I'm a girl and I honestly feel like guys are put off if I bring up sex too fast on Tinder. It takes like a week of talking to set anything up, and its usually a date. Sometimes I just want to skip to sex, what am I doing wrong?
I'm a girl and I honestly feel like guys are put off if I bring up sex too fast on Tinder...
Put it in your bio if it's such a problem for you
Just be direct, dudes are used to jumping through hoops to get laid, so if you're getting straight to the point I don't think you'll get turned down often. Worst case scenario someone might assume you're a bot.
roastie GTFO
Are you communicating to him that you want just sex? Dont name the poor guy have to do all the work, alot of guys have deal a shitty double standard when it comes to sex. Best thing is to tell the guy you want to fuck.
Send messages first to guys just asking if they want to fuck
Be direct or put it in the bio. You can always take it out when you’re tired of cock. Works for me.
Just put, "I ONLY WANT SEX. NOTHING ELSE." on your profile. You'll have more sausage clogging up your DMs than an Oscar Meyer factory. Take your pick and then enjoy.
Even if it's just about sex, guys kinda like to feel like they "won" something by getting you in bed. They will enjoy it more if you make them work for it a little bit. If you make it too easy, guys just find it kinda off-putting. I know we're all supposed to be enlightened and liberal and we're not supposed to "slut-shame," but this stuff is deeply ingrained in our psyches, and most guys just don't really like sluts. You'll pretty much only have luck with guys who are desperate for sex with anyone who'll have them, the kind of guys you probably won't find attractive.
If you make it too easy saying I WANT SEX, men won't feel special and it's a bit of a turn-off
Just say in your bio that you don't want a serious relationship, it doesn't sound "too easy" but it's pretty self-explanatory that it will be sex-based
Put "I'm not looking for hookups" on your bio to get hookups.
>what am I doing wrong?
lying on Jow Forums
It might surprise you, but most people don't like thots that jump on the first cock that comes their way
But then again, you're a woman, so you probably don't understand much of anything
You answered your own question, the fact that you just want sex is already off putting, enormous red flag that you had like other 50 dicks in 4 months or even less.
Dudes that actually want a serious thing or atleast a decent person to have a relationship even if isn't that serious will run away if the first thing you bring up is sex.
Solution: Either you just put in your bio that you just want sex and then you will receive a lot of messages just for that, probably not a lot of attractive ones. Or you can go and hide the fact that you just want sex and then you talk with like 10 guys at the same time and you keep grinding until it is safe for you to ask for sex or when they do it first, that of course would be very toxic and would just waste the other person's time if they are searching for a relationship and not just sex.
ur ugly and the guys want to use u as training, sex is secondary objective if any
bait half the guys on tinder ask for sex immediately.
>t. grill
You got it wrong.
Tinder is a modern prostitution platform run by the jews.
If you are looking for seriouz kommited boys, you won't find them on Kinder.
Any man worth his salt want tattooless virgins without debt. You're part of the problem.
>what am I doing wrong?
being a whore
>what am I doing wrong?
Life
stop being a whore
If you do it means you fuck everyone which is a major red flag.
Send them pics of time stamped vagina.
You are reducing yourself to an Animal
Begone thot.
Ask your grilfriends
>guys are put off if I bring up sex too fast on Tinder
lolwhatkindoffaggotfdislikesthisONTinder?