Is picking up random girls worth it??
Is picking up random girls worth it??
No.
No.
I dont know
No.
Why not? If it isn’t, i cannot meet women because i have no friends
Depends on what you do with them
Define what "picking up random women" is to you. And what worth are you looking for?
Be elaborate please
I am looking for a gf
Because they're complete strangers, it's like playing the lottery.
But let's say it works and she says yes: now you have a relationship purely based on physical attraction and still have no idea if you're even compatible in the bedroom.
Picking up random girls is fuccboi meme shit, make some friends and get to know women before you try to get into relationships with them. If you can't even manage the friends part then your social skills are severely crippled and your chances of picking up a random girl diminish even further.
Don't buy into incel memes, socialization and non-bitterness is the only way forward.
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Related question;
What are the repercussions for going to the 3rd and 2nd world and knocking up many women, but not giving them any personal info? I have to have a few kids by now, and I don't want to stop.
HIV.
Picking up randoms expecting a gf is not a good use of your effort.
Eh, not a concern for me. Im tested clean thus far and typically go for (legal) younger girls with less risk. Worst case I can afford treatment
Not a gf
I am considering doing it because i have no friends
I just want to keep in touch with them
What are you looking for in a girlfriend?
Sex? Companionship? Mutual interests? What is it specifically or is it everything?
You're question "are picking up randoms with it" suggests you're asking "should I try and pick up random girls in an effort to make one of them my girlfriend"?
Me personally, I define randoms as girls to fuck. If I want sex, then I "pick up randoms" in the evening at clubs because to me, they're just that. Random girls. If I fail at that, I either hire an escort that weekend, message girls on dating apps/sites to see if they're down to fuck or jack off myself. Because "random girls" to me are just that, they're just for sex and for me to get off.
Now if I want a girlfriend, that's different. I make an effort to look for someone who I am interested in. I don't try and pick anyone up randomly. I take my time on dating sites and apps, join clubs and do hobbies where I can potentially meet women with similar interests and who I get on with.
So if you want a girlfriend, consider what kind of girlfriend you're looking for. Do you want to have similar interests? Look for them in where your interests lie. Do you want someone with a similar/particular personality? Look for them on dating sites tailored to match people based on this
So think to yourself, what am I looking for in a girlfriend? And where would I find this person?
Hope you find what you're looking for
What i wrote may sound misleading
I am doing it because i have no choice but to pick up random girls whom i’ve never seen in my life
Yes but too risky
>you could piss someone off
>you could get a disease
It's like playing the lottery, worth it but just not likely to work out at all
Why?
I have no friends
I was in your position too. You would benefit from making friends. Not loads of friends or anything, but atleast one.
What are your hobbies/interests?
Me as an example, people laugh at me but I'm into Warhammer. I enjoy the hobby, so I go to the shop and buy stuff. Join the club and I met my friend there. I then met his friends, and we hangout.
Also, another thing I tried, because I'm quite shy. I went on the meetup app and I joined an introverts club. I was really, really nervous before I went, but I had a good time because we were all in the same boat. I.e. being nervous and lacking social skills
All of this improved my confidence.
What are your interests?
If i was shy, I wouldn’t have been able to pick up random girls
And i am not afraid of being rejected so i think i am confident of myself. I am introverted too also very quiet and lack of social skills. My interest is making money and sport
If the girls are hot, yes.