ITT: Ask the opposite gender anything

How do I fucking kiss?

I'm a woman who likes to get to know guys before doing anything else with them.

Ladies don't just talk to guys they want nothing to do with.
What does she talk to you about? Work? Okay, she might just be trying to be professional.
Random shit? She likes you. Or, is at least interested in trying to get to know you so that she can like you. Women don't just talk about random shit to guys they could care less for.

How long have you known her and how well do you know each other? Start from there.

>living in foreign country
>speak language well
>discover digestion problem
>realize I have to avoid milk
>go to my usual cafe
>confused what options are at cafe
>try to ask staff if they can make some drink using water instead of milk
>I think they're confused
>sad because my diet has been decimated by dairy intolerance
>have kind of interaction with the guy
>since then whenever I go, if he is working, he kind looks at me funny when I order, pickup my drink, or bring the cup back before I go
>like prolonged eye contact
>I think I do it too because he reminds me of my ex a bit, the way he acts and talks
>I'm also curious about his language ability
>last week, I go to get my drink and he started asking me questions like "do you live here? what do you do?"
>I answer
>he says he was just curious
>I smile and go back to my table

And I retarded or is this kind of flirting on his part? Pretty sure he is in charge of the cafe, and has a lot of staff, and I've gone there regularly. I don't really see other foreigners so if it isnt flirting, you think he wants some language lessons? I'd do it for free to be honest just because I already go there weekly

Probably not. Height differences can be pretty hot though, at least in a fantasy sense, but I'm a degenerate shotacon so take that as you will.

We've looked at stuff together and it's pretty fun and funny. I want to do it more.

It's absolutely terrifying. I don't know how I'd recover from it.

Make your lips soft and make sure they aren't too wet. Avoid using too much tongue.

Girls, can you actually love more than once, or do you all turn into emotionless sluts after the first failed relationship?

what kinda of porn genre would you recommend to watch with my gf?

>Make your lips soft and make sure they aren't too wet
But what do I do with them?

Honestly whatever you both are into. It's really dependent on the individual. Does she watch porn by herself?

To start it literally press them together with slight force, soft, as the other fella said. After that it's more like holding a pen in your lips, then opening and repeating, that's how you can try it. Literally put two fingers together slightly apart and 'grab' them with your lips lightly, one at a time, bottom is better, then just let your tongue out a bit, soft, and retract. repeat.

I haven't asked it yet so i am asking it here. i guess she may feel awkward.

I'd recommend holding off on watching stuff together until you know her better. For now, just talk to each other about your preferences. What your likes and dislikes are, your fantasies and kinks, turn ons and offs.

But i am afraid that she might think i am a pervert..

Well I've known her for two months or so although we didn't talk much before. Maybe like twice a week we would have at least one 20-40 minute conversation here and there. They where always about random shit.
Recently I decided I wanted to try dating her because she's simply my type but now I am not sure if she rejected me.

We mainly talk about school and anything random, whatever we just feel like talking about. Like we where talking about some tv show before we where talking about sharks, etc. She wanted to know what I was doing over the summer so I playfully chimed in to hang out with her. From this point she got very conversive but then simply moved the conversation without bothering to answer. She did move it to classes I'm taking so maybe that can be seen as professional granted we take nothing similar. So I said fuck it and followed her lead since I didn't want to be pushy.

Yeah I feel I'm done. If I've known her this long and she won't bother giving me a straight answer I feel my chances are slim to none. I just wish women would at least bother being more straightforward. Not knowing is far worse than getting rejected.

Well, does this seem like somewhat normal behavior to you or am I right in thinking it's over?

It's understandably scary and awkward, but an important conversation to get to know each other and make sure you're right for each other.

1. your singing voice
2. your ideal partner's singing voice

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I think I need to be raped so that I'll know I can cope with the worst things in life and stop fearing

It's a bit odd and definitely seems like you've been rejected.
Perhaps she just thought of you as a friend and didn't expect that. Or maybe she isn't ready and didn't expect you to ask. The fact that she blew it off makes it seem like she isn't ready to give you an answer or doesn't know how to let you down gently. I'm sorry user, I can see why you're confused about it.

Women are mostly confusing. I say try asking again in the near future and if she can't even explain her position and avoids the question once again, move on. Don't waste time with people who can't give a straightforward answer.

Not working so asking again..

If a guy who works/manages a cafe looks at and asked a regular female customer some questions about her life, is he just being nice?

>Guys, can you actually love more than once, or do you all turn into emotionless sluts after the first failed relationship?

To answer your question, if you haven't answered it yourself by now, it depends on the individual. Some people are better at this than others.

I think it's good that she would think you are a pervert because you could get away with some stuff and it's kinda fun. But that's implying that she likes you enough.

I'd like to know this as well.

I know girls usually just do it because "it's part of the job", but do guys do it for the same reason?

Yes, but there are some things that you need to consider. What kind of questions? Are they questions of interest or just regular small talk? However since you say he is working there it could be their job to be nice due to customer service.

But you are. And that's not necessarily a problem, is it?

Sure, depending on the porn in question it's either to get some inspiration or to laugh at how bad they are
Not a guy but probably yes, if you ever worked in gastro you'd know it's all about pretending to be interested in every customer

user, rape is going to make you worse.

>I think I need to be raped so that I'll know I can cope with the worst things in life and stop fearing
>and stop fearing
It'll make it worse, unfortunately.

>t. Girl who has been raped and been in enough support groups to know this is universally an issue

Well she stopped replying to me. We where off topic tho since I followed her lead. Granted that could be since it's late at night. I don't think I should text her again unless she text me first. I don't want to look desperate at this point. So I might never get a clear answer from her but silence will be my answer.

Thanks a lot for the advice, she's a great friend and I wouldn't even be mad if she said no. I'd keep talking to her as long as she talked to me. I just want to know so I never have it bother me in the future thinking about what ifs.

Again thank you a lot, you where very helpful and now that I'm here and took a risk with a friend I'm gonna say fuck it and take a risk with another friend by asking some stupid advice. I have nothing to lose. So long story short known this other girl for a year now. She had a long distance boyfriend (very long distance, 1 hour 30 min flight) and I backed off because of that (also because I was failing a class and that was more pertinent at the time)
Would bringing up relationships with her by telling her I just got rejected by a good friend be a good idea to find out if she's single or am I being a fucking idiot right now?
Also even if she says she's still dating the guy should I say fuck it and ask her out or am I once more being a fucking idiot not thinking straight after getting rejected?

In my defense I'm lonely and I feel the best solution is to get with someone ;_;

it is cuz i know she hates perverts

read here

Hey so it probably got passed for veing long so I posted again.. for details resd above. This isn't in America, and they don't really talk to customers here, but I have two factors, being a woma and being foreign. It wouldn't stop me from going there but just wondering if I am social indept or not lol.

What does she consider a pervert?

Speaking of rape, girls:

How do I deal with a rape victim? I've been gunning for this quiet and secluded girl, but I've begun to run into a few stumbles. She is receptive of me in general, but given that we bonded over interests, I'd love to take it further. But she doesn't have much in terms of friends, and the one person i could find who know her, told me she was raped and likely wouldn't be cool with anything ever.

I assume that's not how that works, so how do i approach this situation knowing this? She hasn't told me herself, but it's obvious she gets very uncomfortable if I get too close, and generally she seems very anxious.

I'm generally good at this sort of stuff due to having a younger sister who got kidnapped for a solid week, and was very difficult to deal with at first, so I know how this works overall. Difference of course being that this isn't my sister, and I have vastly different intentions. So what do I do? Just keep sticking around and doing what I do making her comfortable around me, or can I make other steps to break down certain walls to help her improve?

>I'm generally good at this sort of stuff due to having a younger sister who got kidnapped for a solid week
Well I'm not a woman so I can't give advice on this but you mind expanding on this? Kind of interested how that even happened.

>How do I deal with a rape victim?
why are you even barking up that tree man? that just sounds like a bowl of tweezers

Ladies, if a girl you just started talking to (literally for a couple minutes) says bye to you with a smile, is that a good thing? Or is it just to be nice? She's in one of my college classes and she's always sitting at the other end of the room, making small talk during downtime impossible (and I can't just start sitting next to her one day because that's weird).

When we left class last time I made the effort to exclaim how "difficult" the class was, and she started telling her experience with it. I don't know if I heard her right, but she might've said that she's planning to drop the course. This upsets me because I'm just wondering if that smile and cute "bye" were a sign that I made her like me a little bit.

Simple "grab and throw into van on her way from school" stuff, unfortunately.

My family is fairly well off, so it was ransom stuff as far as I know, but I wasn't all that old back then, (she was 10, I was 14) so the details aren't entirely clear to me.

She got really fucked up by it all, and was very difficult to deal with for a full decade. She slowly got better over the years by going full Rambo (she's 2nd Dan black belt in Karate, 3rd Dan in Judo, and goes to the gun range twice a week and has a legal carry permit), so she isn't quite as worried anymore. Also been 14 years since this happened so it kinda mended with time as well.

Because I hate superficial thots with a passion, and I actually like this girl. Finding out she was raped didn't turn me away enough, mostly because I know it is fixable. It's just how I deal with it properly to not make it worse.

Can you maybe answer this?

Where the peeps imprisoned?
And sorry if this is too personal but was she raped, or drugged or heavily beaten?
I've never seen anything like this in the real world so it's quite jarring to hear it would happen to others. It's just really fucked up shit in general.

Not them, but acting like this girl needs to be "fixed" is the exact kind of thing that will make it worse for her.

>Where the peeps imprisoned?
Fuck this is what I get for phone posting.
Meant to say perps.
I'm going to sleep

Reading through, I gather you are 28? I assume she is around that age as well, and not some young vulnerable girl you are preying on here.

Making her comfortable is the best course of action, and getting her trust is vital. Note that she is vulnerable, and she doesn't *want* to be alone. She *wants* someone she can trust, which means you have to be a bit careful what you do. She may very well go along with things she dont want to, purely because she is chasing that feeling of being "safe" with someone. Make your feelings clear with her, and if you can get her on a date, do public dates, and make her feel like she can trust you to protect her from whatever may harm her.

It may sound cheesy, but that's seriously what most are looking for in that kind of situation. How you get that feeling depends on the individual - personally I want intimacy and even sex, just to get that feeling out of the system and feel like I belong to someone I want to belong to, and not some pathetic asshole who couldn't get laid normally. That doesn't make me more socially active though, I sound very much like the girl you describe. My 3 friends are online friends, and I'm fairly sure 2 of them dont even know I'm a girl. It's just difficult to trust someone in real life, so getting anywhere with a guy is really difficult if they aren't super patient.

>Where the peeps imprisoned?
Not to my knowledge, unfortunately.
>And sorry if this is too personal but was she raped, or drugged or heavily beaten?
Beaten, nothing else. She was 10. Still, being kept by strangers for an extended period of time is probably what messed her up the most.
>I've never seen anything like this in the real world so it's quite jarring to hear it would happen to others. It's just really fucked up shit in general.
It happens from time to time, but it is rare according the the officers I spoke to back then. Might have been lies though, I can kinda see officers lying to a 14 year old about stuff like this.

Might have misworded this, it's not about fixing her as such, just that I know it's possible to recover from.

Not a native English speaker, so I'm not sure what the proper wording would be, but essentially I just want to start a proper relationship with her. The recovery is just about time I'd assume, I don't particularly want her to change much here. She is great already, but helping her at least not get anxious and panicky would be ideal.

I'm honestly not as scared as other girls are in this thread.
I'm more scared of catching a disease during the rape or being killed but rape on its own never scared me that much. Who knows how traumatized I'd be if it actually happened though, it's easy to speak from a place of security.

>had one date
>met her at school but she dropped out
>not much else we had in common maybe but im a retard who didn't ask her more about her interests when she kept on mentioning she had some that might've been similar
>haven't messaged her for a month

should I send her a message and ask how she's doing? I'd like to have some more genuine conversations and then kiss the fuck out of her at some point, what do

i think of her often but at the same time im ambivalent and apathetic about it, what is this

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how do people have genuine conversations with other? For me I always start with "hey how's it going" then after that I dont' fucking know. Doesn't matter how well I know the person.

Sure why not? Go for it, what's the worst she will do? not message back. Just go for it worst case no message best case maybe get so sex.

Do it, i bet she will feel good if you do.

>I gather you are 28? I assume she is around that age as well
She's 26, as far I as have gathered. She gave me a cheeky "dont ask a girl her age" response when I asked, but we are in the same field, and I know what her education is, and if she isn't lying about her work experience, she is at least 25. Adding a year to my assumption, because I am not expecting her to have continued without delay after what happened to her.

But basically, I should just keep acting like I do already, it sounds like. Guess I might as well be honest with her. How do I best do that though? Put her on the spot and ask her out in person, or through a text? I'm probably meeting her later today after work, so I have the chance to ask. What would be preferable?

I've semi-flirted slightly already, and she responded well to that (compliments on her appearance earns me a blush and makes her fidget a bit, and noticing the small changes in her wardrobe and hair tends to get positive responses as well, so she doesn't seem to mind me all that much).

I'm also built like a horse, so I'm pretty sure I can satisfy the "safety" aspect. Went kind of crazy pumping iron when my little sister started to get stronger than me lol

>She gave me a cheeky "dont ask a girl her age" response when I asked
>I've semi-flirted slightly already, and she responded well to that (compliments on her appearance earns me a blush and makes her fidget a bit, and noticing the small changes in her wardrobe and hair tends to get positive responses as well, so she doesn't seem to mind me all that much).
You dense motherfucker, she is giving you this, and you aren't sure if she would be fine going out with you? These reactions are harder to get out of a rape victim, and this sure as hell isn't how you act towards a friend.

>How do I best do that though? Put her on the spot and ask her out in person, or through a text? I'm probably meeting her later today after work, so I have the chance to ask. What would be preferable?
Or just drop an honest confession. Not the cheesy stuff, just the casual "I really like you a lot" comment out of the blue. I mean, what exactly is it you do together? It almost sounds likes dates already to me. Depending on what it is, ask her out for ice cream or whatever, if the weather allows it. Should be a good... icebreaker.

Can sex be rape if I want to have sex with the guy but I'm scared of his anger during sex?

is this bait

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>women
>intelligent.
Nah wise women can exist.

If you agree to have sex, then it isn't rape. Consent is the name of the game, and despite what certain retards in the media tries to tell you, you can't call it rape in retrospect.

Figure out with yourself if you actually want to or not. If you decide you want it, it can never be rape. If you don't want it, dont have sex with him.

It's fairly simply and straight forward stuff. Dont let yourself get so confused over the feminist propaganda bullshit.

Yeah I guess I'm just trying to be careful here. I assumed the reactions were just normal and natural, not so much that they meant more. I didn't realise rape victims were harder to get this response from.
>I mean, what exactly is it you do together? It almost sounds likes dates already to me.
Book&Board Game group. It's the local library that opens up for this once a week, and usually tries to group people up when possible. We are only like 5 regulars though, and 2 of them are a couple couple isolated themselves, and the last only cares about board games. So I mostly talk to this girl.

I guess it could be considered a date of sorts, but I dont know.
>Depending on what it is, ask her out for ice cream or whatever, if the weather allows it.
Might just try that. Seems appropriate and casual enough. Thanks for the help user.
>Should be a good... icebreaker.
...why did you do this.

To girls(or dudes): are ripped jeans faggy?

I've come to accept them but will never wear them myself.

So no good?
I got them as a gift from my parents but i suck with fashion

I'm aware the following opinion might not be liked but the way I see it, as long as you're not ridiculous about it, the majority of things you buy from a mainstream shopping centre or get as a gift will work together and no one will think twice about it if they saw you wear it. Yes you can looksmaxx your fashion and in my opinion, ripped jeans rarely contribute to looksmaxxing outside of a few specific styles and you're better off just maintaining a healthy physique.

because with a healthy physique, most things will look good on you, holes in your jeans or no.

How do you guys prefer a girl dresses up for an unofficial "date", that shows she is interested?

I'm far from brave, so slutty shit wont work. It's not a real date, but I want to at least try to convey that I am trying to impress or catch his attention.

It depends on the cut, color, type, how hard they're ripped etc. Simply saying ripped jeans doesn't mean much, I see cool alt guys rocking them but I also see those sex-core tier douchebags wearing super skinny white washed ripped jeans with their obnoxious fadecuts.

Dress/skirt (ankle length is fine if you dont want to show anything), and generally just look as girly as you can pull off.

At least in my opinion, it's less about looking attractive, and more about making an effort to show that you want to be a girl in my eyes. A girl showing up to even a real date wearing pants and a shirt, makes me think she doesn't want to be seen as a girl, which turns me off.

Slutty outfits are bad for making me think you might be interested. It's far easier to feel intimidated or get the sense that you are just looking for attention. So you should be avoiding that anyway.

A tight top goes a long way. Just try to avoid baggy clothes. Everything is fine really.

>A girl showing up to even a real date wearing pants and a shirt, makes me think she doesn't want to be seen as a girl
What in the fuck
This is coming from someone that lives in skirts/dresses but pants shirt combo is so popular and wearable nowadays there's nothing unfeminine about that, it's a part of female wear for decades now. I'm so confused did you walk out of the 19th century and stumbled upon an imageboard?

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i never understood how looking like you were attacked by an animal looked attractive, but i accepted it as some autistic fashion. if you're a dude you have no excuse

Personal opinion. It gives off the vibe that she wants to be inaccessible and neutral, whereas a dress highlights the feminine traits and makes it clear she wants me to think of her as a girl. And a girl is never quite as attractive in pants. It just ruins a lot of the appeal a girl can have to me.

This is all clothing though, which is what you were asking about. How you act is still more important, but setting the right first impression with a good choice of clothing makes a world of a difference.

Cool, I'll bring out the skirt then. Might have to invest in dresses though. Work requires pants, so I kinda stopped bothering with skirts and dresses, but I'm hoping to make an impression on this guy.

>A tight top goes a long way
Even if I'm flat? I dont even wear a bra normally, because I have literal pancake boobs.

Looks shit on other girls, and makes you look like you borrowed a girls pants. That, or it makes you look like a retarded hipster.

That's so bizarre to me, I never thought of a girl as less or more of a woman just because she wears skirts or pants. Why would I want to make a guy sure that I'm a girl, so weird.
>Even if I'm flat?
I'm a flatty and I wear spaghetti straps and other tight summer tops pretty often. Embrace the chestlet life

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>How do you guys prefer a girl dresses
Didn't need to read the rest, since the answer will always be "modestly".

>modestly
That says nothing though. I can dress modestly in a bathing suit if I pick a sufficiently covering one. Or a cowboy get-up with a straw hat. Or a fursuit.

It's a pretty simple question. What kind of clothes would you prefer.

>I'm a flatty and I wear spaghetti straps and other tight summer tops pretty often. Embrace the chestlet life
Alright then. I guess I might be too self conscious about it at times, and tight fitting top might make it a bit too obvious to my liking. Probably getting used to that pretty fast.

I know I'll have to consent beforehand but I don't know what he'll do during sex and I might not want all of it. But he won't stop.

i'm sorry if this comes across as offensive, but people who have been raped, what makes it THAT bad?
if some obese girl dragged me into an alleyway at gunpoint then shoved a glass bottle in my ass before riding me, i'm going to be pretty fucked up. i'm going to cry myself to sleep that night and i'm going to stay traumatized for something like 2 months. i'm going to start carrying so that won't happen again and look for some warning signs for something like a year.
but why do people just shut themselves off for years and not let anyone approch them? maybe they can't enjoy sex anymore because of that single incident, or join 5 different support groups. i also heard of a girl that literally cried every time she was touched; not sexually, just someone accidently rubbing their shoulder on her
it's torture, don't get me wrong, but i feel like this is just being melodramatic

>What kind of clothes would you prefer.
I'm not a fag, I don't pay attention to style as long as it isn't out of place. If you are going to a pool, then dress modestly in a bathing suit. If you're infiltrating a comic convention with your bf for shits and giggles, then dress in a 'modest' fursuit instead of emulating slave Leia.

Although I do have to say, unless this guy you're asking about is a seasoned extrovert, I don't think the way you dress is going to tip anything off. You'd probably have to get at least a little more direct, like asking him if he likes your outfit that you picked for the occasion, or something of that sort.

I technically got raped and that made my sexual preferences insane as fuck. I almost prefer actual rape.

women are weaker, a lot weaker than men, more emotional

when the illusion of safety gets removed, they probably realize just how vulnerable they are but are also emotional and may not be getting the help they need or making the changes to their lifestyle (hanging around different people, avoiding certain places) they need to avoid danger

you're a guy so you've already looked ahead to prevent rape risk for next time to feel better, see how that's different

Because you are a guy.

I carried pepper spray (courtesy of my parents), and it didn't matter. He didn't even look that strong, but I was just grabbed and forced into a truck. No weapons, and it didn't matter. He broke one leg, dislocated an arm, and messed me up.

And it might be easy for you to think "just take precautions" - I was walking home as usual. I didn't expect this, and I saw no signs of it happening. I am looking now, and that's why I am anxious. Because there *were* no signs. That means anyone who drives past me in a truck could do the same. Anyone who walks past me near a parked car or truck is a potential threat. And I can't defend myself, not even if I am armed. Any time I'm alone with a guy in a place where he might have time, my body kicks into panic mode automatically. It's not a voluntary reaction, and personally I suppress it a lot because fuck that, but it doesn't change how I act no matter how much I try.

It's just a difference in perspective. You feel you can protect yourself, i have learned the hard way that it's impossible for me to do so. Isolating is the easiest way to avoid the anxiety, and even for me who disregards it as much as possible, I tire out super quickly due to the panic mode I'm always in outside. I can only really relax if I'm alone and safe.

Having talked to the ones who got raped in their own home, I can see how you get to the "cry at a simple touch" stage. I feel safe at home. Imagine not even feeling safe there. Imagine always thinking you are in danger, your body never letting you calm down.

My man looked angry during sex and was really rough with me. Seemed angry before too and I was scared. What to think?

>Although I do have to say, unless this guy you're asking about is a seasoned extrovert
I mean, he usually wears a suit, or at least dress pants and a shirt. So he is certainly not the casual introverted basement dweller.

It's also not faggy to notice and care about what people wear.

To anyone: what do you think about girls that expose their bellybutton? I mean not at the pool or at some summer festival, but at classes and everything. I have a fetish for it so i can see nothing but a huge mating flag, is it just a normal thing? Only know a couple eh, and they really aren't sluts. From what i know, at least.

Do you think having him at your mercy would change anything? Or what's done is done.

Well, I love wearing short shirts during summer but I usually couple them with waist high pants/skirts so there's not a lot of skin showing since exposed belly button always looked kinda tacky and cheap to me, especially when in class and stuff.
I'd have to wear really low cut jeans and short tops and that just screams early 2000s britney spears/paris hilton/xtina lmao
Pic sorta related but tops I wear tend to be a bit longer so they almost fit with the skirt/pants, not full on crop tops

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Uses to do it due to "weather warm, less clothes = good", but found that certain types of clothing is better for keeping the temperature down. It's basically the same idea as going topless for a guy, and related to why I would wear a short skirt/shorts. I just found that certain clothes, proper dresses especially, are much better at keeping cool in hot weather, so I started using that instead.

Never did it for showing off skin, though I was accused of that by some girls. Always the fat ones, curiously. Didn't expect guys to find it erotic though, it's just a belly?

Found a better example, looks less tacky to me if the pants are high waisted

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>it's just a belly?
Ah don't ask me, it's just how i am. A nice flat belly with a good bellybutton, maybe a piercing, kills me. A good belly is rare those days tho. It's either too fat or sinking in with veiny abs.
Yeah, this is another thing. I meant like pic related.

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which is superficial to the womb which is central to reproduction and a good indicator of body fat percentage and clearness of skin, which are indicators of health and fertility

>Do you think having him at your mercy would change anything
What do you mean? If I think he would have felt different if I had done this to him?

>Or what's done is done.
I mean yeah, but that doesn't stop my survival instincts from kicking in. As I said, this isn't a voluntary action. I can't control it, try as I might. I've spend years trying to suppress it, and it doesn't stop.

Doesn't stop me from going for guys though. I just get very... weird during sex. And extremely clingy. So I generally wait as long as possible to make sure I dont jump into bed with someone I'll freak out over how clingy I get.

Fair point. That's not exactly the first thing that comes to mind from my perspective, but I'm a girl, so I guess I dont exactly think "damn that girl looks fertile" when I see another girl show off her belly.

Yeah your pic is just super trashy to me. In todays age I only see gypsies dressing like that, but early 2000s are bound to get back into fashion soon so you might see more of it

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I mean like having him tied to a chair free to do whatever with no legal consequences. Would that regain a degree of confidence and freedom or you can't put back what's been broken? I like to think it would help, but being a man the scenario is pretty unrealistic for me to imagine.
>clingy
What do you mean? Grab him tightly and won't let go? Well, i'm pretty sure if you explain no one who isn't a complete piece of trash won't understand.