My goal is to go on at least 1 date by the time I'm 25. I'm a college student studying law, currently on summer break. I've tried all the free dating apps such as tinder and okcupid but got zero matches and replies. Been clubbing numerous times but never met a girl there who was interested.
My hobbies include video games, music, hanging out with mates and acting. I even joined the drama club at uni to meet like-minded girls. I made some Male friends but no girls were interested.
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If you got literally zero matches your profile and pics must have been terrible.
Step 1: make friends with a woman the same way you would with a man.
Step 2: wanna go get a coffee?
Step 3: actually turn up for said coffee.
Congratulations you have now had a date.
Where can I meet girls who are interested in friendship? College girls don't give me the time of day
What are you not telling us? Why do girls avoid you?
No idea. I've heard many guys have the same issues as me but they have given up on girls. I'm determined to at least get one date.
These same guys also don't actually approach women, just sit around awkwardly hoping their potential waifu will suddenly walk up to them and proclaim their desire to marry and bear their children. I'm sure you can see the issue there
Nah I'm talking about guys who actually approach women. I've heard of one guy who approached 1000 women and was rejected by all of them. Some guys I guess just struggle innately. I'm not gonna give up though!
You need to stop believing incel memes. Stay off Jow Forums and incel sites, they are poison for your mind.
>I've heard of one guy who approached 1000 women and was rejected by all of them.
By chance are you referring to THIS particular individual?
>reddit
There's your problem right there.
That's misleading. Going out with friends, even if it's a girl, doesn't make it a date.
Well either way my experiences mirror that guys
Meaning you are known as the creepy autist by everyone in town?
Ahh nevermind I thought I could have gotten some useful advice from you
You don't want advice, you want validation for your self-pitying.
I must be blind or autistic like you said because I can't see anywhere where I've pitied myself. I just wanted advice for getting a date.
Dating apps if you want sex and being a social interesting human being with tons of friends if you want a long term relationship.
Friends introduce you to friends who introduce you to girls. People on dating apps are trying to find the perfect person that doesn't exist.
I mean I wouldn't mind casual sex from a dating app if it worked for me. Meeting girls isn't a problem desu, it's meeting a girl who's interested in me that is
You started out reasonable enough but a few posts in you revealed yourself to have the incel mentality.
Don't incels hate women? And they have like zero self esteem, always calling themselves ugly. They believe only 10/10 guys get laid, the other guys either die alone or get used for their money. It's a pretty stupid viewpoint in my opinion.
a summer job in an industry involving interaction with others can help you meet women who are more down to earth
I was in the same boat a year ago. I started chatting up girls in the uni and putting hand on their shoulder while doing so and once they began relaxing around me I asked a cute one out and got a date. Try being more social maybe?
lose weight, lift for a year and get a decent haircut. get that law job and go to concerts or places there are girls. look like you are actually having a good time and say hi. approach 199 and get 3 numbers lol i got rejected a lot when i was younger but some girls never get asked out and its easier when you meet those girls
