My hubby said he wants to be girl. I should have seen it all along ever since we were still gf/bf. My older sister told me he is a bit to feminine but I just shrugged it off. I said we were meant to be because I am tomboyish and he is in touch with her feminine side.
I've told him I support his decision all they way even taking female hormones and what not. He did promise he will still love me and stick by me no matter what. However I've been crying alone at our house and even at my work because what if he decides one day he will leave me for another man? My worst nightmare is to have a broken marriage and I don't want that to happen. I would probably want to die first before they will take him away from me.
am I just a total FOOL? this is so hurting I don't know what to do anymore
sounds like u should get divorced, not even memeing
Levi Martinez
You got what you deserve for not thinking hard enough before marrying a subhuman.
Imagine all the awkwardness with your friends and family seeing you are married to a freak. Your father and mother totally disappointed in you but won't say a single thing.
Henry Brown
Yes I've read about that but still I'm getting anxious I mean what if the hormones make him attracted to men?
Brandon Allen
Divorce is the last thing I want. I still love him more than anything else.
Ryan Edwards
They will, I had a friend that became a tranny and before he killed himself all he could think about was getting rammed in the ass and sucking cock. I'm sorry but that's how it is, you sound like a good girl, get yourself a real man while you're still young.
Owen Thomas
if he starts it, leave, there's nothing left that's worth staying for
Jordan Wilson
I hope you don’t feel guilty if in the future you decide to leave them.
It’s fine to want a husband if that’s who you married.
Julian Walker
Sadly most people who change gender in a marriage/relationship end up breaking up. It’s a huge change and a whole new life. Most people want to start over fresh, including leaving supporting wife behind. Sorry.
Levi Walker
Abandon ship, there's no saving this situation sort of convincing him to not become a faggot. I'm sorry this is happening to you.
Brandon Taylor
Some folks same I look young but I'm already 31. I can't get pregnant as well.
>before he killed himself all he could think about was getting rammed in the ass and sucking cock.
>Not saving him by letting your dick sucked
Yeah what a friend you are then
Levi White
It's easy to get caught up thinking you're a bad person.
Look, you fell in love with a man. He decided he's not a man. If this isn't the person you're in love with, and you don't want to have to dig up love and be unhappy, its okay to leave. Just do him the courtesy of talking to him about it first and letting him understand why
Aiden Gonzalez
it's over. Divorce the sick freak.
Owen Clark
Its not your fault. Blame the jews.
Elijah Peterson
>I've told him I support his decision all they way even taking female hormones and what not. First thing's first, you're his wife, don't lie to him The truth shall set you free And you need to tell him the truth: NOTHING he can do will make him a girl.
Hudson Harris
>Look, you fell in love with a man. He decided he's not a man. If this isn't the person you're in love with, and you don't want to have to dig up love and be unhappy, its okay to leave. Just do him the courtesy of talking to him about it first and letting him understand why
I always see him as kind of effeminate. I look at it as kind of cute even till now. But deep inside no I don't want him to continue with this. Can I still bargain with him? I mean like I'll tell him I will leave if he will transition? I just can't imagine my life without him.
Sebastian Flores
It doesn't matter, kids are annoying but if you really want one adoption is a thing. You're in your prime, it's not too late for you.
You think I didn't try to help him? I served with that dude in the Marines, seeing him like that fucked me up, these kind of people simply never listen
Alexander Martinez
Being a tranvesite is just mentally unhealthy, I would try to help him accept that hes just a feminine guy and can never become a actual girl. He loves you and promised to stay with you. Has he shown any signs of wanting to be with other guys?
Alexander Lee
>prime woman >31
More like 21
>You think I didn't try to help him?
So what did you do? offer your cock for him to suck
You aren’t happy, what happens when he wants to get his dick changed into a fuckhole? Are you even attracted to women? How happy can you be as his caretaker when he’s more obsessed with his body than giving love to yours?
Divorce is the only road you’re on right now, that’s the part that bums me out. He has no right to change his gender midway though a marriage like a psychopath. If you love him more than you love yourself, that’s the problem you need to sort out with professional mental help. He’s taking away your husband no matter what, that’s the reality of it.
Tyler Rivera
shut up you virgin incel
OP's husband is just doing what feels right. Everyone has the right to happiness.
Nathan Martinez
>Everyone has the right to happiness. No they don't. Nowhere is happiness a right in any legal code or any religious code anywhere. The Declaration of Independence mentions the "pursuit of happiness", but that is not a legal document and never has been.
Brandon Bell
>Divorce
Bunch on literal virgins spouting bs. Don't divorce OP. You're just rewarding degeneracy with another degenerate action. "What God Has Put Together Let No Man Put Asunder" The best thing is to stick by your man no matter what. As a woman you should follow your husband. Don't be like the other thots abandoning their man in times of sadness. You're better than this OP.
"So they are no longer two, but one flesh. Therefore what God has joined together, let no one separate"
Asher Russell
Rights are a spook altogether. Dont exist
Jackson Bell
Jesus christ knock some fucking sense into him, all this tranny shit is just mental illness that people give free reign to and let it take over. If it was any other illness people would not let it take over the person they love but because it is this tranny bullshit people just back off and let it completely destroy a person. Letting them cut off their own manhood and take hormones to ruin their brain and way of thinking.
Anthony Cox
What if someone is only happy by raping/killing? And don't say that what OP's husband is doing is any different. Rate and murder are bad because it ruins people's lives. OP is having her life ruined by her husband
Nathaniel Walker
fair enough but there are certain "rights" "guaranteed" to you by the dudes with the guns that you can take others to court for and sometimes even the dudes with the guns.
Ryder Barnes
I'm reading stories right now of women who have been with their husband for years and it seems a few has made through. But it is still possible? I mean I didn't love him because of his penis.
David Wood
>am I just a total FOOL? not totally. but he is an asshole for misrepresenting himself for so long, and you were naive to ignore the warning signs
Xavier Barnes
You're banking on a lot of things going right by hoping a tranny husband won't kill themselves or their ethical fabric. It's not a delicate process and I have not met a single tranny who does not react to problems by absolutely freaking the fuck out and having emotional breakdowns.
Also is it bad that I feel offended by some of the posters here. Because they are almost saying that my husband is a freak of nature. But he is not. I still believe he loves, cares and will protect me no matter what.
Chase Wilson
>barren 31 year old >prime lmao wtf are you snoking?
Gavin Rogers
Peg his boipucci
Zachary Hughes
Sounds like he needs some super male vitality.
Jacob Morris
this
Carter Wilson
I say you have every right to feel offended. People in this thread acting like him repressing his “true” gender is the healthy option. Sure. What bad can come from going through your whole life living what you feel Is a lie, never feeling at home in your own body? /s
It’s not like him transitioning will be easy, neither for him nor you, but you can’t just “go back to how things were” either. We gotta assume he’s dead serious about this.
That said, talk to him and make sure he knows that you find this difficult. Say you might need a way out if thing don’t turn out to work for you. This is a big change for the both of you. He needs to respect that you didn’t sign up for this. There is no right answer here, the two of you need to work this one out together.
Jace Sanchez
trannies will never be normal. The term gender in modern sense was coined by a literal mad scientist who made two brothers fuck each other and commit suicide, after 'transitioning' the younger sibling due to a botched circumcision. wikipedia.org/wiki/John_Money wikipedia.org/wiki/David_Reimer
There are 2 sexes, male and female; your hubby is simply mentally ill. I honestly pity your husband for getting roped into a demented cult which has peer pressured him into forever misshaping his body and mind. LGBT reproduces through child molestation and blackmail. t.gay
I like dick but I hate trannies, faggots, and all which represents them. I'd be the first one to toss a molotov into a pride parade.
Ethan Stewart
>There are 2 sexes, male and female How do you define sex, user? Just curious.
Connor Watson
also, the whole trans movement only got wind lately because an aging tranny billionaire is funneling as much money as possible in order to normalize his PTSD snap into trannyhood before he dies. It's not at all organic. These people are an evil cult Hell bent on making perversions out of children and young adults. wikipedia.org/wiki/Jennifer_Pritzker
Op doing him a disservice by lying and saying she's ok with it
Anthony Bailey
it's hard coded into your brain. I only chose to be a faggot later in life.
Lincoln Robinson
I bet it was all fun and games and cute when you gotten with an effeminate "man", and now you finally see how natural that actually is. I say enjoy the ride, you got on it on your own accord
Jayden Carter
Suppose hubby decided he's a pedophile and wants to pursue his dream? Should she support him no matter what? Come on. You know how shitty your logic is. Stop trolling
Jaxon Powell
Where do you put those with Klinefelter syndrome?
Or those with, like, androgen insensitivity?
Easton Gomez
>it's hard coded into your brain You mean instinctual. Like, it's not something we learn, it's some base behavior in the lizard brain that drives: >Men to be attracted to women >Women to be attracted to men
In presumably... some specific gene grouping? Or glial cell organization + extra genetic code?
James Watson
I don't know what those are nor do I give a shit, honestly. Fact remains 99% of you freaks are just miswired mentally, and don't suffer hormonal imbalances. You are an evil cult, and I hope we go back to pelting you lot with bricks. At least boomers knew it was perverse and cross-dressed in secret. Normal fags hate you also, I assure you this.
Matthew Kelly
ask a fucking biologost or something, dude, I don't care. I had plenty of crushes and fell in love with women also. Sexuality isn't binary.
Dylan Thompson
So...you're a trap?
Jackson Scott
>you freaks You misunderstand. I'm a happily married engineer. Wife, Daughter, Home, 2 dogs. I'm merely asking questions so I can understand your point of view. I'm not accusing you of anything.
>I don't know what those are Klinefelter is XXY androgen insensitivity is XY, but they can't bind testosterone derivatives, so they never develop male genitalia and appear fully female externally.
>miswired mentally So you think it's all learned, rather than something you're born with?
Angel Allen
>I don't care. Hmmm so now we're getting into sketchy territory. You don't even have a definition for this thing that makes you so angry?
>ask a fucking biologost or something, dude Funny you mention that, my first Masters was in Molecular Cell Biology and Human Immunology. I know what my opinions are, I'm just trying to understand yours. I'm trying to make you defensive here.
Isaiah Evans
I'm sorry, I'm just jaded and explosive. The shit they peddle on tv and online just makes me angry and Jow Forums like in nature. I don't know, as I've said, I'm not a biologist. Faggotry is ingrained through molestation, yes. I got diddled as a kid and internalized it as the norm. There is no gay gene, just grooming.
Aiden Barnes
no, you're asking me some horseshit I have no expertise with. I'm not capable of answering your science gobbledygook, I just stand firm in my opinion that most trannies are spastic fags into trendy body mods, or people who got roped into a cult through blackmail, as the discord fiasco not long ago showed
Aiden Baker
I feel like we should better learn to accept who we are as people. I used to always think that it would be so great to be taller but does that mean I went and got dangerous limb lengthening surgery and became a freak? Hell no because I love myself. The Transgender phenomenon is clearly a symptom of the unstable minds created by today's society which asks far too much. I would get out of their. I would never want a relationship with someone unable to accept who they are.
Anthony Ramirez
>There is no gay gene Respect the opinion. As said: >Sexuality isn't binary.
That's probably true. As I mentioned above, I have a degree in a somewhat related field, but I haven't worked with sexuality specifically. Indeed, I don't even think it's really allowed to be studied (If there WERE a "gay gene" identified, that would be absolutely disastrous for "protected groups" or whatever they're called. If an employer could look at a blood test and say "oh no we don't want to hire you for some reason" upon seeing the "gay gene"... that would make legal stuff VERY hairy).
My perspective is more the other way though, in most cases. I had my undergrad work primarily in genetics, and this line of thought always made clear sense to me:
>1. Organisms that sexually reproduce must have some instinct to do so, because ones that were driven to do it would simply out compete those that didn't. >2. Those that had a DIRECTED motivation would do even better. Males that specifically targeted Females of the same species would out compete, evolutionary, a male that just fucked anything. >3. So it makes sense to assume there is some combination of hereditary information (be it genes, or some other concept. Epigenetic emphasis is a bit after my time, but there are a multitude of ways this could conceivably happen). >4. A core rule of thumb in genetics is: If something exists it can be broken. It can express itself when it ought not to, and it can fail to express itself when it ought to. >5. Homosexuality, I have assumed, is merely an inappropriate expression of some hereditary process. Some gene grouping or something that drives Females to be attracted to Males being inappropriately expressed in a Male organism.
Again, I've never studied this extensively, but from a biologists point of view, it just sorta makes sense. Those instincts are merely being expressed when they weren't intended to be.
Sorry to hear about your childhood. Hope you have a good day user
Jack Hill
Literally give him lots of affection and a good dicking with a strapon. It's that easy.
