I can get casual sex easy, but making them exclusive is nearly impossible for me.
I made a post about it in an ask the opposite sex thread and the user that was answering me said I'm probably the guy these girls tend to cheat on and don't bother telling me until they say they "got back with their boyfriend."
I know I'm good in bed, and I know from friends that I have a certain vibe that they say is pretty sexually attractive(Tall, hairy, very deep voice, in shape), so I can understand why a girl might be a bit put off if I break the spell by revealing my human side.
Greentext for some extra detail if you guys care but everything else is there.
>Most recent girl >"Dating" for about 4 months >Dating as in sporadic dates with lots and lots of her coming to mine for sex >Talk a lot on dates and inbetween sex but she always puts her butt on my crotch the moment there's a pause in conversation >Mentioned an "ex" boyfriend in her home town >Has gone back to her home town for the summer >Hasn't spoken to me since(Haven't exactly texted her either but still)
>I can get casual sex easy Then what the fuck are you even complaining about? Goddammit
William Baker
Instead of trying to convert someone who is interested only in casual sex, why don't you try looking for someone who is interested in something more committed?
Jonathan Perry
get with a girlfriend who will make you wait a month for sex, but loves having sex once you get together, aka horny but monogamous
William Torres
I thought the girl I greentexted was like that but I slept with her on the first date. She told me that was really out of character for her, and given that she wasn't - and still isn't - on birth control, I kind of believe/d her.
I just don't know where to meet a girl like that. I'm 22 and in London, she was a nerdy, book wormy history and philosophy student.
If she'd drop her pants night one, it feels like any girl would if I played my cards right.
Lincoln Perez
You thought that why? Because you asked her and it's what she said?
Have you talked to her about it at all?
You haven't made any effort to reach out to her while she's out of town, so why do you expect it of her?
Ian Cook
Ask one or (if possible) more of your (ex-)FWBs why they never considered you for a relationship.
>I have a certain vibe that they say is pretty sexually attractive(Tall, hairy, very deep voice, in shape), so I can understand why a girl might be a bit put off if I break the spell by revealing my human side. if she just wants to fuck, yeah sure. If a girl is starting to develop feelings then she wants to see your soft side. That's how it works. Look at how couples act together with the nicknames and inside jokes and cutesy rituals - that's (part of) the soft side.
We can't tell you what the reason is but if you are attractive, a good lover and have an easy time finding partners you are doing -something- wrong. And someone who knows you and did not see you as relationship material is much more likely to be able to tell you what that is.
John Hernandez
this.
fuck on the first date and that’s all you are. a fuck.
Sebastian Moore
>You thought that why? Because she was super awkward when I first met her, she didn't have any social media other than facebook, she seemed really enamored with me just off of conversation alone(even though I was feeling really awkward and off pace), because she said she hated how all the people she was having to live with would get smashed every weekend and because I never really saw her speaking to guys on campus.
>Have you talked to her about it? I asked her what she was looking for and she said "anything, really..." and I then told her I was looking for something serious. I also teased her about certain things and at one point I asked her if her going back to her home town was why she wanted to keep things casual and she said she was just "following your(OP's) cues." I told her I found her beautiful once and she just looked away and blushed, I told her I was starting to feel affection towards her(I find it really hard to actually tell a girl I like her because they've walked out the moment it crossed my mind, let alone left my lips) and she didn't say anything. Albeit, the last two were things that came up in conversation while I was making a point, I still think I've tried talking about it with this girl way more than anyone else I've been with.
>why do you expect it of her? In the hopes she'd wanna talk to me enough to do so without me starting the conversation.
Joseph Williams
i've done it before.
its possible, but you have to be a) really good in bed and b) actually fun/ interesting out of bed
Nathan Rogers
Dunno if you're still here OP.
She sounds passive and kind of insecure. And as she said, she basically thinks she's following your lead. So her taking the initiative to talk to you while she's away when you haven't shown much interest doesn't seem like something she would do.
I don't know her or what she's thinking, so no idea if she really doesn't care one way or the other about what's going on between the two of you, or if she has feelings that she just isn't willing to let you know because she doesn't want to feel vulnerable or set her self up for disappointment.
If you ask her about what she wants and you get a non-answer that deflects the question, you need to ask again. "I don't know" isn't a non-answer, and if you're willing to be patient and see if she figures it out, then stick it out. Sometimes though, people give an "I don't know" as a lie when they do know -- they just want to keep a situation that's pleasant for them going without regard to the other person's feelings.
Being in a relationship with someone where you have to drag things out of them can be exhausting.
Evan Anderson
How do you think reading this feels as someone who has only ever been viewed as betabux and will only ever be viewed as betabux?
Tyler Moore
I’d like to know how to do the opposite and save money from not dating
Jose Nelson
>i get casual sex easy >sex easy Found your problem
Jackson Jackson
You don't date a whore unless you want to be cheated on. Is it that hard to comprehend?
Blake Walker
We all want intimacy, I just want emotional intimacy too.
When does a girl become a whore?
So, really all I can do is nag and hope she's happy?
Eli Sanders
>hairy girls like hairy guys? What is hairy to you? I got a beard? I got some body hair? or I am a full blown bear?
Colton Ward
I only get my hairyness from my white side, so I'm not crazy hairy but I get positive reactions about my facial hair and chest hair the most.
Apparently its a hormonal thing for them.
Robert Green
>Apparently its a hormonal thing for them. that´s what I always assumed. Except for the facial hair, I always thought most of them like shaved.
Landon Sanders
If you are as good looking as you say, you are gonna be thought of more for sex than a regular dude. If you want a gf you'll want to do 2 things 1. don't be sleeping around so much, it is a distraction 2. focus on emotional connection
Connor Gutierrez
I dunno if its necessarily how I look. Either way, I try to find the emotional connection but it can be hard to turn down sex from a girl you find attractive and these days its even harder to find a girl who won't offer sex when she's into you.
I usually have a 5 O'Clock shadow or a porn stache, so maybe stick to what works for you facial hair wise.
But then you risk just being the idiot provider who performs all the boyfriend functions while some other guy/s reap the boyfriend rewards.
Levi Price
Crazy way of understanding it all, thanks.
Tier 5 being 50, and tier 1 being 1, I'd say the women I've been with have averaged in the 42-36 range. I'd say the most recent is probably a 29 or a 30 in all honesty.
Bleak.
Camden Perez
things can change, and there isn't necessarily anything wrong with going after "lower" tiers if that is all you desire, but since you want something deeper, it's time to up your standards about the women you see
Cooper Gutierrez
YOU CAN'T TURN A HO INTO A HOUSEWIFE
Henry Sullivan
This, my boy. You want a good girl, but you chase the bad pussy.
Austin Ward
Fuck on the third date and you're still a whore, you're just delusional on top of that for thinking otherwise. >When does a girl become a whore? If she has (or is planning to have) non-marital sex. Same applies to you, manwhore. Gas yourself.
Eli Sanchez
Cope
Lincoln Martin
>Turning FWBs into GFs A friend with benefits is seeing you because you take them out/lay good pipe. The reality is that it isn't exclusive and they have other friends with benefits, it is relatively cheap living for women who do this and have more than one FWB. If you want to turn a woman who casually sees you (and other men) for sex into a partner you will need to get her emotionally invested then get her to consider seeing you exclusively.
How to get someone emotionally invested in you Extended skin contact, have her stay the night, cuddle, skin on skin contact... ever wonder why skin on skin contact is important for babies bonding with parents? Take an interest in her life, she will love talking about herself and like telling you more and more if she thinks you will listen.
Dylan Cooper
>She told me that was really out of character for her oh boy
Aiden James
>I can get casual sex easy, but making them exclusive why in THE FUCK would you do this? are you retarded? just get more FWBs you moron
Easton Harris
fuck off nigger
Jace Smith
When I roast her, I do it on the grounds she's actually a secret hoe.
