I am a part-time working mother with a toddler...

Become a prostitue

The grass always seems greener but it's probably not.

"Lacks empathy doesnt understand "

Here is comes bitch.... When you can operationally define empathy and understanding you will realize youve had both of those the whole time.

Stupid bitches wishing their man was acting like a woman....

You are an infertile tranny.

there is no YOU anymore. You are the mother of a family.
NOW bitch. TITS OR GTFO.

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Eat your own children

he accidentally ran his r*ddit script

>Wah wah my life is too good. I need to invent something to cause trouble because I am bored and I don't care about all the effort other people put in to keeping me pampered and safe.
Women in a nutshell

Tits or gtfo.
What happens if she doesn't pol

Find a hobby and develop a personality that exists beyond the girl who went to clubs and hung out with friends, since that stage of your life is over and will never come back no matter what you do. Recognize that banging other dudes will not resolve the predicament you are in and that your partner is probably not equipped to deal with your problem, the same way you probably don't know how to fix a broken lawnmower.

Wait why am I responding to a bait/user damn what am I doing with my life?

postpartum

Join a church

you shouldn't have fucked niggers

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Thank you for the responses, i know this is really not the best place to ask, but most of the "mummy boards" i find elsewhere just sympathize and don't seem to offer actual help.
Yeah i definitely feel like i am on the cusp of becoming stagnant. I definitely feel i am a bit like your part-time working co-worker. My partner works overtime every week, and he is also in a band/jam groups so he's usually out twice a week. I feel guilt when i want to go out with my friends or when i want some "me time" because i already get so much down time by being at home all day. but its not the type of free time i crave. I want to party with mates but i constantly feel like all i am doing is getting older and need to grow up and move away from that lifestyle. but thats not me. All the while my man has been working hard all week and deserves to go out and have fun.
I have struggled with depression on and off since my teen years and have been medicated previously. I definitely feel like i am slowly falling back into it because i am no longer doing the activities that make me happy even though i have free time.

So you have become a mother, congrats.
What were you expecting? Grow some ovaries and embrace your new you. Learn something new, re-invent your self, you don't need others to succeed. Stop complaining and start doing something about it.
>t. dad of 2, 40+, married for 20+ years

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if you are a single mother you should kill your child then yourself

what the fuck are you even saying with this gobbledygook paragraph? stop being so ambiguous it's dramatic and gay.

the first few years are the hardest. But you get stronger and you need to learn to enjoy the good in life.

Tell your partner to man up and provide for all of you and stop working (let's be hones, working sucks any way).

Or better, get a better mate who can provide.

This. Third post best post

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>dead eyes. check.
>thousand yard stare. check
good luck with that.

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Your only purpose in life is to reproduce and as a female, raise a family. Pretty jarring when you think about it. Your individualistic ideologies are pointless in the grand scheme. Get off /pol and get back to raising your child.

>I am a part-time working mother with a toddler.
Tits or GTFO.

this is not your personal blog

inb4 thirsty nupol bumps to 300+

you are a shit cunt
not angerly
but truthfully

Go to church

stop being selfish

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>2 posts by this ID
>still no milkers with timestamp
Unironically kys. We are a board of rules.
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you need a better hobby - partying with your "friends" is highschool tier bullshit.
your partner needs to be your husband and stop being a degenerate fuckin band rocker faggot 100% - shits childish and tacky.
you undervalue your "free time at home" when you are the mfer doing all the taking care of a child and (i assume) keeping up the household.
your "partner" that should be your fuckin husband and fully committed to you should see and respect that shit.
your priorities are all fucked up.

I feel you anonette. I am a stay at home mom of a 3 year old. My husband is generally amazing. But none of my friends have kids, I lived hours away from family and when my daughter was one and a half I got a job. I loved it more than I thought I should. I loved that I contributed monetarily in my relationship again. It allowed me to socialize as myself and not as a mommy with a kid. I made friends and paid for 2 upgrades to our house. It felt good.

But my husband... he said it was too hard on him. At such a young age with our daughter, I could only work when he wasn't and he would come home to take care of our daughter on his own for the rest of the night. It was exhausting for him. He liked the money. He liked that I was happy. But we never had a day off together.

I quit my job because he asked me too. We both agreed I could work when shes in school and we would survive until then. I know the feeling though, of feeling reduced to maid and a caregiver without socializing with friends or feeling like you have any agency. You have to figure out what's best for you and your family and go from there.

I got a gym membership that offered daycare to give myself a break until she goes to school.

>partner
Not your husband. You are a whore and a parasite.

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Stop bumping this retarded non-politics larp. Learn to sage

BOO HOO LIFE ISN'T 24/7 DOPAMINE RELEASING UTOPIA WHO FUCKING KNEW WHEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE

>#8

Matthew 7:13-14
Enter through the narrow gate. For wide is the gate and broad is the road that leads to destruction, and many enter through it. 14 But small is the gate and narrow the road that leads to life, and only a few find it.

>being a loving mother to my own children is boring and I don't like it
>I wanna party with my shitty friends
thanks for reminding me why I avoid you whores like the plague (13 years celibate)
in case you didn't catch it outside of your narcissistic world a fucking 850 year old church caught fire today

go fuck yourself and actually be a good parent to your child.. jesus fucking christ.

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Why the fuk are you working if your baby is your life?

Fuk women are stupid.

One more time in french, please.

also

>female
>"MY PARTNER is a good man"
just get the fuck out.. no I don't want to see your tits.

SHOW OPEN BOB AND VAGENE, or GET OUT THE FUCK

You have no life or can even talk to your partner until the kids are in school. Get a jogger stroller so you can at least walk with ease and transport all the shit and have sex and talk in the morning.

stop pretending this shit doesnt have legit everything to do with politics.
family values has been systematically stripped from our minds.
I think its still absolutely possible but its hand me down bullshit values and bum education both thanks to big brother that is at the root of this shit.
men arent fucking men anymore.
dude works overtime constantly and still his woman has a job? Im sure they will put their kid into the same public school system that fucked them too despite the fact that rock boy could support the entire family and homeschool is an option.
this shits absolutely political tho. dont try to jew this thread.

>itt: edgy teenagers to younger 20s kids talking like they have ANY idea what parenthood is like
Kys edgy faggots, as if your virginity makes you an expert on the subject of kids.

Nice LARP

Pray to God for strength. Degeneracy will only be the catalyst of your demise and your child’s

Underrated and roastiepilled

>parenting is so hard reeeeeeeee
>throws ipad at kid and lets the pedophiles on youtube raise your children for you
top lmao

So from reading your initial post it does seem like you have broached the topic with your husband but he "lacked empathy" and "didn't understand". Can you expand on what you discussed with him and how it went? Because ultimately if you're going to find a solution it's going to be in cooperation with your partner.

Being lonely is normal

THIS ----

>all women who are mother fuck niggers
>all mothers give their kids iPods
Nice strawman faggot

Did you have your child with someone you don't have anything in common with?

I'm in my mid 30s and most of the women my age that had kids early on, had kids entirely with a provider and not a friend with common interests. Their kids are their only friend, because kids and the partner removed all friends and hobbies.

What exactly is your partner to you? Is he just structure? Why are you lonely if you're with your chosen one? I'll never, ever understand the criteria women choose a partner with. They never choose a friend or hobby partner. They just choose some "battery" power figure that isn't a friend, then feel lonely.

When people talk like this, it makes me think they never scratched the social itch and got what they want. That they settled out of ease, and are now suffering for it. No answer for you because I've never had a relationship.

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>getting this triggered
you just proved me right

man it's a weird thought that there are moms that browse Jow Forums

You need a hobby that involves other people besides your family , doesn't involve drinking or drugs, and its something you can do at least once a week. ie. yoga / religion / bingo night / Pilates / Medication / book club.... whatever the fuck , just try some things. My ex was a stay at home, no kids, just harassed me all the time . She refused to work, or do things around the house, but i encouraged her endlessly to start a hobby (i had 3 i kept nicely pushing her towards) . She finally got into something and stopped harassing me for years. It made her happy and something just for her to look forward too

what else do you expect them to do? take care of and pay attention to their kids? that's what ipads are for. just keep them in a state of maximum hypnosis until they go to adult daycare (college) and are out of your hair. if they come back home after college they'll spend all their time streaming/attentionwhoring on youtube.

Totally are. I have met more than a few. Especially in abortion threads. They are usually the ones educating posters on what tests are available when, whether insurance will cover it, etc. Anyone who hasn't had kids is usually ignorant on the subject.

>that ad hominem after that strawman
Kys faggot shill

>Kys faggot shill
you seem upset

I HAVE ADVICE FOR YOU OP. GO JUMP INTO THE FIRE OF NOTER DAM

Yep

Teenage boys do this as well but usually people write it off. Sometimes even men do this.

Roastie this is what you dont get. Everybody feels like this. Instagram is fake manufactured moments. Are women all like you wow. Everyone feels like this regardless of success. You just want an excuse to bail on responsability.

You unironically need Jesus.

Hell you could go farther than it being a hobby and take something you enjoy and turn it into a business. My mom runs a business with her friend remodeling homes.

Tits or GTFO.

You have a degenerate and unproductive lifestyle, and you only had fun doing degenerate and unproductive things. No wonder you are unhappy. Being a mother means creating and loving those around you, and is an amazing and productive thing that will bring you fulfillment if you assert yourself. Focus on how you can be productive, and your sense of achievement will bring your happiness. Also, if you don't post tits everyone will assume you are a dude. You don't need to show nip, just tits and a timestamp.

You need to make sure you are not facing any dead ends. This is in regards to your "partner" and your "job." I would assume these are how you are justifying living where you are, away from family. Be honest with yourself about the long-term prospect of either of these. Your boyfriend's band is probably never going to take off is it? Your "part time job" will never lead to a lucrative career will it? Raising a child will only get harder. Your focus needs to be on long-term stability. Being closer to family will help provide that for you and your child. Hit the reset button. Even if that means moving back to that boring town.

>You don't need to show nip, just tits and a timestamp.

Hey you don't have authority over the ni-. Uhhh.

>lose the last of myself
Does that mean your partying whore part of you is gone? Why is this a bad thing?

anyone consider that this is a shill discouraging women from having kids?

This is so damn flawed I don't know where to start tearing the shit apart.
If you are in a relationship where your interest go 2 different directions its because you are both uncultured selfish ass children and have not a single bone of honest commitment in your degenerate fuckin bodies.
"scratched a social itch"
absolute garbage.
that social itch your talking about is probably fuckin crabs.

funny thing how shills shaming tactics about edgy teens and incels is just mostly projection and completely ineffective/ridiculous when you really are a middle aged man sharing shitposting with your wife - mother of 3.

>women read Jow Forums

What would the real version of yourself look like? Serious question

the ones that do don't bother announcing it

If women are on Jow Forums they're already confident in who they are. While not all of them will choose to become loving wives and homemakers the ones who will choose to do so have already chosen to do so.

Being confident in who you are and what you want to be is something shills will never understand so I won't explain it in case I accidentally improve their lives.

>my partner
Stop using soft, weak lgbt language. It was designed to sanitize and replace spouse or boyfriend or husband in your case. Say the right word.

>My partner is a good man
>Partner
>Husband
are you a good wife?
are you a good mother?
are you a role model to your children?

Take some MDMA with your man. I'm serious. This helped my relationship so much. It used to be given as treatment during couples therapy for a reason.

>love my child more than life itself, but having him has made me lose the last of myself.

Reality: This is the start of your life, what you had before is not life.

>but he lacks empathy and doesn't understand.
Your partner understands the above. He sees what has happened and that it is continuation and addition to what you had before where as you see it as impinging on what you think you had. You are wrong. My wife feels the same way - your husband needs to tell you to shut the fuck up. And lead better.

> fake version of myself
Real version.

Pol is about 30% women. Clown world degeneracy is much less tolerable when you are tasked with raising a family. Just like you, we're here forever.

If i was in your position i would do these two simple things.
firstly: Go back on medication (bear with me here)
secondly: Utilize this elevated emotional state from being medicated to make the change that you are looking for.
If you do not know what change you have to make, utilize this elevated emotional state from being medicated to find out what that change might be.

Concluding effect: You do not need to stay on the medication forever. Just go on it until you do some sorting of your life out.

Profit!

Thoughts?

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>My partner
not
>My husband
There's where you fucked up, also sage, because this is clearly bait.

wow. you are right

I'm honestly conflicted. should women be based and redpilled and browse Jow Forums (and probably suffer from bitterness and depression as a result). Or should they be sweet and innocent and apolitical. Just thinking back to that ashton birdie thread (and many other threads with femanons) many of them seemed to have mental issues. Not sure if it's just mentally ill femanons that make it to this corner of the interwebs or if woman just aren't equipped to deal with this sort of shit.

You fucking self obsessed brat. That kid is more adult than you. Fuck off

redpilled enough to make good choices but sweet enough to be feminine is a fine line /po/ women walk

Are we really going to pass 4/pol/ to our children?

ITT dumb bitches get advice from dumb motherfuckers.