Question for femanons...

Question for femanons, if you were to do it with a 27 year old guy who is a bit awkward and he told you he was a virgin would you at least tell him you're sorry it didn't work out or would you directly ghost him?

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keep that shit hidden bro, I'm sorry it has to be like this
ESPECIALLY keep it hidden if you've never been in a relationship
I ruined a potential squeeze by telling her that
people can be judgmental and you have to get over it

Not a femanon, but as someone who was a virgin til 25:

Context and tone matter.

If you come off as a desperate and self-pitying sad sack while saying it, you’re going to get a less than favorable response. In fact if anyone says ANYTHING in such a manner, you’re always going to be negative biased.

On the flip side, if you’re genuinely nonchalant and relaxed about, people are significantly more inclined to follow suit and treat it as no big thing.

True story: First girl I slept with, I told her as a kind of “yeah I’m clean” heads up, she thought I was joking because of how calm and no fucks given I was about it.

Well, I'm a bit of a predator in the sense that virgins are tasty and groomable. I can teach you how to rock someone's world, little lamb. Step into the wolf's den.

stop trying to convince the people here that anyone finds lack of experience desirable
it's off putting to 90% of women

It's a shame because I'd like to find a girl who took it as a way to teach me. It would also be hit to find a girl so comfortable with her sexuality she doesn't mind telling you what she likes and dislikes and doesn't make you have to guess.

stop assuming everyone here thinks the way you do. that's called 'projecting'.

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It's not your virginity but your massive insecurity that turns off girls.

Thanks for the gratuitous insult but if I'm asking this it's because I'm seeing a girl and there is a chance we end up having sex and I don't know what to do.

I am a 31 year old virgin in my first relationship. My girlfriend knows and is fine with it. Maybe find a better woman.

You literally started your thread looking for excuses and saying you will not have sex. That is massive insecurity. You can actually have sex but you need to stop being so insecure.

>virgin
>in a relationship
Umm, I hope this means you have only dated for a week?

Did you get ghosted or what? Is this just a hypothetical?

2 months actually. We both believe that a relationship should be built on a solid foundation of love and not sex.

based and wholesome

Am a femanon that started dating a 30-year old virgin earlier this year. It does not bother me.

That's not a very good foundation for a relationship. It sounds like you two are not really serious about it.

stop being a bucket crab

Arent you worried of what got him in that situation to begin with?

What else are you not doing that normal couples are? Not kissing, not holding hands, not having dinner together, not going on dates?

i'm 28 and still a virgin but that's because i'm heavily deformed haha :(

>heavily deformed
Sure you are. I bet that ingrown nail on your little toe scares away all girls.

This so fucking much op. Youd be amazed at the shit you can get away with if you are confident.

For reference, there was journo a while back that got caught fapping to a bunch of weird hentai. He made the excuse he was only looking it up to prove to his wife and kids that tentacle porn is real.

Hes a lughing stock to this day. Not cause he jacks it to hentai, thats not even weird by internet standards. Its how fucking spergy he was with excuse and how insecure about it he was. Hell, I jack it to weirder hentai daily and I still laugh at the retard.

My fiance was a virgin at 25 and we lost it together. I liked it because I was also a virgin and thought being eachother's first everything was really cute BUT I'd second keeping it hidden if you're 27 and she hasn't really shown signs of valuing that sort of thing. Not entirely because she could be grossed out but because even if you do tell her and she doesn't have negative feelings about it, she probably wont care much desu.
Don't feel like you're lying, feel like it just isnt a big enough deal to mention. If you guys make it to semi-long term, like a year or so, you can mention it then but don't mention it in a guilty confessional "Btw I lied to you," sort of way. Say it like it never really came up while reminiscing or something.

Some virgins are only still virgins because they’re slightly awkward and maybe a bit offensive due to their lack of social graces.

Neither of those things are bad, and you’ll find a v-card hunter one day.

Sigh.

why do you sigh?

i have serious liver failure so my abdomen is all ugly, i go from like 7 to a 3 once I take my shirt off

Why would I necessarily do either? If I fucked him and he was just "a bit awkward" that's fine. I mean clearly I liked him enough to fuck him, and his being a bit awkward about revealing the fact that he was a virgin is not anywhere near a deal breaker.

Now if he was super off putting afterwards, then yeah, but it would have nothing to do with my knowledge that he's not had sex before.

I wanna take a QT’s v card but he’s hung up on someone so it’s bad...

There are other mitigating factors as well but he lurks here and I can’t sell myself out

how do i find a qt girl that wants to take my vcard? i'm shy but nice, i had a girlfriend once but i was too shy to have sex with her

Stop treating people around you like stereotypes and give them a chance as individual people. Stop asking what women want and start asking what (insert name) wants. This is a VERY basic act of respect for other people, and your lacking it is why you're a virgin.

Eh... dosent matter as long as he isnt fucking weird about it. Like you are.