I'm losing attraction to my husband. Sex is tedious and I can't bear speaking to him for more than a few minutes per day. I don't want to spend the rest of my life with him so it's good that we don't have kids yet. He thinks I have depression, but he doesn't know that he's the problem. I think he's still very much committed to me, which is unfortunate. I have a good friend at work and we laugh and joke a lot whenever we're near eachother. Is it still cheating if it's just receiving an emotional connection from another guy? To the point where it feels like love. We flirt occasionally and I want to take it further with the sexual tension, as I'm not getting any in the bedroom.
>I fail to communicate well with my husband and I'm thinking about dumping him for another cock
Unironically a good idea, but for his sake.
Leo Young
if he doesn't know he is the problem, then try discussing it. see if he can change things up in the bedroom. yes, emotional cheating is a thing. look it up. if you really think this will all work out with the guy, communicate with your husband and see if he will agree to a divorce. there is no reason for you to cheat on your husband, you are not forced to be with him especially since you don't even have kids.
Logan Taylor
don't cheat and if doesn't work you have to divorce
Connor Reyes
just talk bitch baka
Connor Ward
Be honest and tell him exactly this. Then face the consequences and face your challenge. Because you both will be happy on the other side of this.
Tell him this and give him a chance to change and improve himself. You'd be surprised how much a guy will dedicate to this if you're being truthful. Lying and cheating will just complicate things and make life unbearably messy.
Be honest and truthful and if he really can't fix his shit or you're truly over him then leave. This is the kind of shit that totally destroy men's hearts and is what we dread hearing most.
If you are investing emotional interest in a person who is not your partner while you let your actual relationship with your partner disintegrate due to your lack of interest and effort.. then yes you are cheating. If this isn’t bait, then girl-to-girl... you’re a shit wife and a failure as a woman.
Christopher Rodriguez
based
Michael Adams
Do it
Grass is greener
You're basically already cheating and it'll only escalate from here. End it
Carson Reed
As the other posts in this thread echo, you suck as a person and even worse as a wife. You will never be happy if this is your attitude
Liam Garcia
Yeah cheating is bad. It can destroy people. Talking is probs the best option. I don't get why he doesn't give you sexual attention when you say he's committed. Maybe you're the problem ?
Dylan Taylor
if this continues for a long period of time you should divorce him, rather sooner than later. It's not unnatural to lose feelings and enjoy flirting with others, but it's not kind to ur husband to cheat on him. But again, these things happen and living a sad depressed live just because ur scared of being branded a "cheater" like these incels suggest is not the way to go. But if possible divorce him before cheating.
Andrew Jones
>I have a good friend at work and we laugh and joke a lot whenever we're near eachother. Is it still cheating if it's just receiving an emotional connection from another guy? Yes, this is called emotional cheating. It's not on the same level as physical cheating, but it's a hallmark of a relationship that's beginning to die and probably can't be saved.
user, you probably once cared deeply for this man and there was a reason why you chose to marry him. Rediscover that feeling, and if you truly care for him then tell him what you've told us and try to make it work. Anything else is you not wanting to save it and you want to break up.
If you do decide to divorce, keep in mind it will be harder for you to find a future partner - divorces tend to make people consider you as damaged goods.
Landon Carter
These things don’t just happen? Stop making OP feel better about her shit decisions. If you love someone you treat them with respect and dignity and she is not doing this at all. People label people as cheaters for good reason, it’s to discourage selfish people from hurting innocent people. If you are thinking about another person you LEAVE, simple as that. If you stick around it’s because you’re selfish and greedy. I have been married for 9 years and I have never had another thought about anyone but my husband. Not once. Let alone starting an emotional affair with another man. That is not normal behaviour
Jackson Stewart
Talk it out with him. Seems like hes the only one trying in the relationship. You owe it to him to at least know that you want to bow out of your marriage, instead of skulking about behind his back. He probably trusts you with all his heart, and you're ready to betray that.
>t. Guy that has connected emotionally with a married woman because he's scum of the earth
Juan Cooper
Why don't you get off your lazy ass and divorce him you stupid cunt?
Brody Johnson
File for divorce, you cunt, he deserves better
Sebastian Myers
God I hate women
Jacob Bailey
>everything you posted. mgtow4lyfe
Luke Miller
This sounds uncannily similar to suspicions I have about my wife. Except the not getting any.
Levi Long
Grass is always greener. Kek
Camden Brown
How do so many people end up in loveless marriages like this? Are people really that shortsighted?
Alexander Hughes
I think about this a lot. I've seen many marriages fail.
I think what it boils down to is that people base their marriage too much on romance and too little on practicality, and also that they expect the romance to last forever. Liking your partner is one thing, and totally reasonable to expect, but expected to be in the honeymoon phase with them for the rest of your life is another.
Dylan Kelly
Just divorce the poor guy you fucking cunt. Good lord, imagine being married and actually having to live with this whore.
Why do you take the bait every single time anons...
Jacob Rivera
Would you care to elaborate on your relation with that new guy at work?
Ryder Lee
(You)
Lucas Jenkins
>my husband can't read my mind and i refuse to talk to him, should i cheat? by all means you should leave him for his sake, then do whatever the fuck you want
Henry Mitchell
a depressing amount of the time it isn't bait
Thomas Thompson
You sound just like my friend's soon to be ex-wife. He still isn't sure why his left, but it broke his heart. But, honestly, it all worked out well for him. He found a new job making more money, he's been losing weight and meeting new people. Meanwhile, she's living with the guy she ran off with in a 2 bedroom with 5 animals. She's looking rough too, gained weight, always looks greasy and her new boyfriend has no teeth.
Ultimately, it makes far more sense to actually work through your problems but your husband will likely be better off without you.
