I feel healthier when I regularly look at porn. Is this normal? I usually go about my work day, and when I get home right before bed I watch some basic amateur porn for like 10min, nut, then go to bed. It helps me keep my head clear of girls. So I don’t think about girls ever, which helps me be more productive and keeps the stress of potential relationships and stuff like that away.
Why don’t more people do this?
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I feel the same,
It really helps me keep a clear mind. Before I started doing this, I often thought about girls all the time and it would soak up a lot of energy.
as long as you do it in moderation
yeah i only do it once a day right before bed. Takes no more than 10 minutes
>put on this earth to find a woman and create a family
>says porn is healthy because it helps me sleep and helps me avoid relationships
OP you can fap, but don't try to act like porn is healthy in any way when a simple Google search will show you how addicting it is and it's negative effects
that's not moderation
It’s bad if it starts to negatively affect your life. Like if you get so hooked that you’re fapping at work and shit. I don’t do that
Why isn’t it?
About everyone does this. You didn’t discover something new.
It destroys your perspective on the dignity of a person.
It corrupts your mind making you see people as pleasures objects.
I don’t think I see people as pleasure objects. I work around a bunch of girls, I get along with them fine. The porn just helps keep me from becoming interested in dating them
>>put on this earth to find a woman and create a family
>MUH NATALISM
Nah fuck off. I'll decide what makes me happy.
>So I don’t think about girls ever, which helps me be more productive and keeps the stress of potential relationships and stuff like that away.
So you basically chemically castrate yourself to never feel your natural drive for love, affection and procreation. Sounds healthy to me bro
You sound like a 30 something cat lady working for buzzfeed and tweeting about drinking "WINE!!!" all day
nice projection faggot
Why is that bad? It’s less stressful
>I'm nothing but an animal who is a slave to his biology
You don't need a brain to breed, yet you have one. Try using it some time.
Porn is better once you had sex regularly at one point in your life.
Yeah and collecting welfare is less stressful than finding a fulfilling career and life of meaning too but it's stell the worse option.
You sound retarded. Learn what projection means
I’ve had sex before, but I wouldn’t say I had it “regularly”
But welfare blows. They don’t have a good quality of life
I've noticed that if I look at camgirls I become more productive. Sometimes it's because I want to achieve great things so I have an easier time to get attractive women. I'm talking like cute girl-next-door camgirls. On the other hand, edging or watching hardcore porn makes me think about women constantly and lowers my standards. Or I start ruminating about exes and flings, then as soon as I cum realize I was wasting a lot of time.
Not watching porn at all on the other hand makes me not even want to talk with women and generally become asocial. Instead of porn I flirt with women online, which can be seen as beta on paper, but I use them to keep my mind sharp to flirting so when I do meet someone who lives near me I won't feel rusty. Occasionally leads to phone sex, but it goes back to my second point that I might flirt with women I'm not even attracted to, which is no good.
No fap has caused retroactive ejaculation for me which means that I orgasmed while taking a piss. Which if you never experienced... You will be on the floor in fetal position for a half hour. I do not recommend.
hentai is healthy.
3D porn is degenerate and will rot the brain.
porn isn't healthy, it destroys the brain's basic functions in a successive and very tangible manner
ejaculation is normal, to boost masculinity and clear your head just jerk off once a week and stay off the porn, don't buy into any cults or self-help groups just remove porn out of your life the best way you can, put challenges on yourself to stay off it as much as you can and building on that each and every relapse, because you will relapse very frequently and when you do, never guilt yourself but see it as a learning step to do better next time.
See I only look at basic stuff. I don’t watch professional porn. Mostly what I look at is cam girls masturbating. Nothing hard core at all, and nothing with professional porn stars.
>I've noticed that if I look at camgirls I become more productive. Sometimes it's because I want to achieve great things so I have an easier time to get attractive women.
ha, my brain does this too
like i look at instagram models and it goes "I NEED TO GET BETTER TO BAG A BITCH LIKE THIS"
it's so retarded but it helped me get back to lifting weights again lol
Would rather travel than kids
Why would you want an Instagram thot? They are soulless whores
hey
meh it's just lust, i'm well aware i wouldn't stand their need for attention
I noticed I desire to do more reps when I watch porn while lifting. Gives you clear direct motivation. I suppose it's no different than going to the gym and being surrounded by hot fit chicks in tight yoga pants.
youre so addicted you dont know what healthy means. go on for 3 months of noporn and see for yourself
>Gives you clear direct motivation. I suppose it's no different than going to the gym and being surrounded by hot fit chicks in tight yoga pants.
Uh... when I go to the gym and see girls like that, I leave. I can’t workout near them. Last week I was at the gym and a hottie came in and was using the equipment right next to me. I stopped my workout and left
I’ve done that, I felt fine except for the fact that I just had lots of dreams about having a gf
I did this as well and got wet dreams and retroactive ejaculation like I've mentioned earlier. And I felt like S-O-Y with no virile energy. Creativity and drive is fueled by sex drive. Seeing cute girls on webcams helps with that without going to the crazy unrealistic porn route (which is as damaging to your mind as listening to defeatist whiney emo music 24/7).
Brother if i may tell my sin, i'm addicted to cartoon porn lately.
Honestly this is probably worse than any sort of 3D barring extremely fucked kinks. It warps your mind on what a women physical/emotionally are and once you get to a certain point, you just can't look at real women the same since you end up comparing their bodies/sexual actions to what you saw in your hentai collection.
I speak from experience.
Regular porn is pretty much disgusting at this point but no one watches that and thinks it's automatically ok to rape women.
Fuking Indians, amirite?
Because you are using it as a daily dopamine shot.
>Creativity and drive is fueled by sex drive
Source?
Most creativity comes from young people with raging hormones. They're channeling their sexual energy into creative outlets. Sometimes, like in my case, I know if I make something awesome a girl might take notice and that gives me an opener. I'm sure the same goes for millions of bands out there.
Not trying to sound mean, but it's this from only your observations or have you also read this somewhere?
He won't have a relationship either way, you sociopath. At least this way it won't torment him.
Observations in the world and I'm sure have read about it somewhere as well. Just Google it. Here's one article: inc.com
>In the classic personal development book Think and Grow Rich,Napoleon Hill says "Sex desire is the most powerful of human desires. When driven by this desire, men develop keenness of imagination, courage, will-power, persistence, and creative ability unknown to them at other times."
In fact, now that I remember, I read about it when I tried to boost my testosterone. Had constant brain fog, but then noticed that when I'm horny and sex is around the corner (or try to impress potential women) my creativity kicks into gear and connects dots that were inaccessible to me before.
Hmmm.... interesting. Im a creative person, but sex has never felt like a driving factor. Then again im a chick so that could be why.
Yeah, it’s different for women. Without the necessary testosterone, men are not functioning their best. Apathetic, lazy, no drive for competition (creating better art and getting noticed), etc.
Not an argument. Have fun with your shackles, slave.
What advice do you need?