Femanon. My long distance boyfriend is coming to visit in a month and a half

>we
Speak for yourself, desperate sperglord.

tell that to paris seething retard

Süi home Alabama

Everybody has a first time and every time I do something for the first time I’m terrified but I noticed that it’s usually not that bad. Acting unconfident makes things worse.

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You stupid bitch.
>long distance
>virgin
He’s gonna pump and dump of course he’s okay with you being a virgin are you stupid ?

He probably has a gf where he is anyways. Sounds like a cheater to me

>probably want sex
Probably? lol he's coming just for that
Tell him that you wouldn't have sex with him now and let's see if he would still come

Quads speak the truth, so does the other user too.

not this shit again
god isn't real btw

if he is actually GOOD AT SEX instead of "good at sex" he will help, take his time and be able to work with you.

If he cant make sex work for the two of you, or you feel like it is your job to do more than just have fun and play with him you can be sure that he was insecure and claimed a bunch of experience he didnt have.

In this case, buy some lube, groom yourself and take your time. If I gave you a ball and said "play with this" you would be fine, even if you didnt have a lot of fun. Sex is the same. Its a physical game, easier than ice skating, harder than tag.

Explore his body, let him explore yours. Ask him what feels nice and tell him how you feel often.

Really queen? I can guarantee he's gonna pump and dump you 100%.
It's just a fly, it's not like he has to drag his balls for miles just to get to m'lady.
But you're already set on having sex with him, I don't see the point of this thread, I'll wait for the sequel thought
"Had sex with my long distance boyfriend and he broke up with me out of nowhere and now I'm sad waaaaaa"

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God is real, the universe can't create itself. I'd rather not browse Jow Forums.

It's my understanding that a female virgin is what most men dream about having once in their life. Hell, virgins in heaven are the reward for blowing yourself during war in some religions. A man who knows that you're a virgin going in knows that you don't know the first thing about what you're doing and that he should be patient and gentle. Sex is fun and it can be messy and funny and there's all kinds of things to learn that you'll decide if you like or don't like. What's important is that you communicate during it. Let him know what is and is not working for you. Let him know if you want more or less of something. By communicating during sex, you both are given ques to help each other enjoy it as much as possible. There's also the question of what to do if you need to hit the brakes, or if something stupid happens and someone gets too rough, you need a safety word. A word that can't be mistaken for anything else during play time other than "STOP". It can be any word you want, but as long as you two know the word, it helps to keep comfort levels in check.

You'll be fine. Just make sure that at the end of it, you are happy and feel pleasure. If he's as experienced as you say he is, he'll help you to bloom into the world of adult relationships in no time. Good luck, have fun, get birth control, wouldn't hurt to get some PlanB for the next morning just to be safe, use condoms because STDs are horrible and ALWAYS ALWAYS ALWAYS pee after sex. Fluids get pushed into your urethra during humping and you gotta pee that shit out or you risk getting a bladder infection and that's no fun. Always pee and clean yourself after sex! Men too!

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That wasn't me user.

I've considered this and he said it's fine and there's no rush. I still feel like there's some untold expectation to have sex though, even though he tells me there isn't.

This actually makes me understand more, thank you user.

just make sure you don't smell like trader joe's and you'll be fine

dilate larping tranny

Learn how to suck a dick, that’s really all you need to know. Women don’t tend to be tops, they take fucking not give fucking.

This user speaks wisdom. Also, for the love of god, shower. Shower, smell nice, and feel comfortable. This is not a monologue or a solo performance, this is a duet, a enjoyable one but you have to be a part of it. So relax, smell good, and if he wants to take the lead and you want to follow, or if you wanna try something, let him know. This is something between you two, and if he is flying this far away to bang you, you probably trust him enough to do as I say.

Talk through it. Have him check in with you "are you ok? What can I do different? Etc.

Speak up as soon as you do or don't like something. It gets awkward if you don't actually like xyz but your partner thought you did.

Don't act like a porn star. Be yourself. He's having sex with *you*, so be you.

This, also don't do it if you don't feel like it, don't turn it in some kind of obligation or favor. Sex should be the meeting of two parts, like a contract.

I was exactly the same as you last year. I thought about it before he came and decided that I didn't want to give my long distance boyfriend my virginity the first time we met. Obviously I didn't factor in physical attraction and I had to rethink everything after meeting him. We had sex and it wasn't great obviously (it's strange to have something inside you).
I learnt two things:
A. It's not a big deal. I stopped being anxious about his past partners. And you don't become a different person yourself lmao
B. If your boyfriend cares about you, then it's much easier.

>he'll probably want sex
It doesn't matter if he wants sex or not. It's going to be painful and stressful for you, which is likely worse than just having blue balls. Don't let him pressure you into it otherwise (if you're the anxious type) you could end up rethinking it weeks and weeks after the event.