as fuck.
But I can't resist the urge to make love to a qt trans/femboy/trap. I even enjoy helping them transition and wearing girly dresses. Imagining this thing is by nature a boy and she is spreading her ass panting and moaning for my every hard thrust. Enjoying every minute of it. Calling my name and begging for more until she cums out of her boyclit. Expelling every ounce of boyhood she used to have. Me turning her into a cute princess hungry for my cock. Nothing feels as empowering as my seed fills her tight boipussy.
tl/dr I have a fetish with trans. How can I stop please help.
Please stop stating the obvious. I'm hurting enough as it is. Anyhow any advice is appreciated. I tried doing No Fap but it only made me more aggressive to seek out these traps. Every time I regret fucking one I delete my online account and I'll be back after a week.
Also no one knows this little secret of mine. I'm afraid that one day one of the tranners I fucked will come back and spill out what I have been doing. I was never a bottom though.
Well I consider them as female does that count? I also wished they were all females.
>aggressive to seek out these traps Trap hunter, hahaha.
OP I know that feel. But what really helped me is going for boyish / tomboy girls. I know it will be hard at first but trust me it is for the better. It is hard because boyish / tomboy girls are mostly bi girls but deep inside they want a manly aggressive man to fuck them. You seem to be the manly type especially since you overpower these trannies. Why not use all that power over these tomboys.
The eewwwness and irky factor is thrown out since they are in fact biologically female and are not gay. They look like androgynous and look like traps in a way.
By the way to all those saying you're a fag. Don't mind them. There's nothing as manly as fucking the boy out of a male that is biologically created to lead a family.
Yes they call me tranny chaser but in the end most end up sleeping with me. I don't like their penis though. Just the idea of being with a girl that used to be a boy it's a huge turn on and I don't know why.
I mentioned it here: >Just the idea of being with a girl that used to be a boy it's a huge turn on and I don't know why
For the record I'm considering therapist help. But I don't like spending that amount for that shit.
why do you care?
Give me 1(one) reason there is anything wrong with what you stated in your posts. >I'm hurting enough as it is. there is no need for that, just accept yourself as you are.
>why do you care?
I care because I care for myself. I have never told anyone about this. My best friend will never accept this same as my parents. What if I end up marrying a transgender? I won't give them grandkids and such. I'm not a popular guy but I own a business and if my employees found out I'm this freak look at the shit I will get not to mention with my company's stakeholders.
Just the reaction I get from this post is enough for me to stop whatever I am doing.
Do you not get turned on by girls that were always girls?
Shit brother, that’s some fucked up kink you have, the most logical thing to do is find tomboys as the other user said I guess, or gym crazed girls I suppose
I do get turned on by girls. I love girls. I would love the traps I've been to be girls but shit man I just get turned on by traps. Also is it wrong to me to assume that these tranners are more girlfriend material than cis girls? They are just so feminine. Like the last tranny I fucked she just started HRT but overall pass on my opinion. However her craving for my cock just turns me on so much. She texts me ramdomly throughout the day with sweet and kinky messages that instantly gives me a boner.
I am willing to try tomboys but in reality tomboys are on the masculine / androgynous side. I don't want those beefed up woman like in your pic. I would prefer feminine and submissive ones.I have never seen a feminine and submissive tomboy.
>I do get turned on by girls. I love girls. This is how much you wrote about actual girls
>I would love the traps I've been to be girls but shit man I just get turned on by traps. Also is it wrong to me to assume that these tranners are more girlfriend material than cis girls? They are just so feminine. Like the last tranny I fucked she just started HRT but overall pass on my opinion. However her craving for my cock just turns me on so much. She texts me ramdomly throughout the day with sweet and kinky messages that instantly gives me a boner. This is how much you wrote about men dressed up as girls.
You prefer men. No amount of therapy is going to make you straight.
That’s gay as fuck my nigga. I mean where would you even find cute passable dickgirls down to get a no strings attached deep dicking? Like hypothetically
Be realistic, you aren't pursuing transgender women because you're looking at them as being women. You're interested in them because they have dicks. What you're doing is looking for is feminine guys so that you can have homosexual sex with them.
Therapy can be useful for learning to accept that you're gay or bisexual, but as points out, therapy cannot make you straight. Conversion therapy is bullshit. You can change how you act, but it's not going to change your sexual orientation.
If you're living in an area where you're able to find a lot of openly transgender women, you're probably living in a fairly large community that is socially liberal enough that being perceived as gay won't completely destroy your social standing and ability to generate income.
Therapy may also help you work through whether your uncontrollable impulses to seek out numerous feminine men for sex is sex addiction or a response to your inability to repress your sexual orientation.
Dude, just be gay. Nobody cares anymore and you have already comprimised your bloodline.
I think I know this trap. He has come a long way. Good for ((Her))
> I mean where would you even find cute passable dickgirls down to get a no strings attached deep dicking? Like hypothetically
The no strings attached is probably a draw as well. Most if not all the tranners I've been with are on discord. I usually go for low esteem ones and they usually are the best. I don't go for the SJW gay parade fake confidence trash tranny tier.
>gay >tranny fetish
Pick one faggot. I'm gay and I won't ever do it either top nor bottom with a tranny. They are disgusting.
OP has a fetish. Tranny fetish. Look that one up.
why stop? If it isnt hurting any one and you aren doing it for attention then go for it.
well it's what they're good for
sex and trying to be overtly feminine and sexually needy
it is weird and you won't get any children or a long-term relationship out of it because they gonna hit the wall hard but if you feel bad about it, remind yourself about the romans fucking guys in the butt and how it wasn't considered bad then if you were the top
>because they gonna hit the wall hard but if you feel bad about it
They usually kill themselves around >35 so it's all good.
Gays are the scum of this earth.
well I can't refute that
besides from OP's posting it seems like he never stays long anyway just keeps on trading in for new ones
damn why would you even be a trap, to be serious for a moment your life is pretty much reduced to being an outlet for deviant sexual fetishes because unless you keep your mental issues on the down low or find someone who can deal with it, and have good things about you other than a boipussy that cant even get pregnant who would stay with you
kinda sad desu because that boipussy only stays fresh until at most 30, while wamen can stay ok fresh until 35, even a little bit more
Fucking traps/trans/CD/shemale is the worst. Not only you're fucking a guy, you're also dealing with a female mentality.
>why would you even be a trap Yeah I don't understand the ones that cry over 'gay death at 20'.
Personally I would much rather settle down with a nice twink that just likes to crossdress.
Most guys can still look quite handsome if they've taken care of themselves.
Genetics can still fuck them over though. I mean, if you have the jaw of the Arnold Schwarzenegger you're pretty fucked if you're wanting to pull off cute.
Honestly I don't think it's a bad thing, but if you really want to stop I would stop masturbating at all, and refrain hitting on them. Resist your urges. Use the Pavlovian technique if it helps.
.... On another note, how do I find qt traps/FtMs to kik with?
You care more about the stigma of being with a trans girl than being with a girl that has a dick. So try to accept yourself as you are, and fuck everyone else opinion. Be a Chad, be confident in your love.
>Imagining this thing is by nature a boy and she is spreading her ass panting and moaning for my every hard thrust. Enjoying every minute of it. Calling my name and begging for more until she cums out of her boyclit. a-user please
I sorta kinda wanna really badly be a trap, and I am but I'm not willing to turn into a flaming fag which I know being anally broken will do to me. I look way more fem than most "traps" including op pic. But yea I wasn't gay at all before this fetish so I'm treading carefully. What I'm going for is to act straight in daily life but be a mindbroke sissy in the bedroom. But I don't know if that's possible lol.
>But yea I wasn't gay at all before this fetish so I'm treading carefully.
Good idea. I was the same way, then suddenly lost interest in having sex with men around my mid 20s, now I'm so glad I never went all the way. Porn is leading a lot of men into faggotry. And while I agree that some part of it has to be latent, that doesn't mean acting on it is a good idea, since all decisions that we make good or bad can be traced back to our latent inclinations.
there is no cure. you have to learn to hide your secrets and keep them too yourselves.
Stupid faggot, why would you change for attention?
>men peak at any age You probably peaked when you were 13
You're right, I shouldn't be changing for attention ever and I'm no gonna be a slut by any means. But I would like to be a slut to one guy, a good sane gay or bisexual guy. They are so rare though, that's it likely impossible for me to really do this. But if you looked like Bill Kaulitz, wouldn't you also have the desire? I don't look like him but I look just as good and nearly as fem. I'm not bragging, it's just part of the equation and most guys don't get to have this variable.
Yeah it would be fun but ultimately regrettable. My plan is just to express it subtly, and be one of the good gays like Dave Rubin, if I even need to express it at all. At the same time, I feel like I will regret not allowing myself this and overall I'm just walking that very fine line. I highly doubt I'll ever be a faggot because I just generally don't like it.
Another reason I'm attracted to being a sissy is that I could turn my brain completely off. I'm thinking constantly and being feminine armcandy to someone sounds like such a relief.