Girlfriend of Two Years Admitted She Slept With a Black Man

Holy fudge, are you autistic?
Was this girl your first shot at a gf?

>Am I supposed to make up a set of questions to ask on a first date?
yes because you clearly have issues about making an emotional investment with girls who've slept with black guys

oh my god, what is wrong with you people

she had sex; chill out ffs

Are men expected to remain virgins, too? Because by your logic they should be severely punished for despoiling any women they do not intend to wed.

Meant to respond to

Not him but ideally promiscuous men should be castrated or killed.

>what is hymen reconstruction?

who fucking cares man, my bf had a bad stint with drugs and petty law-breaking for years before I met him. does the past upset me? a bit, yeah, how could it not? but he's not pulling that shit now, and if he did relapse I know I'm not spineless and could walk if it went to bad places

as long as you have a clear head, are observant, and you know you can draw the line if she acts up, you don't need to conduct a background check for the relationship to work

the cutest, quietest conservative girl could have gangbanged black men and just never tell you for as long as you live, but some people don't have a dirty conscience

she just wants someone to love her regardless of her past, and if you can't due that, be upfront. but you're already naive if you think about people being "perfect" and put pussy on that pedestal

Pretty normal not to want to tell your partner about past sexual experiences brah. It really comes down to you about what you wanna do though. It sucks to know that you weren't your girl's first, but that shouldn't mean much if you two care about each other. I would just learn to move past it and remember that she's only yours now.
If it bothers you that much, then you should really sit down with yourself and think about why it does. Maybe talk to her about it. Break up if it's really that big of an issue to you.

>As title says, my gf got really drunk a few days ago and confessed that she slept with a black person before we met.

Why did she specifically have to mention that? What kind of conversation lead to that relevation?

God gave you hands and legs, use them on the hoe and the faggot.

What's wrong if I have sex with your mom or gf?I'm going to fuck the shit out of them with my 8 inches

kek op got cucked by a niggy

consider suicide

run away from her, and if you even consider staying you're a imbecile

also racemixing is beyond slut tier

>she slept with a black person before we met.
so what, she had sex with someone before ye met?
It's not like the black guy cucked you or anything?

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>What do I do?
Make her pay the toll?

Dump her,you don't wanna look at your kids one day,and think their mother is a filthy coal burner.Just trust me bro.

So I definetly leave her?

About how it came up, we were out drinking with coworkers and the conversation took a weird turn.

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For one thing, unless you marry a quite young girl (which has its own issues as age gaps are not beneficial to the success rate of a relationship, and most people as they mature if they are looking for a sincere life partner want someone who feels equal and not like a child without life experience), accepting that a woman has had sexual partners is the only way to marry a woman >20 who does not have issues from being sexually repressed. Biologically speaking fucking is the highest purpose in life, from being a teenager onwards everything is telling you to cuddle up to someone cute. You can only go without for so long before it embitters your personality, world view, confidence, you name it.

Secondly, many people have high standards in a partner. They want someone they find (very?) attractive, who is bright, kind. Someone who is compatible in terms of interests and what kind of future they want. Someone who is sexually compatible with them and can support them. Ideally she also has a nice family and the potential to be a good mother. I'm sure I'm leaving stuff out still that is important to many people.
With all that in mind, only wanting to give virgin women a chance means you are going to have to make huge other sacrifices. Most guys cannot just lean back and have their pick of women. I'm sure that even today in the western world where saying this is pretty taboo, many guys would silently prefer a girl with less experience than their girlfriend. But that doesn't mean they are willing to exchange that for qualities she has that are rare to find.

This was all before the relationship, right? So she had no obligation to you.
It's up to you if you are going to let yourself be retroactively cucked two years into the relationship, or treat it like no big deal.
It probably took this long for her to tell you since she thought youd react badly to it and sabotage an otherwise good relationship. It turns out she might be right.

I'm not going to tell you how to feel. But I suggest asking a close friend or family member, not Jow Forums, since everyone here gets worked up over black guys.

Girls who have been around are better in bed, they're naturally more adventurous and you don't have to 'break them in' so much. I fucked one 100% virgin and it was awful, I fucked a few 100% whores and it was amazing but didn't last, then I found a great girl who has a virgin but had given a blowjob and experimented in some other ways, perfect combo of loyal and un-used but also adventurous and slutty just for me.

This would bother me, not going to lie. Even before I was an actual racist this would have bothered me, there's something inherently gross about it. Still, if it was a one time drunken error I think you can get over it if you really loved her beforehand. It sounds like she was already not a virgin so it doesn't change that much.

Have you seen western (((media)))?

>Girls who have been around are better in bed
The 'more experienced in bed' argument doesn't apply to long term girlfriends / marriage material. If you're looking to build a long term relationship with an inexperienced girl, you can simply teach her whatever you want her to do.

Your argument only applies to one night stands and casual sex. In that case, you want a woman who fucks good right now. For long term commitment i'd rather have an inexperienced woman. I'll gladly invest some time and energy to teach her how to be a good lover, rather than committing to an experienced slut.

It applies more than you'd think, there is a natural difference between the sex drives of girls who chose to fuck early and often and girls who chose to wait indefinitely. Even if you get your virgin wife to try it up the bum or whatever it is you want, she might just be doing it to make you happy and won't really have your heart in it.

>you can simply teach her whatever you want her to do.
Doesn't work like that, people are not a blank slate just because they haven't fucked. If a girl has a low libido, physically gags the moment a penis goes in her mouth no exceptions, doesn't feel a lot from penetration and will never come from it etc, that often does not change. And it can be a long and frustrating process trying to determine if there's potential down there after you help her move past mental blocks or something, or that it's just not there, period.

Kinks and turn ons are also formed in childhood for a large part, sexual experiences can influence what we like but you cannot mould someone to be your perfect partner, then apparently you were already quite compatible.

I in part agree with your reasoning but it's more than just that experienced girls know tricks. It's that they have shown themselves to be sexually motivated and seek this out for themselves (assuming they were happy and consensual experiences). A virgin girl might be a frustrated nympho waiting for the right one. But she could also very well be a girl who winds up a virgin because the idea of sex never did much for her. Or because it actually scares her or disgusts her. Or because she has huge religious guilt about what losing her virginity means for her worth as a person, that is going to cause her big issues once she does lose her v-card.

t. woman who was a virgin for a long time and has known plenty of others

Why does it matter who she slept with BEFORE you were dating? You weren't in the picture yet, which means she's as free as a bird to fuck whom she pleases. As were you before you met her.

Are you insecure about the fact that her previous lover most likely had a bigger dick than you? What's the problem here?

Yes
Women like bad boys, no surprise you stayed but it will never be the same for a man who learn his partner was sluty

A biological thing

More reason to do it, the guy who sleeps with a woman who fucked blacks

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>her previous lover most likely had a bigger dick than you
Embarrassing BBC meme bait, kys retard.

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>Kinks and turn ons are also formed in childhood for a large part
Yep, I recently found out my fiance had some lesbian encounters in elementary school and I think that's part of why she's so adventurous and spicy. Personally I developed an interest in bdsm very early by tying up and stripping my dolls/action figures and watching fucked up movies. It sucks for you if your wife had a totally innocent childhood, you want her to have some dark areas of her sexuality that she wants explored (even if she remained a virgin).

Yep, niggers are based. OP you should let a black guy fuck you too because they are just such good boys and such a positive influence on society.
13%, 52%. Kill yourselves.

>she could also very well be a girl who winds up a virgin because the idea of sex never did much for her.
I get your point. But in my experience low sex drive and a lack of attraction are often confused in favor of the person who complains about it.

I mean, how many of these threads do we see here on Jow Forums about some dude complaining that his girlfriend has a 'low sex drive' because she only wants to fuck him once or twice per month? I've lost count on how many of these threads i've seen. Problem is, these guys never consider the possibility of their wife/girlfriend simply not being sexually attracted to him. I'm not saying women with a low sex drive don't exist, i'm sure they do. But it's not as common as most people like to make you believe. More often than not when a girl doesn't want to fuck you, she simply lacks sexual attraction for you. It has nothing to do with her sex drive. And yes, some girls will date a guy who they aren't even attracted to.

weak bait.

you guys are retarded for replying to this thread

If this isn't a bait thread, you only need to worry about two things:

1) Is she involved with anyone else other than you?
2) Is she clean and have no STDs?
(You should get tested too anyway it's free)

If the ansewer is yes to both of these then you have nothing to worry about outside of making yourself come off as some insecure weirdo whose obsessed with the BBC meme.

>women don't sleep with animals
I don't think it's bait.

Yep, my gf used to get physically worn out when I'd fuck her and couldn't do it again for a while without it hurting even though she wanted to, but once I started giving it to her really good she adapted and now asks for even more dick than I can give her. If she is attracted to you then it should work out soon enough.

how else are men supposed to weed out the scum from the pack? would you rather every dude throw their money at chicks for nothing?

Different user, but this is some super insecure shit.

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Yeah that whole part of "XD THINK ABOUT A BLACK GUY FUCKING YOU" part reeks of insecurity.

I don't agree with this personally. Sure part of the issues with compatibility can be helped by communicating better about how and when to ask, what kind of sex they even want to have and so on. Especially for women attraction is often at least as much about how someone approaches them and makes them feel as about static things like physical beauty. But firstly, the mere fact that they -can- change and become more interested doesn't mean it's an easy fix. Poor or no communication is one of the most common reasons for relationships ending, people find it hard.

Secondly, men and women who care less for sex most definitely, absolutely exist. Almost everyone loves sex yes. But what they think of when saying that is different. One person who says they looove food will be in the kitchen most days, getting delighted over treating quality ingredients so they shine, will save money for a long time to go to great restaurants and so on. Another person who "looooves" food might just love binging on fast food fairly indiscriminately.
Basically, the people who don't care for it whatsoever are very rare, but that doesn't change that there's a huge landscape in intensity.

People who don't love an exciting encounter with a new great person while in the honeymoon phase are super rare. People who in everyday life, when not in love or in the honeymoon phase, are not very sexually motivated and would rather read a good book or see friends than have sex on a given night are absolutely not rare.

If that's what you got out of it, then you should honest to god kill yourself today.

Yeah I bet you're totally not insecure about anything too, unlike the whole rest of the world

There wasn't really much to take away from that. If you throw a tantrum and can't love your gf because she happened to be with a certain guy before you and she is no longer speaking/communicating with that guy in anyway then that shows you're truly weak. And this is definitely an insecurity thing because this thread wouldn't exist under circumstances like "OMG SHE WAS WITH A MEXICAN MAN" or "I CAN'T BELIEVE SHE FUCKED A GOOK" This is about you treating black people like aliens with floppy dongers that contaminate your women forever. It's fucking weird, bro.

Of course I'm insecure about shit, but it's not fucking niggers lmao

Have you ever been anywhere that was majority black? I've been near all sorts of races and niggers are by far the worst to be surrounded by, they're toxic, aggressive, gross, and uncivilized.

Yeah dude, I know. Trust me, as a black dude I fucking know. There goes my credibility out of the window, but I understand what you mean completely.

>she happened to be with a certain guy before you
The fact that she was retarded enough to sleep with the nigger is way more than enough information to claim that she has zero standards, can't think critically, and has no knowledge of the real world beyond a quick fuck. Yeah, people can have sex lives before me. But you don't sleep with an animal and say "Yep, she's a human being with a good head on her shoulders."

It's good to really observe someone's actions, and I could understand that if she had a kid with the guy she wouldn't have a good head on her shoulders, but if she just slept with him years ago and it was protected safe sex then who gives a shit? Being obsessed with your girl's ex's is next level cuck shit man.

Thanks nigger, some of you are alright as casual friends but I'm still not letting you around my women.

Too late, buddy. I've been getting busy with all races of women (except indian so far) since 2008.

>"My women"
Kek

Dude, cheating means she doesn't respect the relationship both of you are in, it's a big problem for her to shrug it off and normalize cheating. I suggest you leave her. Now, I suggest you to leave this hellhole called Jow Forums and Reddit

I don't claim to own all white women lol, and I want to fuck some indian pussy too

She didn't cheat, he's made she had sex with a niggy a couple years ago.

>There wasn't really much to take away from that. If you throw a tantrum and can't love your gf because she happened to be with a certain guy before you and she is no longer speaking/communicating with that guy in anyway then that shows you're truly weak.
Nope. It means that OP has a gut feeling that it doesn't feel right. What you're saying is pure bullshit meant to control OP and anyone else that would read this thread. What if she slept with 500 black men? Would that be also okay because it was in the past?

It has nothing to do with insecurity. Online dating statistics don't lie. Black men get the least amount of responses from all races, including black women. Black people are seen as low value behind closed doors when no one is looking. It's not because they're actually low value, but rather that the mental association when people think of BLACK isn't a chemical engineer or programmer (like with Asian men - I'm not Asian) but ghetto culture and being poor. And as we know that when you get involved with someone, it's not just the person you're dating but usually their circle of friends and family as well. Black women also have the highest rate for herpes and other diseases, which a black man is more likely to be exposed to than, say, an asian man.

Only reason I wouldn't date a black woman is because their circle of friends and family. I don't wanna fukk wit that 100

I wonder was she confessing or bragging?

She obviously didn't have any problem herself with this and justified it by saying everybody does it (assume all her white gf's fucked black guys too) but was that all there was to it. Did she fuck him to be cool in her gf group or was she trying to make a point directed at white people? Was she just curious after talking about sexing black guys or really turned on by them.

Thing is, she felt more compelled to brag of her tryst with a black man than caring how you'd feel about it. This is an in your face challenge but I imagine she's used this to challenge other white people, probably her parents too.
>so I can tell she's upset I'm disappointed in her You mean she's mad and disappointed you are bothered.

This is how racism works, not giving an individual a chance because of a bunch of guilt by association BS.

>What if she slept with 500 black men? Would that be also okay because it was in the past?

That's different though, if she slept with 500 guys of any race that'd be a huge fucking problem. You guys are losing her shit over her sleep with 1 guy though and only because he was black. If this girl said "Oh yeah I got drunk and slept with a white guy before" this thread wouldn't exist.

Yeah dude, it's fucking weird.

*You guys are losing your shit over her sleeping with 1 guy though and only because he was black.

G H O S T H E R

Become a cuck or act according to your principles and ditch her because she broke your trust.
Very true, i was raised as an catholic (sadly it has become a meme) and i can not find a pure girl, only thots wanting to ride the endless ride of the cock carousel.

You're wrong though, she knows its a big deal as well.
If she didn't care she wouldn't have dropped it or would've said she slept with someone before, not specifically state "black person".
The fact she said it while being really drunk doesn't help her either, she could've felt really ashamed about it.

Looks like she knows the gravity of the situation, and OP should seriously consider his next move.

I know one thing for sure, the fact that you guys get so mad about this is actually something for me to be proud of. The guys my exes get with will always be internally seething at the fact that I was with her before them. Literally don't even have to do anything other than exist.

And people wonder why people hate niggers.

Trust me I'm not losing any sleep over who you hate. You're wasting mental resources and throwing away perfectly fine relationships over stupid shit.

If OP is instantly considering dumping his girl because she slept with a black guy I strongly, strongly doubt he kept himself from foaming at the mouth about black folks or girls who sleep with black guys throughout their entire relationship. She probably knew or at least had a hunch that he'd lose his shit.

That or she experienced it before, plenty of guys who take issue. OP said that even after he got upset she said it meant nothing and was normal experimentation, that does not sound like a girl who's deeply ashamed she dared to do this.

>She probably knew or at least had a hunch that he'd lose his shit
Of course she did and why she chose OP and kept it from him and then closed the trap on him. This is her way of punishing white guys and probably why she fucked the black guy to piss off her father

jokes on you the girl i'm dating said at a party months ago she just doesn't feel attracted to black guys, probably why I like her so much

>This is how racism works, not giving an individual a chance because of a bunch of guilt by association BS.
People don't give a chance to people with bad posture, those who don't dress well, those have tattoos and dyed hair or unkept facial hair, those who are fat, those who have social anxiety, those with mental illness, and those with bad skin (tons of acne). Or the color of their skin.

Treat everyone equally, except if they're radically different than you in which case it's okay to treat them badly because they're terrible human beings anyway and deserve it (see feminists vs incels, left vs right)

I'm starting to become convinced you're a khv, people who have healthy relationships don't think with this whole "This one person's actions are to punish a whole race" mindset.

>One girl said she wasn't attracted to black guys so HA!

well duh user, every woman has different tastes. If you asked 50 women on the street what they're into/not into they'll all give you decently varying ansewers. Almost as if, crazy idea here, people can have individual insterests?

Just go fuck any black women and call it even op. If you don't do that, you are definitely a cuck. Are you a cuck op?

Naturally people will have different tastes, and OP's taste in women include "being smart enough to not fuck a black guy".

That would make you an even bigger cuck, black women are disgusting. I fucked a light-skinned chick and I feel disgusted every time i think about it.

This is kinda dumb man, and going nowhere. I wish You and OP good luck with your specific preferences in women's tastes.

OP just dump her if this is really bothering you that much.

You still cum though

Nice fake rolex. Toss her in the trash.

DESU, you're doing us a favor. It's a nice warning sign to bail out.

sauce on the girl?

Well, it's in the past. If she did it because of some taboo bullshit i would probably be worried she will cheat on me later on since that's taboo too, but if she just was drunk and horny and the black guy was conveniently there, i don't see any particular problem.
>Why would she keep this a secret from me?
Did she? Did you ever talk about your exs, with details? How did she mention it anyway.

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sauce on that pic?

Also good luck finding a white woman who hasn't fucked a black dude. It's 2019

I feel you are in the class of women that have the sex with horse snd dog. Very disgust. Nigga aids

Stop being so wildly insecure

I'm a man though, the very kind of guy you're so insecure about that you can't be with a woman if you found out she was with me years ago.

You're a racist and she isn't. Seems like you're just not a match.

Not him and i wouldn't really care, but why would she drop it only when drunk if she wasn't insecure herself about it?