GUIDELINES:

What kind of exposure therapy is that?
Like, what kind of things did you practice with?
How do you even find opportunities to practice?

Depends a little on location.
As a guy you can be average but you have to have interesting, captivating bio that gives women something that captures their attention and motivates them to initiate. Then also be smooth and have good social skills.

As a woman just don't be ugly, show some skin and flirt.

This just for hookups tho
If you want a serious relationship tinder is generally not the way to go

Do men exaggerate how much getting hit in the balls hurts?

definitely no.
t. got kicked into balls

What about erections? Is it true you can't control them or is that bullshit? They just happen automatically and you cant stop it?

Chub (half-erection) is more common than full blown one if you're not touching yourself. For the most part you cant really control them and if you concentrate on something else it goes away.

gf doesn't like french kissing. i kinda like it, she thinks its disgusting. we talked about it a few times and she insist on not doing it.
i dont want to manipulate her into doing it, but is there a way i can make her at least try it?

During puberty erections are entirely fucking random, like, almost no sexual stimulus needed.
After puberty an erection will happen when aroused by something. A thought, a touch, an image.
Can't be controlled directly, can be controlled indirectly by focusing on something else.
But sexual arousal can be really fucking powerful and persistent.

If hovering on the edge of french kissing (no tongue action but not really closed mouth, feeling each other's breath, or nibbling, or sucking their lower lip and what not) does not make her want to do it then no, not really.

Guys, specifically broader/bigger guys, do you dislike jetpacking (cuddles) with a significantly smaller partner? My ex who was fairly skinny hated it and said most dudes hate it, and that it feels ridiculous. I love the idea of it though, curled round the person I care about even if I can't do much.

We cant directly control an erection just like you can't directly control getting wet.

Stuck up, dump her.
Not worth the effort.

If she thinks French kissing is disgusting, you're not going to get any sex with her prolly.
Sex is nasty, that's exactly what's so arousing about it.
It's wrong in a great way.

The thing that's is great about sex is that you're doing all these dirty and taboo things with someone and why it's arousing is because you're doing it with someone you feel comfortable with.
Sex and all that surrounds it is a truly disgusting thing if it's with a person whom you don't feel comfortable with, that's what makes it so intimate.

Eh, it alright once in a while but i prefer being bigger spoon because i need more space.

I like when my gf does it and she's significantly smaller than me

I'm skinny and I love any kind of cuddling.

Not that user but I've known people who like all kinds of sex acts but not french kissing. It's not either you are fine with everything or with nothing, most people have sex acts they are more and less comfortable with even when they all involve fluids and what not. Think of guys who will eat their girl out half the night but don't want to kiss her after she swallowed. People are not logical in their preferences and can be fine with many things as bad or worse as the thing that grossed them out.

>i dont want to manipulate her into doing it
Why not, shes gonna manipulate you into not acting on what you like (french kissing)

That's really weird.

I can't say that I really understand it personally but it's definitely a thing.

How to know if guy only sees me as a friend?

Not enough info.
Have you been getting it on? Going on dates?
I'd say just start touching him and see how he responds, maybe go for a kiss at some point.
Alternatively, talk about your feelings with him.

Women are terrible flirts so just tell him how you feel about him. Get prepared for rejection since you tried to be friends first and then randomly one day decided to flip your personality and start flirting.

Do guys prefer slutty or classy outfits?

Depends too much on circumstance and on the guy.

If I'm horny I prefer slutty outfit. If I'm not horny I prefer classy outfit.

At least for me, normal/simple > classy > slutty > trashy. In pretty much all circumstances.

My favorite outfit on my ex was a plain black t-shirt with a long maroon skirt. There aren't too many girls who can actually pull off skirts like that, though.

I prefer princess outfits. Taylor Swift casual dresses

If you have to ask, then you're a slut and might as well wear a slutty outfit to warn prospective males that they shouldn't attempt to make you a longterm GF. Flag yourself as a slut so they know that's the way you should be treated, it will save you both time.

rude

Circumstances. But sexy is always welcomed

Women are annoying, but you need them to breed. Man, that sucks.

Whats the minimum accepted erect penis size?

>but you need them for sex
Fixed.
I don't feel any need to breed.

How to tell if my partner has lost interest in me?

Porn is better than detached sex, because porn is the pure form of detached sex.

I prefer we both wear nothing so we can get to know each other a lot faster

>but you need them to breed
fixed.
you cant breed yourself

As long as it fits, man.
For women it's more about chemistry and being read.
So, reading their body language, knowing what they like and don't like by gauging response.

The smallest I ever had was the exact same length as a toilet roll. Not sure how many inches that is but it was fine

Talk to them.
Less sex/intimacy could be a good indicator but could also mean a host of other things.

About 4 inches is the smallest. Anything smaller than that and you will have trouble.

If you were a 19 year old girl, and you spent two full days cuddling the 19 year old guy you were dating in bed, then had to go

When would you expect for him to message you?
What would you like him to say?

The entire time, we kissed, cuddled and watched romcoms, but I never got the chance to say anything like "I love you" and she refused to talk to me about what it all meant, so I don't know where I stand.

Girls or Guys,
I have the similar chin (just less turkey fat). Am i doomed when it comes to dating? I feel like it's the same as having huge mole and other people always notice it.

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It's pretty bad bro. Got a friend with a similar condition + receding hairline + terrible acne. But he still manages to chat up girls and flirt with them rather successfully. So work on your wittyness and similar attributes since you've been dealt a shit hand. It isn't the end of the world, it is important you realize that.

Not going to lie but that's pretty depressing especially knowing that i didnt really ask for this shit hand.

It is what it is man. Some are born short, others are born ugly, some are born in subsaharan slammers. Remember, it can always be worse. You can't magically turn it around overnight but you can make that bad hand work towards your advantage, rather than being gloomy and weeping over the fact that life is unfair. I'm positive you'll make do and come out ontop user. Stay strong bro.

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Girls, do you think Nerman the football player is guilty?

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Yeah, it's hard to believe that you can be attractive if you look like a guy on the right when typical handsome man looks like the one on the left. I do have some hope left. Thanks.

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How do I get over a girl who is my first love? We're really close friends, I loved her 3 years ago but I was stupid enough to let her go. For the past 4 months we've been getting closer and my feelings for her started to come back. I confessed, but she said she was not ready yet for a relationship. I still have feelings for her after sorta ghosting her this past few weeks and I don't know if I should just move on or keep being in touch with her hoping that we'll eventually end up being together.

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I'd like to know the women's point of view in this question.

It really depends on how secure your current dude is. Some guys really need to be the big spoon, some dont really care. Only way to be sure is to ask, and if they get pissy for a small question, fuck'em. Not literally tho.

For women: Why?

girls if you were friends with a guy and both of you were super attracted to each other and wanted to sleep together really badly but you had a bf so you had to break off your friendship what would you think if he kept texting you every few weeks just to tell you you're cute

When shes doing her morning/selfcare routine just tell her exactly what you want to do (and maybe hug her from behind and kiss her neck/head while saying it because i know id love that)

I wouldnt break up with bf just for a quick fuck (unless i already wanted to break up anyway) youre most likely orbiting her without realizing user, plus it might get weird/drama if her bf finds out youre calling her cute and shit on text. Just lay back, seem confident and fake a "i dont mind getting your pussy but i dont care about it if it doesnt happen" attitude, flirt when youre alone together but dont orbit her as thats seen as "trying too hard. If he wants to break up with bf then she will fuck you, if not then not

Wondering how common it is for girls to swallow? Seriously, I only had one girl that actually did and enjoyed that. Is she a rare catch or is my limited sample size throwing statistics off?

Girls, ladies, femanons, women, mortals made from Yin,
Are you allergic to silver? Like apparently they are plated in nickel or copper,
I got some jewelry custom made and it's made out of pure silver then I remembered that I gave her something made out of sterling copper or nickel plated silver and it gave her an allergic reaction.
Should I have it remade into white gold or is there something that can remove the allergens from it?

Most girls I've been with have swallowed.
Twas nice.

Sometimes it's better to not question and just enjoy what you had experienced.
If she can do romantic stuff but, not say romantic stuff he just wanted to do it and nothing more be glad he chose you.

I'm a 29 y/o in my first relationship. My gf has had previous relationships and is a bit younger than me. When am I expected to say I love you? Should I just wait for her and then respond?

>love
Clam yourself turbo. What made a 29yr old want to suddenly get his 1st girlfriend?

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yes

Ok lads, here is the problem.

I want to bond with someone.
This person is being distant.

I need a solution, oh you want me to be specific? need examples? W-Why do you need to give me specific solutions that work for specific cases?, I need general solutions.

If a girl says you're a "catch" she's probably isn't interested in you right?

well, it means she will not have sex with you for afraid of losing you, or what you have to offer, sabotaging your relationship, in this case, it would be better if you weren't a catch.

I wasn't really interested in dating until 25 and then the only girl I was interested in was in a relationship. I just had other shit I wanted to do with my time. I got a fwb in the interim but we only fucked once because I didn't enjoy it at all. Then the girl I was interested in left her relationship so I gave her some time to get over him and then asked her out.

Yes, wait for her to say it first?

Was it said in "you're real catch tiger" or "you would a catch for some girl" manner

yes

>Hi
>gets ignored
this on purpose, most of the times, isn't it?

Wait for her to say it.

Cool what time frame should I be expecting? We've been together for four months

the first date

I'm not that retarded

no why would you think we do? If anything we play it down.

it's too late user, sorry.

In the dating world your basically a NEET and shouldn't be thinking about love at all and don't even consider it until she says it.
Girls play all kinds of mind fuck games with guys. Ignore what she says. Note what she does
All the time. Move on, be worth texting back.

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It's hard not to think about love when you're pretty sure you're in it, but I understand your point. What time frame should I be expecting for her to say it? We've been together for four months

it's too late, user, let it go.

desu you need to wait until you go through some shit together before saying the love word. love is a bond created over time. at four months you still barely know each other. just be patient

>caring about what women say
>2019

Listen you little shit.
>your basically a NEET and shouldn't be thinking about love at all
You have strong oneitis and need to start thinking with your brain and not with your emotions before you mess up whatever good thing you have going on.
>been together for four months
thats nothing. Its considered a fling if anything.

How do you feel she feels around you?

Some of us like it

Always wait for a girl to day it. Usually she will say it 4 or 5 months in. That's considering she is gaining attraction for you though.

you shouldn't even expect shit, honestly, never do that.

Where do I find artsy girls with an intellect and a degenerate streak?

We've known each other for like seven years tho. I'm just curious on a vague idea of time frame so I know if it's going normally or not

I don't have strong oneitis at all, I'm fussy and she hits the mark. I've already said I'm waiting until she says it, calm down. I'm just curious about a time frame.

I don't have a clue. She clearly likes me well enough and wants to be around me all the time so I take those as good signs.

2/2 for me, even the one who absolutely hated it did without me even asking. Limited sample size for me though.

They kind of just happen when there’s some arousal or stimulation but it’s not an on or off switch. One time I got hard on a date at a them park from teasing her about not wanting to go on a ride and we were play arguing, it was a weird thing to get an erection from but I really liked this girl and seeing her get flustered and tease me back did the job.

everywhere

How do I stop wanting to cum in someone so I can be fully sexually satisfied by a good lap dance from a hot dancer?

Alternatively, how do I fuck strippers without being rich or a coke dealer?

Thanks, that answers a lot
>That's considering she is gaining attraction for you though.
What do you mean by this?

I'm not expecting expecting, but since I have no experience it'd be nice to get a rough idea so if it has been a year I know there's something wrong or whatever