how does one live with being a socially isolated loser virgin?
>think about crush, she's probably out with Chad
>think about people out having fun with friends, while you struggle to form basic connections with anyone
thinking about this makes me cry
pic related
It's not something you want to live with, but music helps. Time helps the pain fade and try to learn from this torture your mind is putting itself through.
>pic related
that's what you get when your crush is porn actress
you get used to wanting to end it all after a while.
You're worried you're not having sex with women, you might someday. Yes, having a rough upbringing and having the wrong people around can harm your development but if you're not completely screwed try to get out of your situation if you can. Think of it this way, be thankful you're not in the shoes of other people out there. Some people have to worry everyday someone might blow up in front of them, other people have to eat rocks and dirt for breakfast, other people are trying to make a living in slave conditions. I know what some of these people go through, I've been to some of these dark places and I think to myself my problems are nothing compared to theirs.
>Some people have to worry everyday someone might blow up in front of them, other people have to eat rocks and dirt for breakfast, other people are trying to make a living in slave conditions.
yeah and they STILL manage to get laid lmao
Maybe, but you're telling me you'd rather live that way if it meant getting laid? You wouldn't complain about more potentially serious problems?
I'm 26 khv female and in same boat. It doesn't make me sad, just bitter.
Just go talk to people, I guarantee you will find someone you can assimilate with. You're not like me. Someone who doesn't even WANT to be around others. I'm truly fucked.
just be yourself
Nothing wrong with being a virgin. It's far more suspect if you're trying to be a manwhore. As for social isolation, you can fix that if you want, just go to events relating to what interests you and meet people.
>Someone who doesn't even WANT to be around others. I'm truly fucked.
Better than being a whore
Realize you're crush will never make you happy and avoid her
Poor lady stubbed her toe OP, stop bulli :(
I think about planes
I like planes
I have 49 hours of flight time on the very little ones
I want to fly the big ones someday
Makes me forget that I am a 21 year old virgin with only 33 credits after 3 years
why not?
she would be a friend that i would have sex with. cure me of my social isolation, my virginity and will provide companionship and support
>tfw had a dream about her last night
>not sexual
>i bumped into her randomly and we chatted about what's new in our life
Then fix it, you weakling.
Many people start out like that, unable to naturally form connections and read social environments. The difference is that instead of complaining like a 14 year old prepubescent girl, they work hard to learn those talents and solve those problems.
Most people do the fixing in high school or college. But I let that opportunity pass.
While I want to fix myself, I'm also now pushing 30 and the lack of social grace (rightfully) creeps people out. I don't know where to go to find people that will endure my presence and help me learn, except a therapist/speech pathologist which I can't afford, and the question hangs over my head if there's even a point for how little of the meaningful part of my adult life there is left.
The focus is on the wrong thing, every guy here who struggles with women doesn’t listen to their first instinct.
You need to be better, whatever that means for you the goal is to attract not chase women down. A woman will crush on you if you put the right energy into your own life, what are the reasons you’ve been rejected? Figure out what needs to change the hard way, or put some brain cells together and fix it without heartbreak.
i've tried to fix it. nothing has worked. it's too late for me too, i'm old
Everyone meets their partner online now, Facebook was built as a dating site for college students. Anyone can meet up and discuss topics they both care about. Jow Forums is like calling up a sex chat line and listening to everyone group chat. You won’t get much wisdom out of a site people go to for fapping. You’d think the true self could come out after cumming but that’s a meme. There’s only shame and self hate.
Point is no matter how late of a bloomer you are, there’s somebody who would be happy to be yours. It’s having high standards that keeps men perpetually alone. You don’t just start dating a model, you have to fuck a few goblins to get a fair maiden. You don’t have to believe me but if you want practice for the real thing then you’ll have to fuck down. Everyone wins, the ugly girl gets attention and you get confidence in pleasing a woman sexually.
Ok kill yourself. See you space cowboy
Stop tying your sense of self worth to having or not having a woman. You should get a hobby like gaming or anime or knitting.
Cope
>soi
If his lack of intimacy is making him suicidal is that really much different? His life is still in very real danger.
Same here i hate spending time with majority of people
26khhv male
I feel you
Actually right. As long as you're not a genuine schizoid then you'll be able to find a group of people that are like you no matter how different you are if you out in the effort.
have sex
trying
it sucks being a virgin since you haven't experienced what every "normal" person my age (30s) has experienced
>events
i go to events. but just talking to people, having interesting conversations is hard
most people go to events with friends, so i'd have to interrupt a group already talking to each other