I indirectly called my little sister (9) fat, and now I feel horrible. I was venting and she didn’t deserve it. Need a good apology fast
How do I apologize
Michael Torres
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Caleb Butler
"I'm sorry for calling you fat." Exercise with her.
Gabriel Howard
>you're my syster and i love you and i didnt mean it
idk
Andrew Carter
nononono that just affirms that he thinks she's fat
say something like "i only said you're fat because i wanted to hurt you somehow, you're not actually fat!"
Colton Wright
Well it depends if she's really fat or not. You don't wanna lie to her too.
Joseph Bennett
to a 9 fucking year old? hell yes u do
u can still tell her later she's a little overweight but srsly u shoul;d never call a woman of any age fat
Colton Clark
Ouch. Why would you sling hurtful shit at a little kid who looks up to you like that? You need to apologize and tell her what you told us - you were angry at other things and said something mean at her because you were feeling mean and wanted someone else to hurt as bad as you were hurting at the time.
Then you tell her she's beautiful and perfect and that you were being an asshole and she didn't deserve that.
You fucking mean ass. Younger siblings look up to and use their older siblings as role models. Practically super heroes to them. Don't cock it up!
Asher Cooper
>srsly u shoul;d never call a woman of any age fat
Only if you intend to be this persons friend. Obviously. If the situation calls for it, and the woman is fat, call her fat by all means.
Jordan Foster
thanks for making me cry
i recently got disowned and left home and now i miss my 9 year old sister like hell. i can't bear the thought of her growing up without me. my useless parents won't even teach her anything real so now she's going to grow up like i did.
do yourself a favour and give her a hug.
Carson Anderson
Is she fat?
Luke Williams
no. 9 year olds are generally not fat.
Jaxson Allen
You're not american i guess...
Mason Kelly
britain but poor as fuck.
also don't call her fat at that age, she'll really take it to heart and it'll take a long time for her to get over it.
if she's chubby, speak to her about health or something. sugar's a big reason for weight so bring up teeth problems or brain problems. i used to give my sister advice on a lot of things, and she would just listen and take it all in. idk if anyone else has that kind of relationship with their younger siblings.
also positive reinforcement works. like mention how white their teeth look when they haven't had sugar or when they've recently brushed their teeth.
Hudson Wood
get in here dude plz
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Carson Thompson
I'm not op, i don't even have a sister. But if i had one and she was fat or chubby i'd have a talk with my parents for feeding her like the stupid fucks they are.
Easton Rodriguez
chances are, you'd be fat too lmao
Nicholas Martinez
Dont ever stop calling fat people fat. You must give them mental illness by calling them fat. Being fat is worst shit ever. Worse than any torture.
Bentley Hall
hey i would pay for lessons btw. y'know, on "how not to be rude to a woman". think about it. i'll try to keep that chatroom open if you change your mind
Jordan Richardson
bump.
Brody Green
People who make their kids overweight when they're basically too young to even prepare food for themselves should be fucking gassed.
Jace Flores
Autistic womancel detected
Jason Jones
It's okay op,she need someone to be honest with her
Adrian Thompson
that room got deleted. made another this one should stay.
Joseph King
You think the world would be a better place if we were always honest with everyone?
She was constantly lying to me. Every time I open our past conversations I read something I know for sure was a lie now. And you know what? That made me a better person. She lied to me because I wasn’t ready to deal with reality. It was painful, yes. But if I could go back in time to warn myself, I would tell me to go ahead. It will make you more.
A 9 year old little girl, on occasion, should be lied to. It’s better for her.
A whatever year old manchild who hasn’t yet learned to deal with reality, on occasion, should be lied to. It’s better for him.
The only person you should always be honest with is yourself.
If, in order to be able to be honest with someone, you set up your life in a way that you have to lie to yourself, do you really feel like that’s going to be for the better, long term?
I said what you’re doing is adorable. It is, for a short while. But it is also wrong. Very wrong and very toxic to you. And whatever is toxic to you will, in time, be toxic to everyone around you.
If you deny yourself every opportunity in the future to feed another person’s mental issue (e.g. insecurity) that they will eventually have to fix no matter what, will this lead to a fulfilling life?
First be honest to yourself then do what feels _right_.
Jose Wilson
"I'm so sorry imouto , i d-didn't mean to hurt your kokoro"
William Stewart
there are plenty of apologies written in this thread, but you have to make sure she does not get any fatter, if she is 9 and already fat she will reach a size where she will be glad if someone fatshamed her into oblivion when she was younger
There is no merit in being overweight, make sure she knows it is not her fault and children do not have to be treated like retards unless you want to raise retards.
Eli Hill
bump.
Ian Murphy
Who the fuck cares about their weight at 9?
Adrian Young
I told you he's possessive but you've imagined the rest. I have plenty of people in my life from both genders, just none online due to what I told you (orbiters).
>She was constantly lying to me. Every time I open our past conversations I read something I know for sure was a lie now
you mean me? what are you on about
Leo Mitchell
bump.